#1: finally warming up! :)
My husband didn't really like the idea of natural hair. The first few times i attempted to wear it curly (I believe I'm somewhere in the 3C/4A type) he told me it looked messy, even when i threw it up in buns. My hair was slightly shorter, its just above SL curly so I was just wearing weaves so it looked neater for him. A few months ago I decided I was tired of the weaves and have been experimenting with styles (haven't had much luck yet) but I mostly wear buns. I finally found a copy of CR's Good Hair and we watched it. it totally changed his whole perspective, mostly the prices lmao. I'm pretty excited now and he has been way more supportive.