Auntie Bubbs

Sami, it's completely inappropriate for a teacher to tell you you'd look gorgeous if you wore your hair, clothes, or anything a certain way. I hope you know that. It doesn't matter if the teacher is the same sex as you are, either.

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That's me with FSG as my styler!!

3b. fine & thick, coarse, dry, medium porosity. Sucks up product and loves ACVs! FSG is my HG!

Currently using:
Low Poo: TJ's Refresh No Poo: CoWash w/VO-5; Sonoma Soap Company sulfate-free poo
RO: Yes to Cuc; SSC Lavender Condish; Sally GVP LI: Donna Marie Miracle D&C
Style: FSG w/Aussie Instant Freeze & CIAB

empressri

he's a high-maintenance boy?? metrosexual??

oooh hell no I'd have jokes on him for days. By the time I'd be through he would NEVER comment on my appearance again.

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Lady Hasytal in the Land of Product in the Order of the Curly Crusaders

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naturalNstylish

Society just can't let go of the long, silky hair. I'm afraid it's here to stay but who cares? I love being kinky curly and will continue to be that way no matter what anyone says!

Ditch the "best friend".

Sami

I don't know if it came out sounding weird or anything, but the comment was really casual and did not sound inappropriate at all. But I'll be sure to keep that in mind in the future!

raindear

"If you straighten your hair every day you'll look gorgeous."

So, to please your preconceptions of beauty, I should spend hours damaging my hair every day? Umm, no thanks.

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Be Happy!

Type:2b/3ab?
Texture:Medium/fine
Porosity:Normal
Elasticity:Normal

Experimenting with too many products to name here. All this great info keeps my head spinning.

Scrit

Seriously? He's a jerk.
I've been through this kind of comments,but if he talks you down that way he's no real friend.
Don't change your hair and tell him that you like it the way it is and if he hs sugestions of a pretty curly haircut or style he can go ahead.

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lj_princess

That guy seems rude. I have a friend like that, from a different school and every time i go see her there, she *****es on and on about my hair...while she has that long CURLY weave on...i don't get it! needless to say i dumped that friend not long ago. Ppl like that aren't worth it

CurlyJulia

Dude needs to get over himself.

So, here was my situation. I'm 54, post-meno, short dyed/damaged hair. I discovered a mousse that enhanced my curl, so I went with it. (Unfortunately it's too expensive, and not CG, to boot!)

Walk into work the next day, the first thing I hear is "WOW! Love the curly hair!" from a (male) colleague. Way to make my day!

It helps that he has curly hair, too.

I'm so sorry to hear that people are anti-curly hair. For whatever reason, I'm surrounded by folks who think it's great!

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Dye free since 8/2/12
CG since 6/29/12
Type: 2c/3a, medium, thick
Cowash: Suave TC Conditioner
Poo: SM Coconut-Hibiscus Shampoo
Curl Enhancment: CJCCCC!!,
Gels: HETT, BRHG, EcoStyler
Mousse: Deva Frizz-free Volumizing Foam
PT: IA Girl's Gelatin PT

Experimenting with VO5 Kiwi-Lime for Condish styling, as well as looking for an affordable substitute for Deva FFVF.