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Julesonline 01-09-2013 07:54 PM

What is the CRAZIEST thing you have done out of frustration with your hair?
 
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I recently was talking with a friend who has curly hair and we had this discussion.

When I was 11 years old I hated my hair. My mom was always making me brush it out (can you say fuzzball?) and I hated my smaller diameter curls and wanted the larger looser curls that I felt we're pretty. So, I got it into my head that if I could get a perm with larger rollers, my hair would curl differently. Needless to say, my mom and hair stylist looked at each other and tried their best to convince me not to do it, but stubborn as I was I could not be convinced. I got the perm and no kidding....Rosanne Rosannadana

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was my nickname that year!!

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Korkscrew 01-10-2013 03:12 AM

I almost tried that too back in the day. The stylist did look at me like I'd asked her to stab me in the liver. I - almost word for word - asked for the same thing you wanted: a looser curl pattern. But I also wanted a "frizz free" look. I thought a perm might do that. She wouldn't do it. Told me it'd ruin my hair.

But I did something just as foolish (an alternative form of the traditional curly perm), and I've talked about it here in the forums: allowed a woman to give me a Jheri curl, but I didn't know that's what she was doing. My hair had been down to my shoulders before the treatment and my curls were up to my ears afterward. Also, it looked like an oil slick. And the activator smell? - oy gevalt - was horrible ... Ah the irony of using an activator spray to activate naturally curly hair that has been artificially curled.

What a disaster :geek:

curlypearl 01-11-2013 02:50 AM

I cut it myself. Now, I know that many curlies cut their own hair successfully. I should have known better! I looked like a cross between a hedgehog and a porcupine. The ends split. It was horrible. I kept cutting more hoping to fix it. In the end I went to a stylist.

Some people are not cut out (sorry - horrible pun) to cut their own hair!

jeepcurlygurl 01-15-2013 02:49 PM

Pretty much everything I did over the years was crazy, ridiculous, damaging, and a terrible waste of time, money, and tears.
Ironing it with a clothes iron.
Rolling it up in soup cans.
All manner of perms and straighteners.
Flat irons and crimpers.
Salon hair cuts.

Life is sure better now that I just let it do it's thing. And finding cheap products that keep it healthy and help it look great (most of the time) is a bonus.

lexiinamor 01-16-2013 10:50 AM

I got dreadlocks :P They didn't suit me (although they look great on some people), they damaged my hair, and I missed out on the beauty of curly hair :( They were fun but my curl that I have naturally is way prettier and looks way better on me :D So happy it's healthy again and getting long!! (won't do that again...)

Kilajo 01-16-2013 11:10 AM

Used clippers to shave my head down to about a half inch of hair about 15 years ago. I was so frustrated because every time I straightened my hair it would frizz in humidity (like curly hair does) so I just said the heck with it. I shaved it and no more frizz. Wore it like this for about a year and then grew it back out.

mcheryce 01-16-2013 11:30 AM

Got a relaxer. I couldn't get my pick through my hair so I said screw it. At the time I had been natural for a couple years. At the time I also didn't know I was supposed to detangle with conditioner. Curlies where were you when I needed you?? Lol!

kibs 01-18-2013 10:13 AM

The two worst things I ever did out of frustration were 1. hacked it ALL off to a very short bob. Which in reality was just a way to force me to straighten it every single day because when its that short and I try to skip a day it goes all q-tip fluffy on me. and 2. I tried to get highlights to hide my gray hair growing in. I've had gray hair since I was a teenager, now i'm 27 and i'm probably 70% gray. I was so SICK of dying it all the time to hide it, so I thought highlights might help hide it easier than dying the roots every month. The lady did these big chunky pieces and I have dark brown hair, and I ended up with ORANGE skunk streaks. It was awful lol

Ericachristina 01-18-2013 04:13 PM

When I didn't know anything about taking care of curly hair I use to flat iron it almost daily on the highest heat setting. I didn't know anything about how to wake up with second day hair either so I would wake up and flat iron my already flat ironed( but slightly wavy from sleeping on it ) hair. I didn't even really use a heat protectant and I was using sulfates to wash it. When you are clueless and you don't stop and think about the consequences its terrible. Other people thought my hair looked good, it was long and shiny because of the products I was using but it wasn't healthy and it didn't grow any longer than a few inches below my bra for a long time. I finally smartened up learned how to care for my hair and love my curls and my hair is healthy waist length and looks a lot better.

lj_princess 01-21-2013 07:25 AM

Worst thing I ever did
I got quite bored with my hair over winter holidays. So i found this spray-on, flat-iron highlighting stuff at the drugstore and rushed home to try it.
BIG MISTAKE!!
I flat-ironed the sections i misted with that highlighting stuff and i heard a big sizzling noise, but no color appeared (my hair is a quite dark brown) I tried again and again, up to 8 times D: The hair just mostly snapped off and now I am stuck with one-inch short pieces on my top layer. Never trying at-home color again

BTW the product is Mark Anthony Easy-Lites just a heads up so you guys stay away from it...friendly advice!!

claudine19 01-21-2013 11:28 AM

There used to be some kind of thinning thing for men's short hair that I found around the house when I was young. It looked like a cross between those old "Daisy" razors and a regular men's hair shaver. I ran it through the back of my all one length hair and it basically shredded the cuticle and left it thinner in some spots and untouched in others.

I don't know what to compare it to: perhaps a badly cut lawn?

Dedachan 01-22-2013 07:20 AM

Cutting it short...I have never been able to grow my hair past shoulder lenght since. :angry1:

MLmaya 04-17-2013 08:24 PM

I've hacked off my hair fairly short (which looks HORRIBLE) several times because the heaviness and the tangles were driving me absolutely insane.

verlis 04-17-2013 08:40 PM

When I was 13/14 I had relaxed hair but I had micro braids for that summer. I love braids but I have no patience for taking them out so out the scissors came. It wasnt really that bad but my hair was shorter. My mom was hysterical. I learned the lesson of its just hair it grows back before I did my real big chop 10 years later.

Lotusthreads 04-18-2013 02:54 AM

Shaved my head to around 1/4 inch around 10 years ago. Kept it that way for a year, then took a long time to grow it out. But that year felt so freeing, not having to worry about my hair at all.

Fifi.G 06-04-2013 09:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Julesonline (Post 2099088)

Yeah, I had that hair too, in 7th grade. If I can find my school pic, I will post it. With me it had nothing to do with wanting a different curl pattern. I had curly hair until age 3, it went straight, and my natural curl started coming back around 14. During the 80's, when body waves were all the rage, I wanted one. My mom dropped me off at the salon, and the woman ruined me. I was 12, my hair was down to my butt, she cut it to the middle of my back, and by the time she was done it was above my chin and I had a 3 inch chemical burn on my neck. She used the smallest rollers, or blue hair specials as I like to call them.

Other than that I have had my hair buzzed, had it dyed any and every color you can think of, went from beautiful tighter curls that were down to the middle of my back to a crazy short cut that looked like a bush. All thanks to Drew B's hair in Boys On The Side. The last traumatic injury brought me here. I asked for a dark blonde/light brown hair color with some highlights around my face. The man who had been doing my hair for 7 years decided jet black with white skunk stripes would be better. My hair was horribly damaged and reduced to a slight wave. I had to go through several color corrects, but it's bouncing back.

Neirelle 06-15-2013 10:57 PM

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Damaged the bottom of my hair by bleaching two pieces 3 times in one day and not seperating them with all my other hair.. Those two piecies of hair fell off in a week..Attachment 36425

Litanna23 06-17-2013 09:58 PM

I cut mine crazy short. I had long hair all my life and hated it growing up. and since so many kids and grown-ups said it was a distraction, in my frustration, I chopped it off. OMG my hair sprung up and curled, I looked like a Q-tip. Needless to say though, those people who told me to cut it never looked more green. X)

chloe92us 06-19-2013 09:50 AM

This is kind of gross, but last summer I volunteered at my son's summer camp. At that time, my hair was below bra strap length and this was before CG, so it was dry and frizzy. Well, I picked up head lice there! I attempted to use the nit comb to pick out the eggs, but my hair was so damaged I couldn't get that comb through. So, I put it in a ponytail and chopped off about 8" right in the bathroom. Threw the ponytail in the garbage and went to work. Two days later, the ordeal was over and I got everything out. But I went 6 MONTHS before I bothered to fix the chop! I wore my hair in a ponytail so no one noticed, but when it was wet it was completely zig-zagged. Finally, I got it fixed (and had to tell the stylist WHY my hair was like that....) and then I found NC.com and my hair has been transformed forever. The end.

CurlyGrey3 06-19-2013 09:57 AM

Lol! Great story! I lived in fear of lice while my kids were in grade school. We were SO lucky.

I once tried to cut my hair myself. It was typical summer humidity and I couldn't take the frizz one more minute. I went to see my friend at work and she sent me directly to the hair cutting place.


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