Neirelle

So my "friend" told me i could never have healthy hair because i have a frizzy curly hair. She always tell me that i should get a straight perm if i want healthy hair. Ughh it get so annoying. I already got a straight perm when i was kid.(Worst mistake ever)Fortunately my curl pattern went back but i still straight my hair after tht. But now i realized that curly hair is beautiful! Im 2 months CG . Anyways back to my "friend" i dnt know how to deal with her she is sometimes a good friend but whenever she says that about my hair it makes me mad. People like her motivates me to have healthy curly hair!! i will show her i can have healthy curly hair! I know it will take time but i am so determined!! Anyways i dont know what to say her. I dont want to be mean or anything. I dont know any better way to deal with her. Plus she is one of those people with pin straight hair and trims their hair every month and if she sees a split end on one piece of her hair. She panics.

Krullenbol

Well, I don't want to offend you or your friend but your friend is ignorant. She obviously has no knowledge about curly hair, so her comments are somewhat unintelligent. If you have curly hair and you put a perm in it or a relaxer then it will not of might not be healthy because you only put chemicals in your hair, so the comment of your friend telling you to put a perm in it makes no sense at all. Besides, let her know that you like your hair, it's your hair not hers, so she should get off your back.

Everyones hair can be healthy, curly hair is more fragile than straight hair, but that doesn't mean it can't be healthy.

Sayoon

Tell her to shut up then smile and change the subject simples