It has taken me well over a year and a half to fall in love with my hair. I've had people tell me my whole life that my hair is beautiful. However, when you lived in a time when straight hair was considered beautiful it is hard to love your hair. Like I said, it has taken me a year to love it but even though I love it, there are people who still tell me I would look better with straight hair. It is then that my self confidence takes a hit. Why can't people just appreciate my hair and realize how unhealthy it is for my hair for me to straighten it and treat it like it is straight. Especially guys.