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Old 12-06-2006, 09:45 AM   #1
 
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do you ever imagine what it would be like to have sex with someone. Not someone you actually want to have sex with but maybe a co-worker or an acquaintence who you know as a person and you recognized their idiosyncracies and you can't imagine what sex with them would be like?

For example, Iknow a guy how is a motor mouth. constantly talking and I"m like, "I wonder if he's like that during sex. Just yapping away. I also know a guy who's a real cut-up, always has the one-liner. So I can totally see him doing his business and cracking jokes at the same time.
Am I the only one who wonders how people are during sex?
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Old 12-06-2006, 09:49 AM   #2
 
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Honestly, I find that now that I'm getting sex on a regular basis I think about it a lot less when I'm not having it. It's like water. When you know you can get a glass of water whenever you want, you don't think about it. But when you don't know where your next glass is coming from, all you can do is think about water.
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Old 12-06-2006, 09:53 AM   #3
 
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Occasionally I do that. Usually the thought just strikes out of the blue and makes me all GAH because I do not want to be thinking about having sex with this person.
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Old 12-06-2006, 09:53 AM   #4
 
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yeah, but Im not thinking about it from an "I want to get it on with you" standpoint just a curiosity because that person normally is kind of annoying, wonder if he is also annoying in bed standpoint.
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yeah, but Im not thinking about it from an "I want to get it on with you" standpoint just a curiosity because that person normally is kind of annoying, wonder if he is also annoying in bed standpoint.
And here I thought it was because you liked me.

Yes I do that. Definately more so with people I wouldn't have sex with but the whole correlating personality into a contrived "fantasy" of sorts runs through my head. And then I do the Geeky "GAH" thing.
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yeah, but Im not thinking about it from an "I want to get it on with you" standpoint just a curiosity because that person normally is kind of annoying, wonder if he is also annoying in bed standpoint.
Yeah. I try to stop myself before I get to that point. Yeesh.
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Old 12-06-2006, 10:24 AM   #7
 
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oh GB, you know I Lurrrrrve you! I don't need an excuse to fantasize about you.
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yeah, but Im not thinking about it from an "I want to get it on with you" standpoint just a curiosity because that person normally is kind of annoying, wonder if he is also annoying in bed standpoint.
I've wondered that before from the standpoint you're talking about with various people. As for my co-workers (all men), I find myself wondering more when they last had sex since it's something that is not noticeable when we all come into work or talk about . I guess I've worked them too long to wonder if their idiosyncracies show up during sex.
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Old 12-06-2006, 03:25 PM   #9
 
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I guess I've worked them too long to wonder if their idiosyncracies show up during sex.
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Depends. I first have to imagine if I can kiss someone. If I can't get past the kiss-test, then I can't do the sex imagination thing...it's too ugly.

I know a woman who is a VERY heavy smoker. She's not a friend, just an acquaintence. She's never without a cigarette in her mouth. I do sometimes wonder about her having sex...like, does she stop smoking long enough for sex, or does she just put an ashtray on his head?
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Depends. I first have to imagine if I can kiss someone. If I can't get past the kiss-test, then I can't do the sex imagination thing...it's too ugly.

I know a woman who is a VERY heavy smoker. She's not a friend, just an acquaintence. She's never without a cigarette in her mouth. I do sometimes wonder about her having sex...like, does she stop smoking long enough for sex, or does she just put an ashtray on his head?
What a visual!
To answer the original question, I have often wondered what people are like during sex as well. Like you said FC, not necessarily that I would want to be the one having sex with them... just wonder how they are.
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Yep. Maybe that's why I am attracted to men who are good with their hands
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I think about it sometimes. Blech.
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Maybe that's why I am attracted to men who are good with their hands
Ditto. I love the way a man's hands look after he's been working outside or on a car.
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Occasionally I do that. Usually the thought just strikes out of the blue and makes me all GAH because I do not want to be thinking about having sex with this person.
I do that too! Its like it pops into my head, and I can't stop it from appearing. Then I feel repulsed! ~~jax
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Old 12-07-2006, 04:11 PM   #17
 
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You guys, is this thread about me?
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No. I don't go there. Ick.
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