hahaha man you look back on old threads and it's clear how EVERYONE was two racoons short of a tree house, including myself. He is dumb and stupid and doesn't have the inner voice that tells him to do the right thing. He's just happy that this has affected his life in the least possible way and is still playing the victim. Don't need to tell me twice that it's not right.
I am not still with him, I've moved away and have gained much needed clarity.