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Old 11-14-2011, 03:24 PM   #41
 
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I once got my period as I was peeing on the test stick, I kid you not. It was the weirdest thing. While I was indeed relieved, I also wished it had happened before I spent the money on the test!

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I don't want to be the wet blanket, but if you don't want a baby, stop having unprotected sex.
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People do get pregnant when using condoms too you know..

but I think some people think if they use condoms its solid 'you can't get pregnant' but that's not true.. the only form of contraceptives that 100% wont guarantee a pregnancy is abstinence .. you can use condoms, the pill, the ovulation date thing but it won't always guarantee a non pregnancy scare.. just saying.
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People do get pregnant when using condoms too you know..

but I think some people think if they use condoms its solid 'you can't get pregnant' but that's not true.. the only form of contraceptives that 100% wont guarantee a pregnancy is abstinence .. you can use condoms, the pill, the ovulation date thing but it won't always guarantee a non pregnancy scare.. just saying.
Of course they do, and yes abstinence is the only way to 100% not get pregnant.
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I don't want to be the wet blanket, but if you don't want a baby, stop having unprotected sex.
I'm not sure if you read from the beginning but my bf and I were not against having a baby at the time of intercourse. We broke up now and I don't want a baby by someone who I am no long seeing...


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I'm not sure if you read from the beginning but my bf and I were not against having a baby at the time of intercourse. We broke up now and I don't want a baby by someone who I am no long seeing...


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I don't want to be the wet blanket, but if you don't want a baby, stop having unprotected sex.
I'm not sure if you read from the beginning but my bf and I were not against having a baby at the time of intercourse. We broke up now and I don't want a baby by someone who I am no long seeing...


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Well then your response was unnessessary. I know how to prevent pregnancy, at the time I wasn't trying to prevent pregnancy...


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I'm not sure if you read from the beginning but my bf and I were not against having a baby at the time of intercourse. We broke up now and I don't want a baby by someone who I am no long seeing...


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I'm not sure if you read from the beginning but my bf and I were not against having a baby at the time of intercourse. We broke up now and I don't want a baby by someone who I am no long seeing...


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Wowww. I remember when I thought I was pregnant. (The condom broke....) I was freaking out, me and my boyfriend at the time went to the store and bought Plan B the next morning. I was freaking out so much I swear I could feel my lower tummy quiver. Lol. I waited about a week, but never took a pregnancy test. My period came the last minute. I called my boyfriend and told him. He said "Whew!!!!!!" Lmao. I was so glad, but I always made sure to check the condom to make sure there there were no holes. I also made sure he took the condom off on the other side of the room. I'm planning on going on birth control, but I don't know where to start.

But seriously, staying calm really helps. Most likely you're not pregnant, but keep your mind open. And maybe think about going on birth control, so when you have unprotected sex (meaning no condom), you won't have to worry as much. Good luck.
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Wowww. I remember when I thought I was pregnant. (The condom broke....) I was freaking out, me and my boyfriend at the time went to the store and bought Plan B the next morning. I was freaking out so much I swear I could feel my lower tummy quiver. Lol. I waited about a week, but never took a pregnancy test. My period came the last minute. I called my boyfriend and told him. He said "Whew!!!!!!" Lmao. I was so glad, but I always made sure to check the condom to make sure there there were no holes. I also made sure he took the condom off on the other side of the room. I'm planning on going on birth control, but I don't know where to start.

But seriously, staying calm really helps. Most likely you're not pregnant, but keep your mind open. And maybe think about going on birth control, so when you have unprotected sex (meaning no condom), you won't have to worry as much. Good luck.
Yeah, I'm not really worrying anymore. I got 2 negatives do I doubt I'm pregnant. The doc did say that different people show lower amounts of hcg in the beginning so it's not impossible but I doubt it still. I am surprised tho that since I've stopped worrying it STILL hasn't shown!

As I said before, it wouldn't be an issue if it wasn't for me breaking up with him. We were planning on getting married and stuff so we weren't against having a baby...now that we aren't together I was concerned because I never wanted to have a "baby daddy" lol, and I don't think I could handle an abortion or adoption.


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What kind of condomess [pun intended accidently] are folks using that come off or break?!
And I've never understood using a condom AND bc AND still getting pg?
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Wowww. I remember when I thought I was pregnant. (The condom broke....) I was freaking out, me and my boyfriend at the time went to the store and bought Plan B the next morning. I was freaking out so much I swear I could feel my lower tummy quiver. Lol. I waited about a week, but never took a pregnancy test. My period came the last minute. I called my boyfriend and told him. He said "Whew!!!!!!" Lmao. I was so glad, but I always made sure to check the condom to make sure there there were no holes. I also made sure he took the condom off on the other side of the room. I'm planning on going on birth control, but I don't know where to start.

But seriously, staying calm really helps. Most likely you're not pregnant, but keep your mind open. And maybe think about going on birth control, so when you have unprotected sex (meaning no condom), you won't have to worry as much. Good luck.
Yeah, I'm not really worrying anymore. I got 2 negatives do I doubt I'm pregnant. The doc did say that different people show lower amounts of hcg in the beginning so it's not impossible but I doubt it still. I am surprised tho that since I've stopped worrying it STILL hasn't shown!

As I said before, it wouldn't be an issue if it wasn't for me breaking up with him. We were planning on getting married and stuff so we weren't against having a baby...now that we aren't together I was concerned because I never wanted to have a "baby daddy" lol, and I don't think I could handle an abortion or adoption.


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Then you shouldn't have been having unprotected sex. Until there is a legal and binding agreement to each other (i.e. marriage), then you might as well be telling every guy you sleep with--love, commitment, intent to be together, or not--that you want HIM to be your baby daddy.

I hope you realize you made a huge, huge, potentially-life-changing mistake, and that only luck has saved you from being a single young mother without a college degree. If you were pregnant, you would have to deal with the consequences. Either way--pregnant or not--what you CAN do is learn from this. If this situation stressed you out, and if you don't want to be in it again, you won't have unprotected sex again until the marriage license is signed and/or you are ready, willing and able to be a single mom.
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Wowww. I remember when I thought I was pregnant. (The condom broke....) I was freaking out, me and my boyfriend at the time went to the store and bought Plan B the next morning. I was freaking out so much I swear I could feel my lower tummy quiver. Lol. I waited about a week, but never took a pregnancy test. My period came the last minute. I called my boyfriend and told him. He said "Whew!!!!!!" Lmao. I was so glad, but I always made sure to check the condom to make sure there there were no holes. I also made sure he took the condom off on the other side of the room. I'm planning on going on birth control, but I don't know where to start.

But seriously, staying calm really helps. Most likely you're not pregnant, but keep your mind open. And maybe think about going on birth control, so when you have unprotected sex (meaning no condom), you won't have to worry as much. Good luck.
Yeah, I'm not really worrying anymore. I got 2 negatives do I doubt I'm pregnant. The doc did say that different people show lower amounts of hcg in the beginning so it's not impossible but I doubt it still. I am surprised tho that since I've stopped worrying it STILL hasn't shown!

As I said before, it wouldn't be an issue if it wasn't for me breaking up with him. We were planning on getting married and stuff so we weren't against having a baby...now that we aren't together I was concerned because I never wanted to have a "baby daddy" lol, and I don't think I could handle an abortion or adoption.


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Then you shouldn't have been having unprotected sex. Until there is a legal and binding agreement to each other (i.e. marriage), then you might as well be telling every guy you sleep with--love, commitment, intent to be together, or not--that you want HIM to be your baby daddy.

I hope you realize you made a huge, huge, potentially-life-changing mistake, and that only luck has saved you from being a single young mother without a college degree. If you were pregnant, you would have to deal with the consequences. Either way--pregnant or not--what you CAN do is learn from this. If this situation stressed you out, and if you don't want to be in it again, you won't have unprotected sex again until the marriage license is signed and/or you are ready, willing and able to be a single mom.
What I was asking for was pregnancy test stories, not judgement or analysis on my life, thanks...


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What kind of condomess [pun intended accidently] are folks using that come off or break?!
And I've never understood using a condom AND bc AND still getting pg?
I've always been skeptical of people who said they got pregnant on bc. Or the people who said the condom must have broken but they didn't notice until their period was late.


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I just want to add that if you have already ovulated, stress will not delay how long till your period from the point of ovulation. Stress can delay ovulation for sure, but once you have ovulated, the luteal phase (the part of the cycle between ovulation and period) stays a pretty consistent length.

So just because you are stressed or relaxed now will not make your period come sooner or later.
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Yeah, I'm not really worrying anymore. I got 2 negatives do I doubt I'm pregnant. The doc did say that different people show lower amounts of hcg in the beginning so it's not impossible but I doubt it still. I am surprised tho that since I've stopped worrying it STILL hasn't shown!

As I said before, it wouldn't be an issue if it wasn't for me breaking up with him. We were planning on getting married and stuff so we weren't against having a baby...now that we aren't together I was concerned because I never wanted to have a "baby daddy" lol, and I don't think I could handle an abortion or adoption.


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Then you shouldn't have been having unprotected sex. Until there is a legal and binding agreement to each other (i.e. marriage), then you might as well be telling every guy you sleep with--love, commitment, intent to be together, or not--that you want HIM to be your baby daddy.

I hope you realize you made a huge, huge, potentially-life-changing mistake, and that only luck has saved you from being a single young mother without a college degree. If you were pregnant, you would have to deal with the consequences. Either way--pregnant or not--what you CAN do is learn from this. If this situation stressed you out, and if you don't want to be in it again, you won't have unprotected sex again until the marriage license is signed and/or you are ready, willing and able to be a single mom.
What I was asking for was pregnancy test stories, not judgement or analysis on my life, thanks...


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As I said before, it wouldn't be an issue if it wasn't for me breaking up with him. We were planning on getting married and stuff so we weren't against having a baby...now that we aren't together I was concerned because I never wanted to have a "baby daddy" lol, and I don't think I could handle an abortion or adoption.


Not to beat a dead horse, but...

How can you go from baby-making-wanna-get-married to broken-up-don't-want-a-baby-daddy all in 2 weeks?
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As I said before, it wouldn't be an issue if it wasn't for me breaking up with him. We were planning on getting married and stuff so we weren't against having a baby...now that we aren't together I was concerned because I never wanted to have a "baby daddy" lol, and I don't think I could handle an abortion or adoption.


Not to beat a dead horse, but...

How can you go from baby-making-wanna-get-married to broken-up-don't-want-a-baby-daddy all in 2 weeks?
Right. And why do I have a feeling that the "dad" might not have been clued in on these "it's cool if I get knocked up" plan.

Purely speculating, obvly. But yeah, there are some holes in this plot.
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What kind of condomess [pun intended accidently] are folks using that come off or break?!
And I've never understood using a condom AND bc AND still getting pg?
WileE, user-error is the most likely cause for a condom slipping off or breaking. The primary errors are an ill-fitting condom (either too small or :snicker: too big) and improper application (usually due to inexperience).
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