Thank you, Jesse James

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Has anyone read Kat Von D's note on her FB page? Wow!!

Thank you, Jesse James

Apparently he has cheated on her 19 times this year. He has some really deep issues to work out. I feel bad for Kat. I don't really follow her but she really seems like a nice reflective, articulate person.

Sure, its easy to tell someone, "I told you so” especially if you're criticizing someone from the outside, but that attitude comes from a place called Ego, and not Love.

I know I deserve a big fat "I told you so,” from everyone, and wish I didn't have to say, "You all were more right than you'll ever know” but you were.
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Just in case someone can't see the page:

Never have I felt so strong about True Love, than I do today. I believe in Love more than anything else, and more than ever before.


Today I encountered the 19th girl to add to the list of people Jesse cheated on me with during this last year.

I kept going back and forth in my mind as to what the best way would be for me to release and let go of any residual feelings remaining from that toxic relationship. All of this may sound petty or immature to some, but I assure you this is coming from a place of pure honesty and love.


There was a time when I was confident and excited at proving the world wrong, because I believed so deeply in people's ability to change for the better. Although this was not a primary purpose in the relationship, I did feel like it would be a positive thing for those who judged Jesse solely based on what they read in tabloids, to see that change is always possible - even in the people who seem hopeless.


I still believe that, even if that change never occurs inside of him - because I see proof of change everyday - in others, and in myself.

I'm far from perfect, but am willing to examine myself, and my patterns of dysfunction, and then put in the work to better myself. It's a daily practice, but it’s working.


Sure, its easy to tell someone, "I told you so” especially if you're criticizing someone from the outside, but that attitude comes from a place called Ego, and not Love.

I know I deserve a big fat "I told you so,” from everyone, and wish I didn't have to say, "You all were more right than you'll ever know” but you were.

Not to worry, I've gladly paid the consequences for every mistake I've ever made, but learned so much from each of them.


Yes, I am pretty tired of getting mistaken for the girl who everyone believes to have broken up Jesse and Sandra's marriage, just because I have black hair and tattoos like that other gal. That does get a quite annoying at times, and it would be nice to not be associated with her, but that's trivial in the grand scheme of things.


I think it just made me sad today to imagine him still in that dark place - where seeking validation through the attention of women takes precedence over being a good father, a sincere friend, a better coworker, and a happy individual.


I tried my best to go through all of this without venting, or complaining, or fueling more tabloid mumbo jumbo - but this isn't about any of that.
This is about me making peace with myself, and forgiving myself for making some bad mistakes.

I don't want to sink into the feelings of regret, or resentment.

Because right now, for the first time in my life I have felt regret, (for someone like me, who's never felt that before, this is hard to say out loud).


Time is something you can never get back, and what we do with this very present moment is the most real thing we have. So if that's the lesson Jesse forced me to face and learn by all of this, than all I can say is Thank You.


It would be nice to move on now, and kindly thank you all in advance for your support, love, and positivity.


Life is far too grand to focus on the negative and put each other down.


Sending Love and Light to everyone, especially those who weren't always so kind,


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Wow.
I don't feel bad for KvD at all. She seems to fall in love every season, I mean, year. Who in her right mind would date Jesse James after how he cheated on Sandra Bullock, their breakup and how he acted in the media afterward? Ew... She seems kinda dense. Of course she doesn't want to hear, "I told ya so." But...duh...!

But, in her defense, her makeup rocks! lol...
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I'm with you, Phoenix. How could anyone not think Jesse James is a creep?
She may be quite articulate and feeling a life lesson has been learned, but my first response was only:

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA

I know I'm going to hell for that, gimmie my hand basket.




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Many women do the same thing, think they're going to be the one to change some man.

Oh well. Too bad this is her first time feeling regret I guess. Sounds like someone is growing up.
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I don't feel bad, isn't he racist...if not isn't he stupid...
She may be quite articulate and feeling a life lesson has been learned, but my first response was only:

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA

I know I'm going to hell for that, gimmie my hand basket.
Originally Posted by spring1onu



And I agree , CA. Some of these ladies want so badly to believe what these guys are saying about their exes ("She was crazy. She wasn't there for me" etc.) so they can think they're special this time. He won't cheat on them.

Pure ego.
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How can someone allegedly make it so long without feeling regtet in life? I remember feeling regret that I chose Frosted Flakes over Super Sugar Crisp at overnight camp.
I think she's qualifying "regret" differently than the rest of us, e.g.,

Level 1: Dang, should have chose the Sugar Smacks.
Level 2: Darn, shouldn't have ****ed/messed with/hooked up with/dated that guy.
Level 3: Damn, shouldn't have killed that person.

As you can see, there are various stages of regret. In Kat Von D' book, the first one does not really count. LOL
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^^^lol...I like how she goes from Sugar Smacks to murder in like 2 jumps.
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She may be quite articulate and feeling a life lesson has been learned, but my first response was only:

HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA HA

I know I'm going to hell for that, gimmie my hand basket.
Originally Posted by spring1onu
I'm going to have to join you in that hand basket. She expressed herself well, but I can't find it in me to feel badly for her.

Someone who cheats *with* you will usually cheat *on* you.

Call me weird, but I've only had level 1 regret under the Curlyarca Regret Scale.


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How can someone allegedly make it so long without feeling regtet in life? I remember feeling regret that I chose Frosted Flakes over Super Sugar Crisp at overnight camp.
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^^^lol...I like how she goes from Sugar Smacks to murder in like 2 jumps.
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He is gross.

And she is a moron. Obviously she found out about the cheating, and that is why she broke off the engagement the first time. And then she still got back together with him.

In the infamous words of Rachel Green... "Once a cheater, always a cheater."
one day i hope to read a sob story from angelina jolie.
these women are too much.
boo-hoo, i slept with a married man and he cheated on me, i never saw it coming....

Last edited by frau; 11-15-2011 at 03:13 AM.
I think Kat Von D got with Jesse James AFTER his divorce from Sandra. She's not the one he cheated with. I don't wish heartbreak on anyone and like someone else said she's guilty of doing what a lot not women have...the same thing some of you posting here about not feeling sorry for her have done and cried about on the boards (I'm just keeping it real). She thought she could change him. She thought her love/acceptance of him would be enough to change him or make him wanna change. That's one hell of a lesson to learn in a very public venue.


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I think Kat Von D got with Jesse James AFTER his divorce from Sandra. She's not the one he cheated with. I don't wish heartbreak on anyone and like someone else said she's guilty of doing what a lot not women have...the same thing some of you posting here about not feeling sorry for her have done and cried about on the boards (I'm just keeping it real). She thought she could change him. She thought her love/acceptance of him would be enough to change him or make him wanna change. That's one hell of a lesson to learn in a very public venue.


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Originally Posted by Nappy_curly_crown
I think you're right but if I recall there were some intereviews/statements where JJ & KVD "confessed" there was always something between them when they were "friends" and he was married to SB.

Plus KDV got a tattoo of the idiot's face on her body LOL
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