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03-08-2012, 02:00 AM
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Join Date: May 2003
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That sucks about the 'cool beans' mix-up. I know what it's like to not clarify something in the moment when it could have used being.
I think it will work itself out this weekend. You have a good intuition in how you're responding to everything, and I like the idea about making the move next if you sense he's a little scared off.
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03-08-2012, 02:03 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2010
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Aww this is so cute, I'm keeping my fingers cross for you and hope it goes smoothly. Like u said before you are both over thinking things plus from everything you said. From wat i read It seems like he had always liked you but est made it awkward for him is the fact that he didn't expect you to like him in return since u turned him down before. His mind is still in the process of comprehending the fact that u reciprocate the affect back to him. So like everyone said before be patience and see how far he will come around one he fully understand that u like him equally as well. Goodluck
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03-08-2012, 03:27 AM
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Join Date: Mar 2001
Posts: 13,879
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What's wrong with you giving him a kiss ? Takes care of the waiting & wondering & guys love it when you make the move. 
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03-08-2012, 11:01 AM
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Posts: 454
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I agree,make a move.He's probably a little apprehensive because He's worried he might do something wrong and completely turn you off. I'd go in for the kiss too!!
Don't be bummed! It's just a little awkward right now because It's new and neither of you know how to respond to the other's advances.
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03-08-2012, 11:14 AM
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Join Date: May 2010
Posts: 1,739
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Tell him that the kiss was great but "cool beans" is soooo 1997. Good luck!
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03-08-2012, 11:45 AM
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Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 4,236
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My first kiss with my husband was awful. It was literally a quick peck on the lips, like you'd give your aunt or grandma because he was so nervous. I was like, "Heck, no!" and gave that boy a proper smooch.  You both know you like each other; go ahead and make a move!
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03-08-2012, 12:12 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 782
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This helped soooo much, because that was exactly how it was...I was all ready to see fireworks and it was over before it began. I kinda find it a little cute that he was so nervous but kinda annoying!
I'm gonna take everyone's advice and just kiss him!
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03-08-2012, 12:21 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 739
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This is sooo cute. Its like reading a book! Lol I hope everything works itself out. Don't be nervous, just go for what you want and everything else will work its way out. Let us know how the weekend goes!
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Organics Hair Mayonnaise
Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In
Shea butter, olive oil, coconut oil, apricot oil, peppermint oil, tea tree oil, and eucalyptus oil
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03-08-2012, 02:33 PM
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#49
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Join Date: Jan 2010
Posts: 1,905
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Do it! He's a guy, they tend to not understand us very well. He's probably nervous and has no freakin clue that you're interested.
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Mix of 2s med-low porosity, med-fine texture, lots of hair
Playing: Beautiful Curls curl activating cream & L/I
Clarify 1-2x a month, lo-poo once a week, cowash 2x a week
Regimen: dime SheaM C&H Milk, 2 nickels LOOB/Biotera Gel, dime SheaM Smoothie/dime SheaM C&H milk mixed, plop overnight, 2 nickels BRHG, diffuse 10 minutes
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03-09-2012, 09:50 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 782
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Okay, another update...this is becoming a soap opera!
So, yesterday was terrible...he was weird all day . I hated it and was do super bummed. After sulking and being mad for a while, I decided I was going to fix things and go over there and kiss him. But when I called him he didn't answer which is really out of character. Then I was even more bummed and just went to bed!
I woke up a few hours later and had 3 missed calls from him and a text. So I called back and made plans to go over there, even tho it was really late. I needed to get this over with.
We ended up just watching tv and cuddling, the usual for us now, I guess. I was so nervous, so to eliminate the tension I just kissed him. It was good, not great, but good.
The rest of the night went smoothly. I think that we were both much more comfortable after we got that over with. When it was time to leave, he gave me a hug, and then a long, passionate kiss good night. It was perfect and amazing!!!! He's a great kisser!!!
I am totally over the moon right now!!!! I have a good feeling about this! Thank you, curlies for all of your great advice and positive thoughts and I will keep you all in the loop and let you know where things go!
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03-09-2012, 10:10 AM
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#51
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Join Date: May 2007
Posts: 4,236
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Yay!!
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03-09-2012, 10:11 AM
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Join Date: Nov 2006
Posts: 833
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Last edited by happyface; 04-21-2012 at 05:28 PM.
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03-09-2012, 02:52 PM
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Join Date: Dec 1969
Posts: 2,324
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03-09-2012, 03:12 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2011
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03-09-2012, 03:41 PM
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#55
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Join Date: Dec 2011
Posts: 454
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Yippeeeeeee!!!!! How wonderful! Enjoy the fireworks!
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03-09-2012, 03:58 PM
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Join Date: Feb 2011
Posts: 458
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Awe this is so cute - it reminds me of me and my hubby - we were really good buddies when I was dating another guy, when I broke up with the ex, my hubby was all weird and nervous for a week until I forced it out of him (he didn't want to be just a 'rebound'). We talked it out, kissed, and been together ever since.
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03-10-2012, 12:43 AM
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Join Date: Sep 2011
Posts: 253
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This made me smile. So cute and sweet! Aww.
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03-11-2012, 11:09 PM
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#58
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Join Date: Jun 2010
Posts: 443
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Aww I'm happy for you, enjoy it and be yourself around him always
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03-12-2012, 05:20 PM
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#59
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Join Date: Jul 2010
Posts: 739
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Yayyy!! Finally you got the big part out of the way! Im happy for you guys!
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Still loving my curls and kinks!
Products I love:
Ion Dandruff/Seborrheic Dermatitis Tar Shampoo
Elasta QP Conditoning Creme Shampoo
Elasta QP Intense Conditioner
Tigi Oatmeal/Honey Shampoo
Tigi Oatmeal/Honey Conditioner
Organics Hair Mayonnaise
Cantu Shea Butter Leave-In
Shea butter, olive oil, coconut oil, apricot oil, peppermint oil, tea tree oil, and eucalyptus oil
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03-21-2012, 07:34 PM
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#60
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 782
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So, I am just needing a bit of advice...
Things have been going well between me and my friend, I will call him L. We hang out a few times a week, usually cuddling and kissing is involved. We've also been intimate, but are not "in a relationship." a few days ago, his best friend, G (who I used to date years ago) asked me to
jailbreak his iPhone for him. I agreed but made sure that I told L about it. He seemed okay with it and even was on the phone with G part of the time.
While G and I were together, G kept asking me questions about L and I and saying that we make a cute couple. We talked about our past and G's feelings were, "you guys are best friends, that's the best type of relationship. You and I was so long ago and it wasn't that serious. You guys should just go for it" He told me that he expressed the same feelings to L.
So, today L and I were texting and out of nowhere he says, "hey, I have a date tonight but I don't feel like going, how should I get out of it?" wtf?! It felt like I was punched in the gut. I mean, I know I'm your best friend and I know we aren't official yet, but really, dude? Do you think he's trying to tell me something subtly? Maybe that he's not feeling this like I am? I'm confused and irritated.
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