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Old 02-25-2012, 07:46 AM   #21
 
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I'm in my late 20s.... I mean if I didn't know the boy and his family I might mess with him, put the whip appeal on him.

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WHAT? really?! Gross.


You are old enough to know better. A 20 something year old woman has no business doing anything with a young teen. Helllooo statutory rape.
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This is all kinds of strange. Also. The fact that you were babysitting a 17yo boy is very odd.


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Old 02-25-2012, 10:19 AM   #23
 
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Well if you're in your late twenties you shouldn't have to let him down you should put him in his place.
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This is all kinds of strange. Also. The fact that you were babysitting a 17yo boy is very odd.


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I think she meant that she used to babysit the teen when he was younger.

IRC 16-17 is "legal" in most places. I don't think I could get past the "ick" factor, though. I definitely wouldn't want to be almost 30 dating or otherwise involved with a teenager...
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Old 02-25-2012, 11:07 AM   #25
 
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While 17 is legal in most places, I wouldn't entertain it. Even when I was in my 20's, I wouldn't have entertained it. The two of you are at vastly different places in your lives and you're bound to have vastly different maturity levels. I don't see what you could possibly have in common with him. Run, don't walk away.
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Old 02-25-2012, 11:22 AM   #26
 
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I'm 21 and I wouldn't even entertain the idea of someone under 18, hell even 18.
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You are old enough to know better. A 20 something year old woman has no business doing anything with a young teen. Helllooo statutory rape.
Legality aside, it's gross. If I had a 17 year old daughter, I would not be happy if a man in his late-20s said that about her.
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:02 PM   #28
 
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Under federal law, 16 is the minimum age of consent. States can make the age higher, but not lower.

Regardless of what the age of consent is in your state, you have no business messing around with 16-year-olds.

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Old 02-25-2012, 12:11 PM   #29
 
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I'm in my late 20s and he's 16 or 17 not quite sure...I mean if I didn't know the boy and his family I might mess with him, put the whip appeal on him.

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Old 02-25-2012, 12:13 PM   #30
 
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You're in your LATE 20's?!?! Meaning, you're almost 30.years.old.

Why is it even a thought in your mind?

Why would you even take the time to start a thread about it?

The boy is a BOY. You are a FULL GROWN WOMAN staring down at 30.

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I'm in my late 20s and he's 16 or 17 not quite sure. So I call him a boy. This is not the 1st time this has happened, last time it was a teenager I used to babysit. I mean if I didn't know the boy and his family I might mess with him, put the whip appeal on him. He had a baby very recently which is what I mean by "literally". Is 17 still illegal? Cuz I've heard of 17 year olds getting charged with stat rape before.
I honestly hope you're not serious.

That's just nasty. The fact that you would "put the whip appeal on him" and even ask if 17 is legal makes me give YOU some serious side-eye.
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Old 02-25-2012, 12:29 PM   #31
 
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Can you clarify the title please? Who is the one with the teenage lust?
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Tell him "No."

And then tell him to put his energy to getting a job and supporting the child he created.

If he continues his behaviour, tell him to stop harassing you or you will get the rest of the family involved.
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You even have to ask this question?!?
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Old 02-25-2012, 01:08 PM   #34
 
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Still can't believe she said if she didn't know his fam, she would mess with a KID!

I cannot fathom why a grown woman would even entertain the idea of messing with someone who is not legal. It's crazy and gross. I'm 23 and wouldn't date someone who is younger than 21, 20 at most.

Wow, just wow at this whole thread.

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Still can't believe she said if she didn't know his fam, she would mess with a KID!

I cannot fathom why a grown woman would even entertain the idea of messing with someone who is not legal. It's crazy and gross. I'm 23 and wouldn't date someone who is younger than 21, 20 at most.

Wow, just wow at this whole thread.

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Agreed. Maybe the OP is one of those that thinks only men can be sex offenders and it's different for women.
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While 17 is legal in most places, I wouldn't entertain it. Even when I was in my 20's, I wouldn't have entertained it. The two of you are at vastly different places in your lives and you're bound to have vastly different maturity levels. I don't see what you could possibly have in common with him. Run, don't walk away.
@ the bolded: clearly they are not at such vastly different levels of maturity, since she is considering this and even asking about it.
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I'm in my late 20s and he's 16 or 17 not quite sure. So I call him a boy. This is not the 1st time this has happened, last time it was a teenager I used to babysit. I mean if I didn't know the boy and his family I might mess with him, put the whip appeal on him. He had a baby very recently which is what I mean by "literally". Is 17 still illegal? Cuz I've heard of 17 year olds getting charged with stat rape before.

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What is the 'whip appeal'?
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