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Old 04-05-2012, 11:05 AM   #141
 
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LOL, I (unknowingly) dated a Nazi briefly while I was young - once I found out, I dropped him like a hot potato, but he was perfectly willing to stay with me. He even tried to friend me on facebook recently. And I am also talking a real, actual Nazi who had swastikas on the wall of his room along with blatantly racist posters and the like.

My aunt (Black) was married to a man (Black) who did not consider himself Black because his father was white, and who was National Front (British political party whose raison d'être was expelling all Blacks and other people of colour from the country.)
How did he explain that one to you (and to himself)? I assume he (the Nazi) could tell you were Black when he met you...?

I'm very curious about people like this. I'm not trying to be too nosey. Yes, I am...
Yes, he fully well knew my background, which I talked to him about the first night we met. He complimented my hair all the time and compared it to that of other Black female celebrities.

He didn't tell me he was a Nazi. He did tell me his dad was racist and couldn't know about us. He then told me his dad was "suspicious" based on my voice on the phone. (I was young and naive and didn't know to run at this.) I saw the Nazi paraphanalia the first time I was at his house when his dad was not home and that's when I confronted him and he admitted it.

He said that he liked me because I was different from the other Blacks yada yada and stuff about my attractiveness and I think he was trying to tick off his dad and maybe struggling with the ideology to a degree.
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Old 04-05-2012, 11:16 AM   #142
 
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LOL, I (unknowingly) dated a Nazi briefly while I was young - once I found out, I dropped him like a hot potato, but he was perfectly willing to stay with me. He even tried to friend me on facebook recently. And I am also talking a real, actual Nazi who had swastikas on the wall of his room along with blatantly racist posters and the like.

My aunt (Black) was married to a man (Black) who did not consider himself Black because his father was white, and who was National Front (British political party whose raison d'être was expelling all Blacks and other people of colour from the country.)
How did he explain that one to you (and to himself)? I assume he (the Nazi) could tell you were Black when he met you...?

I'm very curious about people like this. I'm not trying to be too nosey. Yes, I am...
i always think ppl like that are mentally ill. like, there must be SOMETHING going wrong up there for you to be able to maintain that level of cognitive dissonance.
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Old 04-05-2012, 12:02 PM   #144
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It seems that quite a few proponents of racial purity are somehow able to put their convictions aside in order to, let's say, fulfill their urges.
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Amneris, your story reminded me of the time my cousin bought a neo-nazis home. In her defense, she's not too bright, so i could see what she wouldnt think anything of the tattoos on his arms.

she bought him very proundly to my grandma's on a sunday, when the whole family would be there. when they walked in the door, my black momma was the first to see him with a swastika on his arm. she told me his eyes got real big. almost immediatly me, my sister and my vietmenese(sp) cousin walked in.

my cousin proceeded to introduce everyone, "This is my aunt"(my momma). "these are my cousins" (my sister, my cousin, and me)...

When she got to my uncle, my uncle got bright red. no one knew what to do, i was young and didnt even notice, i just knew no one liked this guy. i over heard some i heard my dad and uncle(with vietnese daughter) say they going to take him out the the woods. i heard a couple aunts say they always knew my cousin was stupid, but not that stupid.

i think the guy sensed his life was in danger, so him adn my cousin didnt stay long. once they left everything exploded! my grandma was pissed, i have never seen her like that ever!!! she said the only reason she didnt say anything was she didnt want to hurt her granddaughter and wanted my uncle to talk to her first. my uncles wanted to kill him. my aunts wanted to kill my cousin. they couldnt believe she would bring someone like that around her family, knowing who her family is!! she was so oblivious, they really thought she was just plan stupid and had no clue. i have never seen my family so angry!

a few days later, my uncle cooled down enough to go see his daughter. i'm not sure what was said, but that boy never showed his face around us any more. and every now and again, an uncle would say something like, "You remember that racist SOB (my cousin) brought to mom's?", while having a very suspicious smirk on his face. I honestly wouldnt put in pass my uncles if they did something to him.
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It seems that quite a few proponents of racial purity are somehow able to put their convictions aside in order to, let's say, fulfill their urges.
Thomas Jefferson and Strom Thurmond would be at the top of that list.
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Jefferson's hypocrisy on the subject drives me nuts.
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Old 04-09-2012, 10:13 AM   #149
 
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Check out this article from USA TODAY:

Grand jury canceled in Trayvon case

http://usat.ly/HBwkQN
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Grand jury canceled in Trayvon case

Fla. special prosecutor to skip grand jury in Trayvon case

That means we know he won't be tried for First Degree Murder

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Grand jury canceled in Trayvon case

Fla. special prosecutor to skip grand jury in Trayvon case

That means we know he won't be tried for First Degree Murder

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That is correct. I never thought he would be. If any charges are brought about, I would say third degree involuntary manslaughter.
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Hubby and I were discussing the latest this am.
His thinking is that the reason there will be no grand jury investigation is b/c there would more than likely be an acquittal and no first-degree conviction.
The folks that have given feedback on this on several sources said they thought what the lead prosecutor did was very ballsy, to say the least.
Tho folks still think an arrest will be imminent...

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I saw on Yahoo last night that GZ now has a website. he uses is for support and to collect donations.
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His lawyers have dumped him and think he's gone off the deep end.

They're saying he might have PTSD.

Yeah, that'll happen when you kill someone.
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I saw on Yahoo last night that GZ now has a website. he uses is for support and to collect donations.
I saw that in the paper yesterday. His lawyer said as far as he knew, no money had been donated.

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Zimmerman to be charged, but no word in what the charges will be, according to CNN.

Source: Zimmerman to be charged in Trayvon Martin case – This Just In - CNN.com Blogs
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Whoa. Second degree murder.
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