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I want you ladies' and gentlemen's advice on something.

I have know this guy for a while and it had been strickly friendship between us. lately he has been trying to include me in things more and I have met his family. I got this vibe that he was catching feelings for me and other people who knew him longer told me that he has a thing for me so I asked him If he had a girlfriend (just out of curiousity). He said that he was talking to someone. what does that mean? I dont get guy language. If he has a girlfriend wouldnt he just say so? This guy is very nice and is really giving off signals with his body language that he is interested in me. What do you all think? I know, it is not alot to go on but I kinda want some insight since from past experience i cant seem to trust myself when it comes to finding the right guy.
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My 2 cents is when a guy says Im talking to someone, he's a girl but not exclusively and keeping his options open.
If you're still interested, why not give him a few signals of your own and see what happens?
Seems to me...that you gave him an opening when you asked if he had a girlfriend...and he didn't walk through it. He's probably not interested.
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He has someone, but he's keeping his options open just in case theres someone 'better'.

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Thanks for the responses! I hsve only known this guy for about 6 months. He is always staring at me and smiling at me but the answer he gave to my question was lacking a bit of detail. but I did tell him that he didnt haveto answer if he didnt want to. I also said to him that I was just curious so maybe he just told me something to see what my reaction would be. I just said that it was cool that he was talking to someone and that of course someone as great a guy as he is would have someone. He said "haaa haa .Thanks for the compliment!"
"How long will you simple ones love your simple ways? How long will mockers delight in mockery and fools hate knowledge? If you had responded to my rebuke, I would have poured out my heart to you and made my thoughts known to you." Proverbs 1:22-23
AND PROUD!
BC: 2/16/08
Second BC: 12/22/10
Goal Length: MBL Curly

http://www.fotki.com/afrodominican1
Princess Tiara, Guardian of the Crystal Heart of the Indigo Seas, in the Order of the Curly Crusaders
I don't see him doing anything special to be particularly interested in you. If he was interested, he would ask you out on a date. Seems like just a friend to me.
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I don't see him doing anything special to be particularly interested in you. If he was interested, he would ask you out on a date. Seems like just a friend to me.
Originally Posted by violets
I agree. Men really aren't that complicated, if he likes you, and is ready for a relationship he'll ask you out. He might like you, who knows, but until he takes real action, stop wasting your time trying to figure it out.
If you got nothing to bring to the table - don't even bother sitting down.
He may want to have sex w/ you but is putting you on notice there won't be any commitment or anything like that.

Who knows?

If you guys are buddies, why not just jokingly ask why he flirts w/ you so much?!
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He may want to have sex w/ you but is putting you on notice there won't be any commitment or anything like that.

Who knows?

If you guys are buddies, why not just jokingly ask why he flirts w/ you so much?!
Originally Posted by spiderlashes5000
Agreed! Also, if you want to go out with him, ask him out. You'll see if he accepts or not. Or you could say, "I know you mentioned you were talking to someone. I'm interested in going out with you if you're not committed to anyone else."
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you guys are right. i think It is just a friendship. I dont want to wste time guessing. I will just go with the flow and see what happens. If he asks me out then that will be that. If not then it is what it is.
"How long will you simple ones love your simple ways? How long will mockers delight in mockery and fools hate knowledge? If you had responded to my rebuke, I would have poured out my heart to you and made my thoughts known to you." Proverbs 1:22-23
AND PROUD!
BC: 2/16/08
Second BC: 12/22/10
Goal Length: MBL Curly

http://www.fotki.com/afrodominican1
Princess Tiara, Guardian of the Crystal Heart of the Indigo Seas, in the Order of the Curly Crusaders

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