Apparently, I am now dating a somewhat of a friend at school--he is my friend's housemate.
Anyway, I've known him since Feb. and we've mostly only hung out twice at a club and I think once at a party? After one of the clubs, we have a "talk" and we agree that we're now "dating" (not sure how this talk happened). Anyway, he stays the night (we didn't do anything, just slept) and IDK. Like the last time we got kind of close, it seemed pretty hard to get a hold of him. He told me a few days ago it's because he doesn't look at his phone often and even his housemates have problems getting ahold of him. OK... I think earlier this week I asked him if he ate lunch yet and he told me he had a big breakfast. I quickly respond with that's too bad 'cause I was gonna ask him to eat with me. Then he quickly responds with we should get lunch together next time. Which kind of makes me think he is... maybe a bit slow or doesn't get it?
We did have lunch and it was fine and now I guess we're "together", but I'm just not feeling it. He seems so... lazy? Since Thursday night it has seemed difficult to get him to hang out with me. And then he randomly tells me I should come with him to some kickback tonight and IDK. I'm not feeling that... Like the excitement of being chased
I'm pretty vain, I will admit and I'm used to men being obsessed with me and that's not just happening here so I'm not all that excited since I honestly don't feel like I'm wanted or that he wants it that much?
And then, I find out that he tells all his housemates about me. When he kissed and danced with me a month ago he told EVERYONE within a few hours and my friend commented (they live in same house) that he must be excited. And I'm sure he told everyone about Thursday too.
I'm very confused RN. He doesn't express this excitement to me, so I'm not sure how to feel about all of this. I told him when I was drunk I wasn't even sure if he liked me and he was like: "OFC I like you! Look at you!" but I'm not feeling much passion from his side of things... If that makes sense?
I was thinking of pretending nothing happened since nothing seems to be progressing.