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Old 06-19-2012, 03:09 PM   #21
 
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I don't know what to do anymore! I text my best guy friend everyday all day and he understands me but I don't understand myself right now. I go from being happy that he's gone to sad and depressed 5 minutes later. I don't know who I am anymore. I try to pray but right now I don't know what to say. I've read most of pslams and proverbs and skimmed through more of the new testament but nothing is speaking to me anymore. I feel lost I feel numb kinda like anything can happen and I won't react at all. My verse for the past year has been Jeremiah 29:11 For I know what i planned for you says the lord i have plans to prosper you not to harm you i have plans to give you a future filled with hope.
Don't forget that your father is still there...he still loves you and he will still be involved in your life.

He's not gone. You still have a father. The same guy as before. He just lives somewhere else for now.
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Old 06-19-2012, 03:14 PM   #22
 
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Both of your parents love you so much and I'm sure they think this is the best for your family and the best for you right now.

Please vent over here whenever you need to!
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Old 06-19-2012, 04:27 PM   #23
 
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I know I still have a father that loves me but I miss him sooooo much. We used to watch sports on tv and swamp people and go for drives every Saturday and some Sunday's.


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Old 06-19-2012, 10:02 PM   #24
 
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So I posted as my fb status "the hardest words to say are I'm okay" and my dad texted me saying everything is gonna be okay an I replied with I miss u daddy and we kept texting and I cried the whole time and he tried to call me but I hit decline and told him I was going to bed. It felt good to tell him I miss him but now I can't stop crying


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Old 06-19-2012, 10:35 PM   #25
 
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I m so sorry.
Praying for you.

((hugs))
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Old 06-19-2012, 11:14 PM   #26
 
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It's a really rough situation, but eventually it gets better. It really does.

Please don't try to "be strong." That's just putting too much pressure on yourself.
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Old 06-20-2012, 08:52 AM   #27
 
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So I posted as my fb status "the hardest words to say are I'm okay" and my dad texted me saying everything is gonna be okay an I replied with I miss u daddy and we kept texting and I cried the whole time and he tried to call me but I hit decline and told him I was going to bed. It felt good to tell him I miss him but now I can't stop crying


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If you miss him, talk to him
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Old 06-20-2012, 09:43 AM   #28
 
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If you miss him, talk to him
I've tried talking to him but it's hard with my sister around whenever I'm with my dad she doesn't fully understand what's going on


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Old 06-27-2012, 12:12 AM   #29
 
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I took a step and asked to see a therapist...


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