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Old 07-02-2012, 01:29 PM   #1
 
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a baby for adele. good for her.
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Old 07-02-2012, 01:35 PM   #2
 
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I'm actually kind of disappointed. She has only dated this guy for 6 months. It's really hard to know someone in such a short amount of time. Adding on, they're not married so he's free to leave whenever he wants and she's basically stuck with him until the child is 18 (even if he does leave).

I can't believe she's only a year older than me too! I thought she was at least 28 for the longest time, LOL.

I'm waiting for Miley Cyrus to get pregnant now.
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Old 07-02-2012, 01:43 PM   #3
 
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I think people should be married when they have babies. Her own parents weren't married and her father split when she was a baby, which deeply hurt her, and now she's doing the same thing to her own baby. Not a good role model thing to do.
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Wow, aren't we the judgmental ones. It's her life and she lives it as how she sees fit for her. CONGRATS ADELE!
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oh i didn't know the history. i do think marriage is ideal for a baby but i've got baby fever so feel happy when anyone says they're preggie, especially if they're happy about it.
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I'm actually kind of disappointed. She has only dated this guy for 6 months. It's really hard to know someone in such a short amount of time. Adding on, they're not married so he's free to leave whenever he wants and she's basically stuck with him until the child is 18 (even if he does leave).
I can't believe she's only a year older than me too! I thought she was at least 28 for the longest time, LOL.

I'm waiting for Miley Cyrus to get pregnant now.
I was thinking similar.
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I'm actually kind of disappointed. She has only dated this guy for 6 months. It's really hard to know someone in such a short amount of time. Adding on, they're not married so he's free to leave whenever he wants and she's basically stuck with him until the child is 18 (even if he does leave).

I can't believe she's only a year older than me too! I thought she was at least 28 for the longest time, LOL.

I'm waiting for Miley Cyrus to get pregnant now.

Even if they were married, the father would be free to leave whenever. As would Adele.

It's not an ideal situation but I hope people who are actually in their lives are supportive and not this critical.
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her father split when she was a baby, which deeply hurt her, and now she's doing the same thing to her own baby.
Whaaa? That's a fairly presumptuous statement, no?


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Old 07-02-2012, 02:57 PM   #9
 
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Eh ... good for her. I guess? I think that is most enthusiasm I can muster one way or the other.

It's become quite the cliche for these young stars to get knocked up out of wedlock, so nothing surprising about it, imo.
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Old 07-02-2012, 03:06 PM   #10
 
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if she was my daughter i wouldn't be happy.
BUT my daughter isn't a millionaire who has a career that she loves.
if he leaves, she can support herself and her child.
too bad she didn't wait.
marriage doesn't prevent him from leaving but it is a commitment and the child would be legally his without a paternity test.
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Old 07-02-2012, 03:18 PM   #11
 
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if she was my daughter i wouldn't be happy.
BUT my daughter isn't a millionaire who has a career that she loves.
if he leaves, she can support herself and her child.
too bad she didn't wait.
marriage doesn't prevent him from leaving but it is a commitment and the child would be legally his without a paternity test.
If the father signs the birth cert., the child is legally his, even w/o a paternity test.
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It's become quite the cliche for these young stars to get knocked up out of wedlock, so nothing surprising about it, imo.
My thoughts exactly.
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I could not care less if someone is married or not. I see the longevity of the relationship as a more important factor. Getting married doesn't mean people will stay committed. But I don't think a 6 month long relationship is a good point to have a baby.

That being said, surprises happen. And Congrats to them.

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Old 07-02-2012, 06:17 PM   #14
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I'm happy for her!
And him!
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Old 07-02-2012, 06:41 PM   #15
 
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I'm laughing at the idea that a man won't split if he's married.

If this guy does split, whatever. The biggest problem with single parenthood is lack of money. Rich, famous celebrities getting pregnant isn't a big deal.
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^Yup. Celebrities can afford to screw up.

Every single time I see this thread title I have to stop and think what it's about, because it reads like it's about a song or an album.
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I could not care less if someone is married or not. I see the longevity of the relationship as a more important factor. Getting married doesn't mean people will stay committed. But I don't think a 6 month long relationship is a good point to have a baby.

That being said, surprises happen. And Congrats to them.

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I was just about to post the same thing about suprises happening. Things happen . not everyone has a chance to get married and plan a baby, sometimes things just happen and being married really has nothing to do with having a baby in my opinion....a baby is always a bleasing married or not..I am happy for them both, I'm sure they shall make a lovely family
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:28 PM   #18
 
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children deserve two committed loving parents.
i don't think 6 months is long enough to know if someone will make a good father or not.
sure, get married or date but i don't think one should bring a child into the picture until you know your partner.
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Old 07-02-2012, 08:45 PM   #19
 
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^^

Yup. 6 months is way too soon.
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Old 07-02-2012, 09:40 PM   #20
 
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I'm confused about how long she and Simon Konecki have been a couple. One report said 6 months and another said almost a year. Either way..seems pretty soon to have a baby after dating for such a short time. Adele does seem rather smitten with this guy. So hope it works out for her..hate to sound cynical but I'd be surprised if this worked out long term. She's had some really tough breaks in relationships. Well I hope she enjoys being a mum!
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