Yea, that's what I'm doing now, dating for fun. I don't even like to use the term dating since I'm used to dating being something more serious. I've been upfront with the guy I'm 'dating' now but I know he wants more..he's been texting almost daily. I can't do that or it gets too serious on my end. I'm going to see if I can balance this one. I'm not used to this in between stuff, I'm the hookup twice or serious bf type person. He wants to go tubing with me with this weekend..sounds bf/gfy to me, ugh. But I like hanging out with him.
Yeah, I date for fun. I have no intention of being in a real relationship with a purpose. I just want to go out to eat, have someone to bring with me when I'm invited somewhere, and share physical intimacy. I don't need a lot of phone calls and texts, and I want to be free to do whatever I want - just like they are with me.
I'm always upfront with my desires, and I've had hurt and angry men in the end. For the past five guys I've dated, I could say how casual we were until I was blue in the face, but it still ended up dramatic on their end.