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Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.
Originally Posted by Josephine
Exactly. I can't imagine my sex life being even remotely torn to the recentness with which I've shaved my legs, after perhaps the first couple times.

I think the point is that real life in not porn (as you mentioned), and therefore you shouldn't expect to be as hairless as in a porno whenever you have sex.
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As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.
Originally Posted by iroc
Oh you meant legs....wait so you don't have sex if you don't have your legs cleanly shaven???

I like to keep my legs hairfree in general because they itch less and the moisturizer gets into my skin better if they are not hairy. So i waxed them last saturday before the pool and i only touched up with the epilator for 2 minutes yesterday. I epilate probably once a week. No shaving legs for me.

Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.
Originally Posted by Josephine

Nope.

For instance, I shaved last night, so if he were going to want to have sex tonight, I would take a shower first, to shave again, and probably irritate my skin, so I was clean shaven.

Unless I was still fairly smooth (which occasionally I have bouts of slower hair growth) then I would go for it.

Most likely I'd think that since the kids are going away this weekend, I'd wait until tomorrow night since then I wouldn't have to worry about kids being here. And then I'd try to get it in a couple of times on the kidless weekend to make up for it.

I seriously think too much. I don't think we have sex enough, but clearly that's because I have too many 'reasons' why or why not. I'm not very spontaneous on the sex thing. He used to get irritated with me in the beginning for my lack of just diving into it. I'm sorry, it's real life, not porn, I can't promise everything will line up perfectly in that second.

Maybe this shouldn't be about shaving, but rather about whether you have a spontaneous sex life!
Originally Posted by iroc
As someone who also has a tendency to make things difficult from over-thinking I can empathize. But at the same time this all sounds terribly exhausting!

I had an ex who wouldn't kiss me in the monrings because of his breath. Drove me crazy! I sometimes miss the down and dirty crazy spontaneous sex I use to have with my ex before him. Shower, shave, breath none of it mattered. When you want it you WANT it.

I use to make my ex before that shower before I went down on him, no wonder we broke up.

Last edited by Nej; 07-05-2012 at 05:12 PM.
I could not have bad breath sex. No way. Ew. I am totally easily distracted by things and it'll throw off all my sex mojo.

Weird smells, the TV on, too much light, if the curtains are open, if my windows are open and I'm being too loud. Its too hard for me to shut my mind off. My head is usually racing.

So me being teeth brushed and shaved is necessary for me!

I don't see what the difference is between your decision to have sex while shaved/unshaved vs having your period. Some people are totally uncomfortable having sex on their period. Some are okay with it. I'm not comfortable having sex if I feel all stubbly. And I'm certainly not having sex under conditions I'm uncomfortable with. Its not about me needing to be perfect, or about meeting some expectation. Its just the feeling of it bothers me.

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I actually enjoy shaving and I like smooth legs so I shave every 2-3 days no matter the time of year or whether sex is on tap, no matter whether I'm alone or with someone.
I think smooth legs feel sexy, to me and to my guy, so it's a bonus when they are freshly shaved.
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I actually enjoy shaving and I like smooth legs so I shave every 2-3 days no matter the time of year or whether sex is on tap, no matter whether I'm alone or with someone.
I think smooth legs feel sexy, to me and to my guy, so it's a bonus when they are freshly shaved.
Originally Posted by jeepcurlygurl
That's all I'm saying.

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Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.
Originally Posted by Josephine
Exactly. I can't imagine my sex life being even remotely torn to the recentness with which I've shaved my legs, after perhaps the first couple times.

I think the point is that real life in not porn (as you mentioned), and therefore you shouldn't expect to be as hairless as in a porno whenever you have sex.
Originally Posted by Who Me?

It's not that big of a deal. Between life, kids, work, long days, stuff going on, there's not much time for spontaneous sex around here. By the time my kids are in bed, its after 8. Then I'd like some time to read, or watch some TV, maybe watch a movie - there isn't likely going to be sex until I go to bed. I just shower before bed, and BC I like being smooth, I shave when I shower. Unless I'm absolutely not in the mood to have sex, then I'll skip shaving (or showering) and it isn't an issue.

My only point was that if I shave on a day when I clearly don't want sex, I feel like I'm messing up the schedule. Or I'm wasting smooth hairlessness on not having sex!

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I've been swimming everyday and haven't shaved in forever. Jesus was really looking out when he gave this lazy chick the slowest growing hair ever. I shave my legs about once every 3-4 weeks. The chucktown, the same. You can't see my spiders bc my thighs love to hug each other so I'm in the clear on Maintence.
Even if hair did grow faster I still wouldn't shave as often, I hate showers in general that just adds time to the torture.

This thread made me think "I'm never having Kids" but I lub churren.
I seriously think too much. I don't think we have sex enough, but clearly that's because I have too many 'reasons' why or why not. I'm not very spontaneous on the sex thing. He used to get irritated with me in the beginning for my lack of just diving into it. I'm sorry, it's real life, not porn, I can't promise everything will line up perfectly in that second.

Maybe this shouldn't be about shaving, but rather about whether you have a spontaneous sex life!
Originally Posted by iroc
Just curious, why do you need your legs cleanly shaven for sex? I can maybe understand if they are overgrown hairy, completely grown out, haven't shaved in months(yes I used to be like this until I realized how much better my skin feels w/out hair). But I'm assuming it's not that bad. Because the legs aren't even directly needed....like I could sorta understand if it was the bikini area.

Since you mentioned porn Im guessing you want sex to be like porn, everything perfect and in place before you do it. It's so much more fun though when it's not. Like it's when I'm not freshly waxed, wearing my emergency undies and looking like crap when I end up having the best unexpected sex.

Yes I'm spontaneous..as for unpreparedness, on Wednesday I was at the pool all day, in the water, out, drinking, smoking, sweaty, nasty and we came back(me and my dude) and I wanted to take a shower first (and I'm not picky but I was just feeling that gross) but boy did not care even when I told him..we just did it before the shower..and of course afterwards.
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I don't see what the difference is between your decision to have sex while shaved/unshaved vs having your period.
Originally Posted by iroc
Um...where you have your period is where you have sex. Legs are irrelevant, especially the smoothness of them. Having sex on period requires a little more work(removing tampon/pad/cup, laying down towel, dealing with possible mess with certain positions, etc.). That being said, i have no issues with period sex but it's understandable to me that a lot of women do. Especially since many just feel uncomfortable while they are on it.
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Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.
Originally Posted by Josephine
Exactly. I can't imagine my sex life being even remotely torn to the recentness with which I've shaved my legs, after perhaps the first couple times.

I think the point is that real life in not porn (as you mentioned), and therefore you shouldn't expect to be as hairless as in a porno whenever you have sex.
Originally Posted by Who Me?

It's not that big of a deal. Between life, kids, work, long days, stuff going on, there's not much time for spontaneous sex around here. By the time my kids are in bed, its after 8. Then I'd like some time to read, or watch some TV, maybe watch a movie - there isn't likely going to be sex until I go to bed. I just shower before bed, and BC I like being smooth, I shave when I shower. Unless I'm absolutely not in the mood to have sex, then I'll skip shaving (or showering) and it isn't an issue.

My only point was that if I shave on a day when I clearly don't want sex, I feel like I'm messing up the schedule. Or I'm wasting smooth hairlessness on not having sex!

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Originally Posted by iroc
It's BECAUSE I don't think there's much time/energy for spontaneous sex that I don't think it makes any sense to let something like stubbly legs get in the way of it.
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I seriously think too much. I don't think we have sex enough, but clearly that's because I have too many 'reasons' why or why not. I'm not very spontaneous on the sex thing. He used to get irritated with me in the beginning for my lack of just diving into it. I'm sorry, it's real life, not porn, I can't promise everything will line up perfectly in that second.

Maybe this shouldn't be about shaving, but rather about whether you have a spontaneous sex life!
Originally Posted by iroc
Just curious, why do you need your legs cleanly shaven for sex? I can maybe understand if they are overgrown hairy, completely grown out, haven't shaved in months(yes I used to be like this until I realized how much better my skin feels w/out hair). But I'm assuming it's not that bad. Because the legs aren't even directly needed....like I could sorta understand if it was the bikini area.

Since you mentioned porn Im guessing you want sex to be like porn, everything perfect and in place before you do it. It's so much more fun though when it's not. Like it's when I'm not freshly waxed, wearing my emergency undies and looking like crap when I end up having the best unexpected sex.

Yes I'm spontaneous..as for unpreparedness, on Wednesday I was at the pool all day, in the water, out, drinking, smoking, sweaty, nasty and we came back(me and my dude) and I wanted to take a shower first (and I'm not picky but I was just feeling that gross) but boy did not care even when I told him..we just did it before the shower..and of course afterwards.
Originally Posted by Josephine
No, I said its NOT like porn.


And my legs are wrapped around my partner during sex, so I would like my legs shaved.


I have said many times that I don't like the feeling of prickly legs. If its winter, if I'm single, whatever is going on I still shave every day, so why would it be different during sex?

And I can't think of a time when sex is immediately insisted, and can't hold off for 10 minutes take care of teeth brushing or a quick shower.

Not unless its the very very beginning of a relationship, at which point you're probably always ready anyway. So what's the big deal?

I don't understand why this is so unbelievable.


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Exactly. I can't imagine my sex life being even remotely torn to the recentness with which I've shaved my legs, after perhaps the first couple times.

I think the point is that real life in not porn (as you mentioned), and therefore you shouldn't expect to be as hairless as in a porno whenever you have sex.
Originally Posted by Who Me?

It's not that big of a deal. Between life, kids, work, long days, stuff going on, there's not much time for spontaneous sex around here. By the time my kids are in bed, its after 8. Then I'd like some time to read, or watch some TV, maybe watch a movie - there isn't likely going to be sex until I go to bed. I just shower before bed, and BC I like being smooth, I shave when I shower. Unless I'm absolutely not in the mood to have sex, then I'll skip shaving (or showering) and it isn't an issue.

My only point was that if I shave on a day when I clearly don't want sex, I feel like I'm messing up the schedule. Or I'm wasting smooth hairlessness on not having sex!

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Originally Posted by iroc
It's BECAUSE I don't think there's much time/energy for spontaneous sex that I don't think it makes any sense to let something like stubbly legs get in the way of it.
Originally Posted by Who Me?
It doesn't get in the way. I say, hey, hold that thought - and 10 minutes or so later, we carry on.


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The questioning my reasons in this conversation isn't like its going to change my mind or anything.

I'm not going to wake up one morning and say 'my word, all this time I've been doing it wrong! I should be having hairy, bad breath sex!!'

No. I think not.



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Last edited by iroc; 07-06-2012 at 01:09 PM.

No, I said its NOT like porn.


And my legs are wrapped around my partner during sex, so I would like my legs shaved.


I have said many times that I don't like the feeling of prickly legs. If its winter, if I'm single, whatever is going on I still shave every day, so why would it be different during sex?

And I can't think of a time when sex is immediately insisted, and can't hold off for 10 minutes take care of teeth brushing or a quick shower.

Not unless its the very very beginning of a relationship, at which point you're probably always ready anyway. So what's the big deal?

I don't understand why this is so unbelievable.


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Originally Posted by iroc
You said it's real life, not porn so things won't be lined up perfectly. Since it is real life, things don't need to be lined up perfectly for sex...but it seems that you want it to, as it is in porn. Or did you mean that in pornos it's usually spontaneous sex and everything happens to be perfect(i dont really watch pornos so i didnt think of that). Either way, it's real life, we don't need to be clean and smooth and nice smelling all the time!!

Okay @ not wanting prickly legs. It is weird to me though to not ever want to do it w/out shaving first. And it is a buzzkill to say wait hold on, go to the bathroom and shave and then have sex, lol. It's sorta unbelievable because most people love spontaneous sex.....but if you don't, you don't. Sounds boring though, no offense! I think I would be frustrated, no I know I would be, if my partner was like that. But I'm sure I could deal if I had to, maybe.

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No, I said its NOT like porn.


And my legs are wrapped around my partner during sex, so I would like my legs shaved.


I have said many times that I don't like the feeling of prickly legs. If its winter, if I'm single, whatever is going on I still shave every day, so why would it be different during sex?

And I can't think of a time when sex is immediately insisted, and can't hold off for 10 minutes take care of teeth brushing or a quick shower.

Not unless its the very very beginning of a relationship, at which point you're probably always ready anyway. So what's the big deal?

I don't understand why this is so unbelievable.


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Originally Posted by iroc
You said it's real life, not porn so things won't be lined up perfectly. Since it is real life, things don't need to be lined up perfectly for sex...but it seems that you want it to, as it is in porn. Or did you mean that in pornos it's usually spontaneous sex and everything happens to be perfect(i dont really watch pornos so i didnt think of that). Either way, it's real life, we don't need to be clean and smooth and nice smelling all the time!!

Okay @ not wanting prickly legs. It is weird to me though to not ever want to do it w/out shaving first. And it is a buzzkill to say wait hold on, go to the bathroom and shave and then have sex, lol. It's sorta unbelievable because most people love spontaneous sex.....but if you don't, you don't. Sounds boring though, no offense! I think I would be frustrated, no I know I would be, if my partner was like that. But I'm sure I could deal if I had to, maybe.
Originally Posted by Josephine

I don't think I've had spontaneous sex since I've had kids.

Except the weekends they're away, and I'm semi prepared for that.

Maybe its not as exciting, but its not a big deal. In a long term relationship, with children, in your mid 30's, are you not usually like, 'hey, wanna have sex?'?

How else would you do it? Its not like its our first time.

(But nobody is bored over here)


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Last edited by iroc; 07-06-2012 at 01:36 PM.
Whatever floats your boat. I get bored without spontaneity(sp?), not only in sex, but anything. Age is irrelevant to me.
Whatever floats your boat. I get bored without spontaneity(sp?), not only in sex, but anything. Age is irrelevant to me.
Originally Posted by Josephine

Well sure, I would think its obvious that people are different and thats why every one is not necessarily a good match every other person.


And I like consistency. My head can't catch up to people switching gears on me. I hate it! I'm like, whoa, whoa, what are we doing now? Lol

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