Shaving schedule?

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Boyfriend is taking a long time in the shower. So I ask boyfriend, are you shaving? He says yes. I say, you don't only shave on sex days? (I'm thinking since its after 11 and he's just showering, its too late for sex. We're lame. Shut up). He says, no. I say, you shave on non sex days? He says, when I'm hairy....

Well doesn't that completely screw up the shaving schedule?

Discuss.

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I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.
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I shave almost every day. Single and in the dead of winter.

I'm confused by the question


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I would shave only when I know I'm getting some.
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Um...shave what?


Hubby shaves his FACE every day, sex or no-sex. That's all he ever shaves.

Me...I shave only enough to not be embarrassed to go swimming.
DH shaves every other day. I trim up when I need to.


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I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.
Originally Posted by Nappy_curly_crown
This is me. The only time I plan it is if I'm going to the beach and I want to be extra hairless and sexy feeling and of course to make sure nothing shows lol.

Generally it's done as needed. I don't understand the scheduling thing and how it would mess anything up, confused as well.

ETA- Um I assumed u meant the bikini area for shaving??
Um...shave what?


Hubby shaves his FACE every day, sex or no-sex. That's all he ever shaves.

Me...I shave only enough to not be embarrassed to go swimming.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
Yeah my boyfriend shaves every Mon-Fri ...has nothing to do with "the sex."

As for me, I shave my legs about 2x/week, the bikini area once/week and the underarms every day.
I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.
Originally Posted by Nappy_curly_crown
This is me. The only time I plan it is if I'm going to the beach and I want to be extra hairless and sexy feeling and of course to make sure nothing shows lol.

Generally it's done as needed. I don't understand the scheduling thing and how it would mess anything up, confused as well.

ETA- Um I assumed u meant the bikini area for shaving??
Originally Posted by Josephine
I don't shave anything unless I anticipate needing to show that body part.

If I feel stubble in the shower, I shave. I'm not on any set schedule.

Hubby shaves 2 maybe three times a week. He let's his beard(ish) grow during the summer. He is a teacher.


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Not sure I totally understand the question.

During the summer, I shave once or twice a week-underarms, legs and bikini area, enough so I won't feel embarrassed wearing sundresses, capris or swimsuits. In the winter, I shave about every 10 days on average, but then, you don't show as much skin then. If I waited until I had sex, I'd need electrolysis by now since I haven't had any in three years (and counting).
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I shave as the hair grows in...some times its every 4-5 days, sometimes its sooner. I shave because I prefer it....not because I'm expecting sex. I dunno, sex is never really scheduled, so I'd almost NEVER be able to wait until I thought I was having sex. The BF shaves every couple of days as well and its because he perfers it that way. I will say there have been times when I've gone WEEKS without shaving and the BF never made a comment one way or the other.
Originally Posted by Nappy_curly_crown
This is me. The only time I plan it is if I'm going to the beach and I want to be extra hairless and sexy feeling and of course to make sure nothing shows lol.

Generally it's done as needed. I don't understand the scheduling thing and how it would mess anything up, confused as well.

ETA- Um I assumed u meant the bikini area for shaving??
Originally Posted by Josephine
I don't shave anything unless I anticipate needing to show that body part.
Originally Posted by Munchy
YES! Lazy shavers unite!
I think what iroc means, at least from experience, is that the hair needs time to grow back a little before shaving again. I don't get very smooth results if I try to re-shave my legs too soon. It's better if I let the hair grow a little more. So, if you kind of have a schedule, it can get screwed up if you get out of it.

As to what her boyfriend shaves, she provided the info in rhyme on the Say It thread.
I'm so lazy! I guess one good thing is that my leg hair doesn't really grow because I hardly shave them

I HATE shaving, so I'm not going to take all that time doing it if I'm not planning on actually showing it.
You're lucky indeed! My hair grows fast.
(It's a myth about shaving making the hair grow thicker/faster though.)

Last edited by Saria; 07-05-2012 at 11:42 AM.
As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.
Hubby shaves every 2 or 3 days...when his facial hair gets itchy...unless we are going on a date or he has an important work meeting.

I on the other hand shave armpits every day (habit) legs, bikini area twice a week...unless I know I'm going swimming. I've been married 12 years...so shaving before sex does not happen. He doesn't care...just happy he's having sex. LOL


oh...I'll shave if I know we are going out on a date...or somewhere special.

Last edited by inheritedcurls; 07-05-2012 at 12:02 PM. Reason: add to
As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.
Originally Posted by iroc


That's too many sex-rules for me. He either likes me as I am...or he's free to go elsewhere. He somehow sticks around.
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As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.
Originally Posted by iroc


That's too many sex-rules for me. He either likes me as I am...or he's free to go elsewhere. He somehow sticks around.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves

It's certainly not rules that he's set. He's a guy, it's sex, he doesn't care!

And I don't make him jump in the shower and shave if he hasn't in a while.

It's just me it bothers. I can't stand that prickly feeling myself. If I even go a day between, I have to wear pants because it drives me nuts to be stubbly. I just wouldn't feel able to do it if I hadn't shaved in a few days. It would be like not brushing my teeth before!

But that's why I just always try to keep clean shaved.
As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.
Originally Posted by iroc
Oh you meant legs....wait so you don't have sex if you don't have your legs cleanly shaven???

I like to keep my legs hairfree in general because they itch less and the moisturizer gets into my skin better if they are not hairy. So i waxed them last saturday before the pool and i only touched up with the epilator for 2 minutes yesterday. I epilate probably once a week. No shaving legs for me.

Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.
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Last edited by Josephine; 07-05-2012 at 01:48 PM.
As I've mentioned before, he is quite hairy, and shaves a lot of things.

I would consider that I 'need' to shave every day. I have stubble by that evening if I shave in the morning, but shaving daily irritates my skin, and doesn't get that close of a shave anyway. I regularly like to shave every other day. Although if I give it 2 days, I'll get a really close shave when I do.

However, and here's the dilemma, I like to be JUST shaven if I'm going to have sex. I won't do it if I'm on next day stubble. I'll jump in the shower before, just so I can shave. So, being that I'm on an every other day schedule, and I shave on day 1, and there's no chance of sex, but then maybe we have sex on day 2, I'm going to have to shave again! So I sometimes try to wait until maybe something will happen?

It's weird, I know. I don't always make a lot of sense.
Originally Posted by iroc
Oh you meant legs....wait so you don't have sex if you don't have your legs cleanly shaven???

I like to keep my legs hairfree in general because they itch less and the moisturizer gets into my skin better if they are not hairy. So i waxed them last saturday before the pool and i only touched up with the epilator for 2 minutes yesterday. I epilate probably once a week. No shaving legs for me.

Guys and sex are never a factor and they don't even notice these things. Maybe in the beginning when I'm first hooking up with a guy I will make sure im hairfree even if I'm wearing pants. But it's more because I feel sexier.
Originally Posted by Josephine

Nope.

For instance, I shaved last night, so if he were going to want to have sex tonight, I would take a shower first, to shave again, and probably irritate my skin, so I was clean shaven.

Unless I was still fairly smooth (which occasionally I have bouts of slower hair growth) then I would go for it.

Most likely I'd think that since the kids are going away this weekend, I'd wait until tomorrow night since then I wouldn't have to worry about kids being here. And then I'd try to get it in a couple of times on the kidless weekend to make up for it.

I seriously think too much. I don't think we have sex enough, but clearly that's because I have too many 'reasons' why or why not. I'm not very spontaneous on the sex thing. He used to get irritated with me in the beginning for my lack of just diving into it. I'm sorry, it's real life, not porn, I can't promise everything will line up perfectly in that second.

Maybe this shouldn't be about shaving, but rather about whether you have a spontaneous sex life!

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