Yea, that's why I'm kinda undecided because I would want to be told, but then maybe she already knows? I feel like a woman always knows there is something "off", you know?I was also confused because you said that you fb chatted with him and he posted on your wall posts about meeting up. I'm guessing now that was a while back before you deleted him.
I've had men hit on me (irl) that I know had fiancees. And I know they cheat. I understand some women are naive and might benefit from being told but I didn't want to get involved. I feel neutral about it. If they get mad at you, at least you tried. My sister tried to tell our childhood friend that her guy was a dog and she got upset at everyone but the guy so now she doesn't say anything anymore. I know if it were me, I would want to be told.
And yea, we only spoke and chatted before I found out about his gf. The recent FB chat and status comment happened last week. I honestly forgot about him, LOL. Men always pop up when your mind is elsewhere. I do remember hiding him on FB since I found him annoying, I guess I forgot to delete as well. Didn't notice until recently since haven't spoken to him in such a long time!
Anyway, does anyone else love that hide feature? I abuse that thing! I just hid some dude I know because he smiles kinda weird (looks psychotic) and it gives me nightmares. He's a nice kid though :/ lol
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