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Old 12-29-2012, 09:44 AM   #41
 
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Ugh, such disgusting behavior from this scumbag.
What makes it worse is that his church was involved. His pastor advised him to fire her and sat in on it to help him preserve his marriage. I wonder what his pastor told him about telling a woman who is not your wife that you'll know if her clothes are too tight if she sees your pants bulging? And Christians wonder why we get a bad name....
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Old 12-29-2012, 09:55 AM   #42
 
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Yes, that bit is unfortunately the stereotypical "blame the woman" mentality that plagues certain religious servants.
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Old 12-29-2012, 09:59 AM   #43
 
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For me this whole thing hearkens back to a time when the "lord of the manor" would sleep with the maid and she'd get thrown out in the street with no recommendation and no means of support, while his life remained completely unchanged.
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Old 12-29-2012, 11:59 AM   #44
 
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Ugh, such disgusting behavior from this scumbag.
What makes it worse is that his church was involved. His pastor advised him to fire her and sat in on it to help him preserve his marriage. I wonder what his pastor told him about telling a woman who is not your wife that you'll know if her clothes are too tight if she sees your pants bulging? And Christians wonder why we get a bad name....
It doesn't at all surprise me that people who think it's ok to fire a woman for being a temptation would be religious enough to seek advice from their pastor.


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Old 12-30-2012, 06:31 AM   #45
 
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This whole situation strikes me as incredibly juvenile and immature.

Guano: when I had to have my throat cut open (surgery) I had to sign something saying that I agreed to let the dr. be alone with me in the operating room. Turns out there were several people assisting the surgery but I thought for a moment how absurd it is that we have to think about something like this. If you are trusting someone to cut your throat you'd better be able to trust that he isn't about to molest you!
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Old 12-31-2012, 09:23 AM   #46
 
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Wow. Some of these comments def sound like classic hostile envioronment sexual harrassment fare. But bc she never said it was unwelcome, it couldn't be argued as hostile environment??

When a person works in a tiny office w/ no HR dept, etc, how are they supposed to object to this stuff and grieve unfair/illegal conduct?
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