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Post By curlypearl
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12-31-2012, 07:11 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2008
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question for curlies who are diplomatic
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2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Protein treatment HG: Curl Junkie Repair Me
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers:Curl Junkie CCCC or CCCL
in combo with a gel, usually KCCC
Trying Curl Keeper - still experimenting
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Last edited by curlypearl; 01-01-2013 at 02:46 AM.
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12-31-2012, 08:56 PM
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Join Date: Oct 2012
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If you are meeting him on a one on one basis, then I don't think he sees you as just a friend. All my male "just" friends are in my college group . We hang out together, study together etc. but all the guys I have have met on a "we-are-just-friends-date" kept hitting on me and some even tried to ..umm get into my pants  , when all they were just friends (to me) .
So if you want to keep a "just friends" relationship with him, i'd suggest you bring some mutual friends along.
I don't think I was much help, but be careful. Misunderstandings ruin good friendships and relationships. 
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HAIR TYPE -2a-b, black, mostly medium
CO WASH, RO-HE HH and ENLEVEN and GARNIER RANGE
CLARIFY- I use sulphate shampoos silicone free(diluted), vinegar rinses
DC-pure coconut oil, olive oil, sometimes a SMT
LI-aloe vera gel + castor oil
I'm currently at BSL, aiming for waist length.I'm a very impatient person, wish me luck 
I love my flat iron, but I love my waves even more. :-D
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12-31-2012, 10:21 PM
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Join Date: Jan 2008
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Hmmm, I think I'm a fairly diplomatic person, but these matters are sensitive and I'd hate to a) continue to send the wrong signal (if that's the case), or b) give him the impression that I'm full of myself (if I'm misreading the situation).
So, I might arrange to meet with him at 1 on Tuesday for tea, and when he arrives tell him that I have somewhere else to be in about an hour or so.
I think his reaction to your time limit and how the interaction feels over the next hour can give you a little more insight into his feelings.
I tend to suss things out before I make any hard and fast decisions on what to do.
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12-31-2012, 10:27 PM
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Join Date: May 2012
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Can you reply with something along the lines of "I can meet you for tea at 2 on Thursday, that'll work out great because I've got a date at 330 in the same past of town". That way he knows he's friend zoned and not on a date. If all he's looking for its a friend, then not a big deal at all.
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Growing out super short cut
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Wash: TIGI Hi Def Curls, LUSH curly wurly
Condition: EVOO mixed with any of the following: TIGI Hi Def Curls, Renpure Red, Nature's Gate Jojoba
Stylers: TIGI control freak serum, KCCC, TIGI Foxy Curls Mousse, AIF, BRHG, TIGI Manipulator, Deva Set Up and Above, TIGI Hi Def curl spray
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12-31-2012, 10:47 PM
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Join Date: Jul 2008
Posts: 13,217
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The words you came up with sound fine to me CP.
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01-01-2013, 02:44 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 8,503
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__________________
2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Protein treatment HG: Curl Junkie Repair Me
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers:Curl Junkie CCCC or CCCL
in combo with a gel, usually KCCC
Trying Curl Keeper - still experimenting
Every day is a gift 
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01-01-2013, 05:59 AM
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Join Date: Oct 2012
Posts: 107
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Happy new year to you too!
Sent from android curltalk app.
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HAIR TYPE -2a-b, black, mostly medium
CO WASH, RO-HE HH and ENLEVEN and GARNIER RANGE
CLARIFY- I use sulphate shampoos silicone free(diluted), vinegar rinses
DC-pure coconut oil, olive oil, sometimes a SMT
LI-aloe vera gel + castor oil
I'm currently at BSL, aiming for waist length.I'm a very impatient person, wish me luck 
I love my flat iron, but I love my waves even more. :-D
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