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Old 02-01-2013, 03:12 PM   #21
 
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This has turned from a positive to a negative thing in a matter of mins. Because your name isnt on my list your upset and bashing my post?? I dont get how anyone whose name i didnt name can get mad when i never see or get advise from you?

Sorry to all those who are offended but clearly this isnt the post for you. You dont care But you took the time out of your day to not only read but make a mean comment thats exactly why your name isnt on here. We are all free to post whatever we want if you dont like a post keep it pushing. Your negativity is not welcomed on this post.


Its amazing to me how much negative attention my non hair related post gets when there are dozens of post out there in serious need of tips and advice that doesn't even get viewed.


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I hope you're not referring to me. My comments weren't mean or negative, and I clearly couldn't care less about making someone's "favorites" list here. Did you actually read what I wrote? The only people whose opinions of me I care about sleep under my roof on a regular basis. Period. I'm not sure anyone who posted was offended by their absence from your list! LOL

Sorry you can't see how a thread like this has potential to go awry--even without "negative" commentary.

I am SERIOUSLY fighting the urge to slip into grammar nazi mode.
Actually my title said to all those who apply so if you feel like you applied then thats that. It was geared to negative comments. Grammar nazi mode go for it. This is not english or grammar 101 nor is it a mid term paper. I am a confident and positive gal. Nothing can bring me down. especially not a stranger. If i am taking what you wrote abt the grammar out of context i apologize in advance.


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Old 02-01-2013, 03:16 PM   #22
 
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I'm sure it wasn't personal, D-N; people were just trying to avoid a situation that may have caused problems in the past. "Favorite posters" threads often turn into popularity contests, and many of us want to avoid that possibility.

Some of us are on the wry side, and may have unintentionally sounded unkind. I'm sure there's no sour grapes.
THANK YOU for explaining. To avoid issues i have no prob with taking it down as i said it really was to thank these women for making the site interesting if i had the slightest idea it was gonna be taken less than that i wouldn't have written it. Honest.



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Old 02-01-2013, 03:28 PM   #23
 
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I'm kinda new on here and don't know anyone really yet...so I'm gonna say me. I'm pretty awesome.
And my husband sometimes says I have multiple personalities..... so we are gonna give me three votes.
You're kinda new and I like you already!!!

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This has turned from a positive to a negative thing in a matter of mins. Because your name isnt on my list your upset and bashing my post?? I dont get how anyone whose name i didnt name can get mad when i never see or get advise from you?

Sorry to all those who are offended but clearly this isnt the post for you. You dont care But you took the time out of your day to not only read but make a mean comment thats exactly why your name isnt on here. We are all free to post whatever we want if you dont like a post keep it pushing. Your negativity is not welcomed on this post.


Its amazing to me how much negative attention my non hair related post gets when there are dozens of post out there in serious need of tips and advice that doesn't even get viewed.


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I hope you're not referring to me. My comments weren't mean or negative, and I clearly couldn't care less about making someone's "favorites" list here. Did you actually read what I wrote? The only people whose opinions of me I care about sleep under my roof on a regular basis. Period. I'm not sure anyone who posted was offended by their absence from your list! LOL

Sorry you can't see how a thread like this has potential to go awry--even without "negative" commentary.

I am SERIOUSLY fighting the urge to slip into grammar nazi mode.
Actually my title said to all those who apply so if you feel like you applied then thats that. It was geared to negative comments. Grammar nazi mode go for it. This is not english or grammar 101 nor is it a mid term paper. I am a confident and positive gal. Nothing can bring me down. especially not a stranger. If i am taking what you wrote abt the grammar out of context i apologize in advance.


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Lol, nope, I didn't feel that it applied to me in the least, but I wanted to see if you were on the same page. For me, life is Grammar 101, if you want to be taken seriously--again, my humble opinion.
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That makes perfect sense.

Sometimes it's impossible to know when you'll walk into a hornet's nest on this site. I think we've all done it (and if that's too general, I'll go ahead and clarify: heaven knows I've done it). The "peeing in the pool" debacle comes to mind, as does "Uncrustables."

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Old 02-01-2013, 03:39 PM   #26
 
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That makes perfect sense.

Sometimes it's impossible to know when you'll walk into a hornet's nest on this site. I think we've all done it (and if that's too general, I'll go ahead and clarify: heaven knows I've done it). The "peeing in the pool" debacle comes to mind, as does "Uncrustables."

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Haha, me, too!! I've unknowingly walked into them, and I've actively picked one up and shaken it a time or two.
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Why didn't anyone pick me?!?

(Where is that smilie that looks sad and walks back and forth looking forlorn when you need it???)

Since I can't find it:
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and that includes COMMENTING on someone's post!

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I'm kinda new on here and don't know anyone really yet...so I'm gonna say me. I'm pretty awesome.
And my husband sometimes says I have multiple personalities..... so we are gonna give me three votes.
You're kinda new and I like you already!!!

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Aw, thank you!
Btw, I went to target, came back, logged on here and this thread got all out of control! I thought for sure the votes for me would have at least doubled by now! Disappointed!
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I don't know why you're all even trying when obviously OBB is everyone's favorite curly gal anyway.
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and that includes COMMENTING on someone's post!

I was going to say this earlier, buuuuuut I figured I'd done enough "damage" to this initially promising and uplifting thread.
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Ok wait so the OP deleted her post to avoid conflict and the thread still went berzerk?
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That makes perfect sense.

Sometimes it's impossible to know when you'll walk into a hornet's nest on this site. I think we've all done it (and if that's too general, I'll go ahead and clarify: heaven knows I've done it). The "peeing in the pool" debacle comes to mind, as does "Uncrustables."

We're a touchy bunch, sometimes.
Haha, me, too!! I've unknowingly walked into them, and I've actively picked one up and shaken it a time or two.
Yeah... I think one of the first things I did on this side was unknowingly pick a fight with someone - it was in a rude people thread (I should've known to just avoid a thread like that).
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Ok wait so the OP deleted her post to avoid conflict and the thread still went berzerk?
Threads like this are destined to go sideways from inception. It started "going berzerk" before she deleted the OP. Though, I'm not clear on what your definition of "going berzerk" is here. I don't think it truly went "berzerk" at all--not in comparison to some threads here. The OP kind of went "berzerk" when she discovered that people didn't want to play along. Derailed? Yes.

Besides, just because the OP deletes the OP doesn't mean that the thread is just going to suddenly die...the tangential conversations often continue for a fashion and eventually just trail off. It's normal.
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