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02-03-2013, 11:22 AM
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#21
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 15
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I'm in the same boat. I guess we have each other.
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02-03-2013, 11:28 AM
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#22
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 864
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aww yay
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02-03-2013, 11:39 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 15
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We are human and humans are "herd animals", lol. We are not meant to be alone. We do better in tribes and/or large families, as history says. Since we don't have either, lets stop shutting ourselves off from the world in fear that someone around us might think we are fat or ugly.
"We have the freedom to think anything we want about ourselves, so why choose to belittle ourselves?" Louise L. Hay.
I love the support from my "curlfriends"
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02-03-2013, 11:55 AM
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 864
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Very true. No matter how hard we try, at the end of the day "no man is an island." I'm learning that the hard way. I would love to have a large family one day, especially because I'm an only child. But then the whole "i'll never get married" thought comes in  anyway, that's what therapy is for isn't it? hurray for curlfriends
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02-03-2013, 04:23 PM
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#25
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 8,506
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2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Protein treatment HG: Curl Junkie Repair Me
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers:Curl Junkie CCCC or CCCL
in combo with a gel, usually KCCC
Trying Curl Keeper - still experimenting
Every day is a gift 
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02-03-2013, 04:46 PM
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#26
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 864
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Medium texture, normal porosity, normal elasticity
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02-03-2013, 09:35 PM
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#28
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 864
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I'm gonna look into that Deproloft. And I agree about talk therapy. It's why i found a therapist for CBT
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02-04-2013, 10:04 AM
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#29
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 15
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Thank you for the article, it was very informative and helpful. I have a bottle of Deproloft in my cart right now!
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02-04-2013, 10:07 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 15
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Thanks goldencurly. I have a bottle of Deproloft in my cart right now. Do you happen to take St. John's Wort with it as it is not part of the formula anymore?
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02-04-2013, 10:09 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 15
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Thanks for reaching out, curlypearl and thanks for the hug. I can tell you have a very kind soul
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02-04-2013, 10:25 AM
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#32
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 15
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I'm really tired right now, I only got 4 hours of sleep last night, grrr. But I wanted to give all you lovely ladies a shout out for giving me and others going through this, some really great advice and loving support.
So Thank you:
curlypearl!
sunshinegrrl!
imbpanama!
smilingelephant!
mojodojo!
Eilonwy!
skorpio1190!
crimsonshedemon!
goldencurly!
It means a lot!
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02-04-2013, 10:32 AM
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Join Date: Feb 2013
Posts: 15
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I also wanted to mention this quote I came across last night while reading in bed. It's from one of the many articles from this site called Pick the Brain. I couldn't stop reading. Every time I would complete an article there would be more article suggestions to read at the bottom. It's all about self improvement. Which I could use a lot of. Anyways, here's one quote that really stuck with me…
"The act of searching our minds for things that we’re grateful for is a brilliant state changer. It will improve your mood, make you feel more resourceful and stop any thoughts of self-pity that can lead toward developing a victim mindset from creeping in"
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02-04-2013, 12:36 PM
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Join Date: May 2011
Posts: 1,214
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I struggle with bipolar disorder. I have spells of happiness, depression, anger, MANIA!! You actually feel insane!
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02-04-2013, 01:40 PM
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Join Date: Jun 2003
Posts: 6,402
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Be careful with St. John's wort if you are taking the pill.
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Fat does not make you fat. It's actually pretty important.
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02-04-2013, 02:33 PM
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Join Date: Apr 2010
Posts: 374
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BAP do u also experience psychosis? I do. My delusions can get really bad. I also have voices in my head, my meds help with those tho.
It can be scary
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2 yrs post/ 1 year 4 months natural
Cleanse: Tresseme Naturals Low Sulfate Shampoo
Co-Wash: Suave Naturals, V05
RO/Detangler: Tresseme Naturals
Styler: EcoStyler Argan
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02-04-2013, 06:39 PM
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#37
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 864
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Did u find it in a store? Also, let me know if it works for u
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02-04-2013, 07:08 PM
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#38
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Join Date: Jun 2008
Posts: 8,506
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ChiaPet,
Thanks for your very kind words. I had a bad day today and all the pain and fears resurfaced for a while. I have struggled so hard with anxiety and depression.
I truly wish you and everyone on this thread well. My heart goes out to people who suffer as you are suffering. Good luck with everything and for what comfort it gives - it bears repeating - you are not alone!
__________________
2/c and some 3A. Modified CG.
Highly porous. Color over grey.
Best 1st day method: Super Soaker
Protein treatment HG: Curl Junkie Repair Me
Conditioners: Curl Junkie Beauticurls Strengthening Conditioner,
Deep condish: Curl Junkie Curl Rehab
Stylers:Curl Junkie CCCC or CCCL
in combo with a gel, usually KCCC
Trying Curl Keeper - still experimenting
Every day is a gift 
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02-04-2013, 07:32 PM
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#39
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Join Date: Jun 2011
Posts: 864
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Hey curlypearl I've been having those days too. Freaking out because I keep thinking I will fail grad school, never have friends, always be alone, always be depressed, etc. U know how it is. I know how horrible they are. I hope you feel better soon.
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02-04-2013, 08:40 PM
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#40
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Join Date: May 2001
Posts: 12,413
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Chia, I would look for a barn where you could help out. Maybe a pony club, or we have a few barn that specialize in helping people with disabilities.
Just something to get out, doing something you like and with people who share your interest.
Good luck
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I believe in manicures. I believe in overdressing. I believe in primping at leisure and wearing lipstick. I believe in pink. I believe that laughing is the best calorie burner. I believe in kissing, kissing a lot. I believe in being strong when everything seems to be going wrong. I believe that happy girls are the prettiest girls. I believe that tomorrow is another day and I believe in miracles.
Audrey Hepburn
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