Why won't my dad talk to me ?

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The last time I talked to him was in 2011. I text but he never texts back.

I'm not even bothersome. I stayed in the guest room while I visited.

I have no idea what to do. I'm confused and really sad.
Need more info than that, sweets.
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Okay. He lives in another state. He ignores my calls and texts.

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I think she meant more history and background

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Did you have an argument about something? Why does he live in another state?

Why don't you call him instead of texting?
Has he ever been in your life fully? Did he ever live with your mother? With you? Does he or has he paid child support?
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Did his number maybe change?
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Does he know how to text or even read texts? I'm not joking. I just showed my dad how to figure out if he has texts and read them, then how to send them about 3 months ago. If we didn't call him, we never heard from him...

And I know this has nothing to do with you, but I'm just going to say that as tight as me and my family are, especially my dad, if we didn't have regular family meals or he didn't call me because something was needed, it probably would be a very, very, very long time in between our talks.
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Think about maybe writing him a letter. Sometimes older people respond to old fashioned methods more than texting. Tell him you love him (if you do) and that you miss him and be honest. Ask him to be a part of your life. Tell him a little about what is going on in your life and try not to accuse him of anything, or of abandoning you.

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How old are you? How old is he?
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No arguments. Yes. In another state

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He hasn't been in my life fully. He doesn't live with us. He's supposed to until I finish school.

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He's not your dad. He's a sperm donor. Would you let a "friend" treat you like that and still consider them a friend? I'd move on. Not being mean I swear. It's the social worker in me. People allow themselves to be crapped on just because there's blood. So what? You are losing way more sleep over this than he is.
18 54 He knows how to.

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Have you and your dad ever had a relationship?
Is is usual to go long periods with contact?
Does he contact you?
Does he have other kids?
Does he talk to them?
How is his relationship with your mother?
Have you and your dad ever had a relationship?
Is is usual to go long periods with contact?
Does he contact you?
Does he have other kids?
Does he talk to them?
How is his relationship with your mother?
Originally Posted by scrills
No relationship. No contact. Kids. I think so. There is none

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OK, then no offense, but why do you expect him to suddenly starting replying to your texts? He's an absentee father. Why do some fathers abandon their kids? They're soulless jerks? Sometimes they let a bad relationship with the other parent taint the relationship with the kid. I don't know....
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Easier said than done, but based on what you wrote, he's not much of a father, and you shouldn't have any expectations of him or internalize his behaviour in any way. What I mean by that is, you'll need to learn to accept who he is and just because his sperm created you doesn't mean he has any parental feelings for you and it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. HE is the one losing out on having a relationship with you and all the benefits that come with parental love. Just concentrate on the people in your life who do love you and are there for you. I'm sorry that he has to be that way.
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Easier said than done, but based on what you wrote, he's not much of a father, and you shouldn't have any expectations of him or internalize his behaviour in any way. What I mean by that is, you'll need to learn to accept who he is and just because his sperm created you doesn't mean he has any parental feelings for you and it has nothing to do with you and everything to do with him. HE is the one losing out on having a relationship with you and all the benefits that come with parental love. Just concentrate on the people in your life who do love you and are there for you. I'm sorry that he has to be that way.
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