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Last edited by spring1onu; 02-28-2013 at 10:23 PM.
We have a lot of smart asses here on NC who consider themselves intelligent and above all other, unfortunately.
Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
How do you know what they consider themselves? Seriously. You're not in their mind so how do you know that that's what they think about themselves?
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That's what I interpret it as. Who cares what they think of themselves? In reality, no one cares. It's just cyber space. We come here to chat, argue, make friends, vent, voice our opinions, help each other and then we logg off and resume our normal lives

That's what I love about this place. None of this affects me negatively in real life, but I have taken a lot of positive things from here and made friendships. I'm sure you can say the same, no?

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I find (not on this board) that alot of people on message boards just want to argue about everything. Everyone has opinions and there is no problem voicing your opinion but then let it go - we get it. Don't need to keep arguing. I find that people do this much more on the internet because they don't see the person face to face. MUCH more bullying going on over the internet
Originally Posted by Darby
I agree with this 100% and i think alot of it goes on here too.

Its not fair to say people log off and go back to their Normal lives. I know of someone on here who was bullied for weeks and people just wouldn't drop the topic on her post,it got as far as some dragging it to other threads. When i reached out to her she told me she cried for 1 week str8 due to the hurtful things people wrote.

The post (along with alot of others) was never meant to offend anyone nor was it directed to anyone. It seem like some people sit around and wait for the perfect post to target.

Reality is we dont know what happen once other people log off. At the end of the day we are all perfect strangers. There are some things that people say on here that should not be said. People can be outright nasty. Sad part is once one person start many follow along. This board can get elementary at times.

Many have argued that everyone has an opinion and are free to voice them but i know & have seen the difference between a discussion between 2 people with different view points and blatant disrespect. whatever happened to the saying "if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it at all"?

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Last edited by dee-nature; 03-01-2013 at 03:53 PM.
Lots of people need to have discussions/resolve conflicts in some way but have or can not do so. So they get on the internet and start anonymously attacking people to work out that aggression. If dude is arguing with you heatedly over Pringles, for example, he's mad about something else. There's a difference between that and simply asserting your views though.
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Last edited by moodydove; 03-01-2013 at 12:11 AM.
not to be argumentative but Pringles are the sux
not to be argumentative but pringles are the sux
Originally Posted by obb
NO but I don't think they are
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Last edited by moodydove; 03-01-2013 at 09:02 AM.
Pringles causes deformities FACT!
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Lots of people need to have discussions/resolve conflicts in some way but have or can not do so. So they get on the internet and start anonymously attacking people to work out that aggression. If dude is arguing with you heatedly over Pringles, for example, he's mad about something else. There's a difference between that and simply asserting your views though.
Originally Posted by moodydove
Thats a good way to look @ it. Makes sense


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I find (not on this board) that alot of people on message boards just want to argue about everything. Everyone has opinions and there is no problem voicing your opinion but then let it go - we get it. Don't need to keep arguing. I find that people do this much more on the internet because they don't see the person face to face. MUCH more bullying going on over the internet
Originally Posted by Darby
I agree with this 100% and i think alot of it goes on here too.

Its not fair to say people log off and go back to their Normal lives. I know of someone on here who was bullied for weeks and people just wouldn't drop the topic on her post,it got as far as some dragging it to other threads. When i reached out to her she told me she cried for 1 week str8 due to the hurtful things people wrote. The post (along with alot of others) was never meant to offend anyone nor was it directed to anyone. It seem like some people sit around and wait for the perfect post to target. Reality is we dont know what happen once other people log off. At the end off the day we are all perfect strangers. There are some things that people say on here that should not be said. People can be outright nasty. Sad part is once one person start many follow along. This board can get elementary at times.

Many have argued that everyone has an opinion and are free to voice them but i know & have seen the difference between a discussion between 2 people with different view points and blatant disrespect. whatever happened to the saying "if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it at all"?

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Originally Posted by dee-nature
Well said. I've never experienced anything like that here, but that goes back to what I said about people on here acting like donkeys.

I'm sorry about the tough experience your friend had.


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not to be argumentative but Pringles are the sux
Originally Posted by OBB
You're wrong, dumbass.
Eres o te haces?
Ranch Pringles 4-eva!
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Pringles give kitties as prizes. so wrong

Pringles give kitties as prizes. so wrong

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Last edited by OBB; 03-01-2013 at 10:29 AM.
I find (not on this board) that alot of people on message boards just want to argue about everything. Everyone has opinions and there is no problem voicing your opinion but then let it go - we get it. Don't need to keep arguing. I find that people do this much more on the internet because they don't see the person face to face. MUCH more bullying going on over the internet
Originally Posted by Darby
I agree with this 100% and i think alot of it goes on here too.

Its not fair to say people log off and go back to their Normal lives. I know of someone on here who was bullied for weeks and people just wouldn't drop the topic on her post,it got as far as some dragging it to other threads. When i reached out to her she told me she cried for 1 week str8 due to the hurtful things people wrote. The post (along with alot of others) was never meant to offend anyone nor was it directed to anyone. It seem like some people sit around and wait for the perfect post to target. Reality is we dont know what happen once other people log off. At the end off the day we are all perfect strangers. There are some things that people say on here that should not be said. People can be outright nasty. Sad part is once one person start many follow along. This board can get elementary at times.

Many have argued that everyone has an opinion and are free to voice them but i know & have seen the difference between a discussion between 2 people with different view points and blatant disrespect. whatever happened to the saying "if you dont have anything nice to say dont say it at all"?

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Originally Posted by dee-nature
Well said. I've never experienced anything like that here, but that goes back to what I said about people on here acting like donkeys.

I'm sorry about the tough experience your friend had.


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Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
Thank you LIB :-)


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Some women just permanently have that stick up their you know what and they bring that here,
Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
AMEN


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I have learned a lot by my dumbass arguing about subjects I know very little or nothing about. When does it go from debate to arguement? An opposing view isn't always bad.

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