When I got married I changed my name. The excitement of that lasted about 2 years before I wanted my nsme back. I felt like I had totally lost my identity.
I have made it clear that if I got married again I would keep my last name. I know a lot of people who got divorced and kept their married name. Thats interesting. Maybe to keep the same last name as their children?
My last name is currently my middle name so I didn't drop it completely, but I'll be relieved when its legally my last name again.
I wouldn't. I like my name and I feel like I'd confuse my kids, but I think you and your fiance have a child already (or am I thinking of another poster?) so it wouldn't be as weird to change your last name if that's the case.