Well, my first "attempts" were with my current husband.
We were at his mom's house after I graduated high school and came back down south (I spent my Sr yr in Illinois). I say attempts because when we tried before we could NOT get it in. My stuff was a straight up brick wall. And he didn't want to just jam it in so it took a while. Once we did do it. It didn't really hurt, just kinda uncomfortable. From what I remember, it was really unpleasant. I was actually numb on the inside. I could feel it but not major pleasure or anything. It was special though because he made me feel very loved and comfortable
Afterward there was a little blood on the sheet, nothing to cry about lol.
After the first time it got much easier and my insides were like "Oh ok, this is supposed to feel good!!" And it did :-). I think I was lucky because I never had a stigma growing up about sex. I just never did it until I was almost 18 because for one I didn't like anyone enough before him and two I didn't wana get pregnant. I didn't really care about being a virgin all through high school, and nobody else did either lol.
Also, I wanted to add that I was TOTALLY READY lol. And I mean, I was already taking BC, we had both been tested, even though we didn't need it. Condoms. Totally prepared. I think most horror stories come when girls aren't prepared, a-hole boyfriends, and preconceptions/fears.
How can I say goodbye P.L.G.