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Old 03-28-2013, 01:03 PM   #21
 
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They may not be compatible and as the OP has grown into herself, the cracks in the relationship are beginning to show. With good communication and compromise, the marriage may be salvageable. But I would try to get a life with and without the husband before making such a huge life change.
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Old 08-17-2013, 09:17 PM   #22
 
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Sorry, it's been awhile. I've been down in the dumps lately, imagine that. Thanks for all of your opinions, ladies.

Things are the same, I haven't made any changes. I'm going to suggest couples counseling and see how that goes.

I'm just not content anymore and I feel so guilty because of it. Every time I think about it I start tearing up. I keep picturing how he would look at me after I tell him the truth and it tears me up inside. He keeps talking about future plans like traveling but my gut feels different. Not in a good way.
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Old 08-18-2013, 11:24 AM   #23
 
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Hang in there! No need to feel guilty. You didn't do anything wrong or have bad intentions. Do what is right for you because only you have to live your life. Keep us posted.

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Old 08-18-2013, 12:14 PM   #24
 
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Sorry, it's been awhile. I've been down in the dumps lately, imagine that. Thanks for all of your opinions, ladies.

Things are the same, I haven't made any changes. I'm going to suggest couples counseling and see how that goes.

I'm just not content anymore and I feel so guilty because of it. Every time I think about it I start tearing up. I keep picturing how he would look at me after I tell him the truth and it tears me up inside. He keeps talking about future plans like traveling but my gut feels different. Not in a good way.


Life is too short to be miserable. I hope that if you are going to make a move to make your life better, that you do it soon. Waiting doesn't make it easier, and it just uses up more of your youth.
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