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Curlyminx 04-29-2013 10:44 AM

Active Basketball Player Comes Out As Gay
 
NBA veteran Jason Collins becomes first male pro athlete to come out as gay - NBA News | FOX Sports on MSN

I'm very happy.

Lotsawaves 04-29-2013 11:17 AM

Good for him....:thumright:

jeepcurlygurl 04-29-2013 11:59 AM

ditto

yossarian 04-29-2013 12:39 PM

Very courageous, given the testosterone-infused nature of male sports.The crucial issue is how other players react, and in that regard, Kobe's public statement of support is incredibly important.

I wonder how his decision to reveal his homosexuality will affect his prospects for next season. Will an NBA team be reticent to sign him, given his "baggage"?

I wish Jason the best of luck :thumbup:

mad scientist 04-29-2013 01:10 PM

FIRST pro athlete? Really???

I had no idea until the Manti T'eo business that this was such a big deal.

Kudos to Jason. I hope he inspires others and makes sports a safer place for LGBT kids.

CurlyCanadian 04-29-2013 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by mad scientist (Post 2160066)
FIRST pro athlete? Really???

I think that shocked me more then anything!

Good for him and I hope this means others will feel comfortable enough to come out.

The New Black 04-29-2013 01:54 PM

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Originally Posted by mad scientist (Post 2160066)
FIRST pro athlete? Really???

I had no idea until the Manti T'eo business that this was such a big deal.

Kudos to Jason. I hope he inspires others and makes sports a safer place for LGBT kids.

I think he's the first athlete to come out while still playing. Retired athletes have come out though.

Josephine 04-29-2013 02:06 PM

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Originally Posted by CurlyCanadian (Post 2160081)
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Originally Posted by mad scientist (Post 2160066)
FIRST pro athlete? Really???

I think that shocked me more then anything!

Good for him and I hope this means others will feel comfortable enough to come out.

I'm assuming Canadian males are different? It's a big deal here.

yossarian 04-29-2013 02:36 PM

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Originally Posted by The New Black (Post 2160082)
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Originally Posted by mad scientist (Post 2160066)
FIRST pro athlete? Really???

I had no idea until the Manti T'eo business that this was such a big deal.

Kudos to Jason. I hope he inspires others and makes sports a safer place for LGBT kids.

I think he's the first athlete to come out while still playing. Retired athletes have come out though.

Correction: no male athlete has come out while still playing. Several female athletes (I think the first was WNBA star Sheryl Swoopes) have come out, but there isn't the same stigma. Just a couple of weeks ago, basketball player Brittney Griner mentioned that she is lesbian in an interview with Sports Illustrated, which didn't stop Nike from giving her a big endorsement deal.

Josephine 04-29-2013 03:13 PM

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Originally Posted by yossarian (Post 2160095)
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Originally Posted by The New Black (Post 2160082)
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Originally Posted by mad scientist (Post 2160066)
FIRST pro athlete? Really???

I had no idea until the Manti T'eo business that this was such a big deal.

Kudos to Jason. I hope he inspires others and makes sports a safer place for LGBT kids.

I think he's the first athlete to come out while still playing. Retired athletes have come out though.

Correction: no male athlete has come out while still playing. Several female athletes (I think the first was WNBA star Sheryl Swoopes) have come out, but there isn't the same stigma. Just a couple of weeks ago, basketball player Brittney Griner mentioned that she is lesbian in an interview with Sports Illustrated, which didn't stop Nike from giving her a big endorsement deal.

Yep I had a male coworkers tell me how it's different with guys and he wouldn't feel comfortable playing and being in a locker room with a gay athlete. Another one agreed and I'm not surprised.

juanab 04-29-2013 03:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Josephine (Post 2160101)
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Originally Posted by yossarian (Post 2160095)
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Originally Posted by The New Black (Post 2160082)
I think he's the first athlete to come out while still playing. Retired athletes have come out though.

Correction: no male athlete has come out while still playing. Several female athletes (I think the first was WNBA star Sheryl Swoopes) have come out, but there isn't the same stigma. Just a couple of weeks ago, basketball player Brittney Griner mentioned that she is lesbian in an interview with Sports Illustrated, which didn't stop Nike from giving her a big endorsement deal.

Yep I had a male coworkers tell me how it's different with guys and he wouldn't feel comfortable playing and being in a locker room with a gay athlete. Another one agreed and I'm not surprised.

They really need to get over themselves. The automatic assumption is that a gay guy is going to be attracted to you? Perhaps their fear comes from not being secure about their own sexuality.

The New Black 04-29-2013 03:48 PM

@Yossarian Ahhh, I see.^^

The New Black 04-29-2013 03:51 PM

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Originally Posted by Josephine (Post 2160101)
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Originally Posted by yossarian (Post 2160095)

Correction: no male athlete has come out while still playing. Several female athletes (I think the first was WNBA star Sheryl Swoopes) have come out, but there isn't the same stigma. Just a couple of weeks ago, basketball player Brittney Griner mentioned that she is lesbian in an interview with Sports Illustrated, which didn't stop Nike from giving her a big endorsement deal.

Yep I had a male coworkers tell me how it's different with guys and he wouldn't feel comfortable playing and being in a locker room with a gay athlete. Another one agreed and I'm not surprised.

They really need to get over themselves. The automatic assumption is that a gay guy is going to be attracted to you? Perhaps their fear comes from not being secure about their own sexuality.

Is that the reason? Maybe. But I don't necessarily think so. Similar topics have been discussed on the board before. For example, having coed locker rooms or having someone who's MTF (in transition). I wouldn't be comfortable having a man in a locker room with me, not because I think he'd be attracted to me. It's not a rational concern but I'd still feel uncomfortable.

juanab 04-29-2013 04:02 PM

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Originally Posted by The New Black (Post 2160115)
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Originally Posted by juanab (Post 2160105)
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Originally Posted by Josephine (Post 2160101)

Yep I had a male coworkers tell me how it's different with guys and he wouldn't feel comfortable playing and being in a locker room with a gay athlete. Another one agreed and I'm not surprised.

They really need to get over themselves. The automatic assumption is that a gay guy is going to be attracted to you? Perhaps their fear comes from not being secure about their own sexuality.

Is that the reason? Maybe. But I don't necessarily think so. Similar topics have been discussed on the board before. For example, having coed locker rooms or having someone who's MTF (in transition). I wouldn't be comfortable having a man in a locker room with me, not because I think he'd be attracted to me. It's not a rational concern but I'd still feel uncomfortable.

Not the same IMO. Gender change versus sexuality. A person changing their gender doesn't usually change who they are attracted to.

The New Black 04-29-2013 04:06 PM

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Originally Posted by juanab (Post 2160117)
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Originally Posted by The New Black (Post 2160115)
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Originally Posted by juanab (Post 2160105)

They really need to get over themselves. The automatic assumption is that a gay guy is going to be attracted to you? Perhaps their fear comes from not being secure about their own sexuality.

Is that the reason? Maybe. But I don't necessarily think so. Similar topics have been discussed on the board before. For example, having coed locker rooms or having someone who's MTF (in transition). I wouldn't be comfortable having a man in a locker room with me, not because I think he'd be attracted to me. It's not a rational concern but I'd still feel uncomfortable.

Not the same IMO. Gender change versus sexuality. A person changing their gender doesn't usually change who they are attracted to.

Coed locker rooms would be similar though.

juanab 04-29-2013 04:20 PM

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Originally Posted by The New Black (Post 2160119)
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Originally Posted by juanab (Post 2160117)
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Originally Posted by The New Black (Post 2160115)
Is that the reason? Maybe. But I don't necessarily think so. Similar topics have been discussed on the board before. For example, having coed locker rooms or having someone who's MTF (in transition). I wouldn't be comfortable having a man in a locker room with me, not because I think he'd be attracted to me. It's not a rational concern but I'd still feel uncomfortable.

Not the same IMO. Gender change versus sexuality. A person changing their gender doesn't usually change who they are attracted to.

Coed locker rooms would be similar though.

Agreed.

Curlyminx 04-29-2013 05:43 PM

I dunno that I find it the same as a coed gym at all.

This is a team. A group of people that depend on each other and are closer than what I would find in a gym.

While I would feel uncomfortable with a random group of men and women, if I was part of a team and looked at them as such, I wouldn't be uncomfortable.

In high school, I dressed very quickly in p.e. In colorguard, we walked around practically nekkid because we were a team and felt comfortable around each other.

mrspoppers 04-29-2013 05:49 PM

That's great. Good for him!

There's been talk for a month or so about a small group of NFL players that is ready to come out very soon. Nike has already said the first "major" professional athlete to come out will be offered a multi-million dollar endorsement deal. There were other companies that said they look forward to working with gay athletes. By major, they meant starting player. To be honest with you, I'm not sure if Jason Collins qualifies or not. I've been boycotting the NBA since our Sonics were taken from us.

Curlyminx 04-29-2013 06:03 PM

Also, I'm completely touched by the fact that he has been playing the No. 98 jersey in support of Matthew Shepard and the Trevor Project.

mad scientist 04-29-2013 10:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Josephine (Post 2160087)
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Originally Posted by CurlyCanadian (Post 2160081)
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Originally Posted by mad scientist (Post 2160066)
FIRST pro athlete? Really???

I think that shocked me more then anything!

Good for him and I hope this means others will feel comfortable enough to come out.

I'm assuming Canadian males are different? It's a big deal here.

I don't think this would be a big deal to the average Canadian male, especially in the 18-40 year old range. But maybe I'm wrong.


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