I just wanted to apologize to everyone for not responding. For some reason, today is the first day in a long time that this website has actually been able to load for me. Anyway, we had a long discussion a week ago. This conversation was triggered by the fact that he all of a sudden decided to stop going to therapy. According to him, he stopped going to therapy because the problem is not with him. He thinks that he has lost interest in our sex life because I have gained weight. I have gained about 5 pounds since I started a new birth control pill in September of last year. Honestly, the only way I knew that I had even gained weight was when I had a doctor's appointment and they told me. My clothes do not fit or look any different and I do not look heavier. I am really not sure how he even knew that I had gained any weight but I am pretty upset. I decided to take a break from our relationship once he told me this.