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I just wanted to apologize to everyone for not responding. For some reason, today is the first day in a long time that this website has actually been able to load for me. Anyway, we had a long discussion a week ago. This conversation was triggered by the fact that he all of a sudden decided to stop going to therapy. According to him, he stopped going to therapy because the problem is not with him. He thinks that he has lost interest in our sex life because I have gained weight. I have gained about 5 pounds since I started a new birth control pill in September of last year. Honestly, the only way I knew that I had even gained weight was when I had a doctor's appointment and they told me. My clothes do not fit or look any different and I do not look heavier. I am really not sure how he even knew that I had gained any weight but I am pretty upset. I decided to take a break from our relationship once he told me this.
Oh, wow! I'm so sorry you are going through this. Smart move taking a step in the other direction. That was not cool at all.
sigh...an ahole move if ever there was one.

Now that it's over, I'll say what I wanted to all along. I think he had his first homosexual experience, liked it and mentally checked out of your relationship months ago.

Well, either way, there are plenty of men who are attracted to you and would love to spend time w/ you. So now you are free to explore relationships with them.
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Last edited by spiderlashes5000; 06-07-2013 at 04:42 PM.

Now that it's over, I'll say what I wanted to all along.
Originally Posted by spiderlashes5000
Me too, troll, jmo

Now that it's over, I'll say what I wanted to all along.
Originally Posted by spiderlashes5000
Me too, troll, jmo
Originally Posted by Josephine
Wait...me or the OP? LOL
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Sorry about that. It's a pretty shallow reason and it's probably BS. It probably will be for the best though.

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Good move! He doesn't seem to respect you and seems to be a little abusive. I am sorry though if you are hurting, but you will find someone worthy of you.

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I just wanted to apologize to everyone for not responding. For some reason, today is the first day in a long time that this website has actually been able to load for me. Anyway, we had a long discussion a week ago. This conversation was triggered by the fact that he all of a sudden decided to stop going to therapy. According to him, he stopped going to therapy because the problem is not with him. He thinks that he has lost interest in our sex life because I have gained weight. I have gained about 5 pounds since I started a new birth control pill in September of last year. Honestly, the only way I knew that I had even gained weight was when I had a doctor's appointment and they told me. My clothes do not fit or look any different and I do not look heavier. I am really not sure how he even knew that I had gained any weight but I am pretty upset. I decided to take a break from our relationship once he told me this.
Originally Posted by mysterycurly

What an ashole.

I think you're doing the right thing by moving on.

And I think there is more to the story...possibly the homosexual thing that SL5000 postulates.
I just wanted to apologize to everyone for not responding. For some reason, today is the first day in a long time that this website has actually been able to load for me. Anyway, we had a long discussion a week ago. This conversation was triggered by the fact that he all of a sudden decided to stop going to therapy. According to him, he stopped going to therapy because the problem is not with him. He thinks that he has lost interest in our sex life because I have gained weight. I have gained about 5 pounds since I started a new birth control pill in September of last year. Honestly, the only way I knew that I had even gained weight was when I had a doctor's appointment and they told me. My clothes do not fit or look any different and I do not look heavier. I am really not sure how he even knew that I had gained any weight but I am pretty upset. I decided to take a break from our relationship once he told me this.
Originally Posted by mysterycurly

What an ashole.

I think you're doing the right thing by moving on.

And I think there is more to the story...possibly the homosexual thing that SL5000 postulates.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
I wouldn't be surprised if it were homosexual activity or something else unconventional for a straight man in a relationship to be doing.

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