RIP Lisa Ann

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Leave Lotsa alone. She simply carelessly misworded her question without malicious intent, she's just as curious as the rest of us as to what happened.

I didn't know her personally, but Godspeed Lisa.

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Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
I don't want to speak for others but think a simple apology is all people are looking for. It has yet to be given despite it being pointed out that the comment was insensitive.

Intention is irrelevant.
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I never got the chance to know LisaAnn on NC - guess I just missed out. So sad to hear about her death - I looked at her blog and website and she was a doll. Anyone who has pictures from Rudolph and the Grinch on their website is someone I would definitely like. I had asthma when I was around her age and feel thankful I made it through - almost didn't. I would have loved to have known her.
Originally Posted by asugirl

Where is her blog? I would like to read it.
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
I just looked at the thread Gekko422 brought back up yesterday and found some of LisaAnn's posts. Her blog is linked at the bottom of them.
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Leave Lotsa alone. She simply carelessly misworded her question without malicious intent, she's just as curious as the rest of us as to what happened.

I didn't know her personally, but Godspeed Lisa.

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Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
I don't want to speak for others but think a simple apology is all people are looking for. It has yet to be given despite it being pointed out that the comment was insensitive.

Intention is irrelevant.
Originally Posted by Nej
Intent is completely relevant, she made it clear that she meant no harm. She was just inquiring about the situation which she has every right to since this is a public fourm open to all users.

If she does decide to apologize, I hope it'll put an end to this ridiculousness so we can all start talking about what happened with Lisa, otherwise the mods should just lock the thread now.

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Can someone link the blog so I can see? I'm on the app and I never go on nc.com on my laptop because of the slowness.

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It was obvious she wasn't trying to be malicious; she used a sad face and an angel emoticon to convey empathy. Not cool.

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So sorry to hear of her death.
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Originally Posted by multicultcurly
OMG i cannot believe how rude some people are on here. I second this i didnt pick up ill intend with her comment either. Some people need to get a life



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Leave Lotsa alone. She simply carelessly misworded her question without malicious intent, she's just as curious as the rest of us as to what happened.

I didn't know her personally, but Godspeed Lisa.

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Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
I don't want to speak for others but think a simple apology is all people are looking for. It has yet to be given despite it being pointed out that the comment was insensitive.

Intention is irrelevant.
Originally Posted by Nej
Intent is completely relevant, she made it clear that she meant no harm. She was just inquiring about the situation which she has every right to since this is a public fourm open to all users.

If she does decide to apologize, I hope it'll put an end to this ridiculousness so we can all start talking about what happened with Lisa, otherwise the mods should just lock the thread now.

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Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
Talk about insensitivity. Since you seem to have a morbid curiosity, the cause of her death was mentioned on page one. I hope you were able to find the link to her blog so you could put that morbid curiosity to rest.
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Some people need to get a life
Originally Posted by dee-nature
Really??? Not the best choice of words in this thread about someone who has died that was a friend to many of us.
LisaAnn's blog:

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Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
Thank you.

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I don't want to speak for others but think a simple apology is all people are looking for. It has yet to be given despite it being pointed out that the comment was insensitive.

Intention is irrelevant.
Originally Posted by Nej
Intent is completely relevant, she made it clear that she meant no harm. She was just inquiring about the situation which she has every right to since this is a public fourm open to all users.

If she does decide to apologize, I hope it'll put an end to this ridiculousness so we can all start talking about what happened with Lisa, otherwise the mods should just lock the thread now.

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Originally Posted by LoveInBetween
Talk about insensitivity. Since you seem to have a morbid curiosity, the cause of her death was mentioned on page one. I hope you were able to find the link to her blog so you could put that morbid curiosity to rest.
Originally Posted by mrspoppers
I did see the cause of death before I posted, but I'm sure there's more to be discussed otherwise a thread wouldn't have been created. Morbid curiosity? Please, I'm a medical student. I've seen plenty of dead bodies. My curiousity was put to rest long ago, I'm curious about the PERSON who died. I'm sad that I never got a chance to know her and never will!

With that said, I'm sorry yall. I know you guys are upset. No more insensitivity, I just don't like seeing people ganged up on. I felt like Lotsa wasn't being heard.


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Oh for cripes sake, can we all please move on? Both parties have said their piece. Let's not continue to take away from the message of the thread. Let's remember and honor Lisa. Continuing to bicker on a thread created to honor her memory is disrespectful.
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Thank you SL & Multi. I'm really not a heartless person. Maybe I should have asked "Is she the curly who committed suicide" instead of labeling her. I really never meant any disrepect.
Originally Posted by Lotsawaves
Perhaps it would've been more appropriate to say, "I'm so sorry to hear. What happened?" Or "I'm so sorry to hear. Do you know the cause?"

Any number of responses would've been more appropriate than, "Was she the suicide?" It did come across as blunt and heartless.

Lisa was a hilarious woman and a fellow Buffy 'shipper. She will be greatly missed by so many.
Originally Posted by PartyHair
Exactly, PH. She might just be a random poster to some, but she was a real person and real friend to many of us. Her death was sudden and upsetting and to see someone responding like it was something to gawk at and just casually ask if she was 'the suicide' was offensive.
Originally Posted by rileyb
This exactly. I haven't posted in ages, but I met Lisa 10+ years ago... I vacationed with her, she has stayed in my home, we tried to get together whenever we were in the same city at the same time.... She wasn't just a random on a board to some of us.

A little sensitivity or thoughtfulness would have been warranted when you learn of a person passing. Even if that person meant nothing to you, who responds with a "was she the suicide" when you learn of a death? Seriously, who?
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I am truly sorry if I offended anyone even tho' it was unintentional as I did explain in an earlier post. I do have to say that to have 2 people tell me to GFY is very rude and hurtful to me. I'm surprised the mods let that pass with nothing more than a post about rules.

Let's please carry on in this thread as it was intended.

RIP....LisaAnn.
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RIP LisaAnn. I barely knew her on here, but my heartfelt thoughts go out to her family and friends.
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...and today was her birthday. .
Don't let your heart be broken. Let it love.
...and today was her birthday. .
Originally Posted by Spider
Happy Birthday Lisa

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How completely appropriate that on a thread honoring Lisa, the first thing Gekko does is call someone an idiot.
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Oh for cripes sake, can we all please move on? Both parties have said their piece. Let's not continue to take away from the message of the thread. Let's remember and honor Lisa. Continuing to bicker on a thread created to honor her memory is disrespectful.
Originally Posted by medussa
Actually, I bet Lisa would think it was pretty funny.
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To Trenell, MizKerri and geeky:
I pray none of you ever has to live in a communist state.

Geeky is my hero. She's the true badass. The badass who doesn't even need to be a badass. There aren't enough O's in cool to describe her.
How completely appropriate that on a thread honoring Lisa, the first thing Gekko does is call someone an idiot.
Originally Posted by CGE
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To Trenell, MizKerri and geeky:
I pray none of you ever has to live in a communist state.

Geeky is my hero. She's the true badass. The badass who doesn't even need to be a badass. There aren't enough O's in cool to describe her.

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