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  • 1 Post By Fifi.G
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- Your age.
-Says he/she is a sailor, but never really gets into what his/her job is as a sailor. I'm assuming sailors don't just....sail.
-Lives in a hotel.
-"Limited" transportation.
-So far unable to maintain a conversation.
-Wants to "hang out" at the mall.

"In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer."

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No. I have no objections to just hanging out, and talking. I don't expect a lavish date from anyone, and understand that someone may be having a hard time for any number of reasons, but the unwillingness to talk would make me uneasy.
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??

And in my head I keep saying "the mall?" How old are you?
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When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??

And in my head I keep saying "the mall?" How old are you?
Originally Posted by Fifi.G
I know....

"In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer."

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Unable to maintain a conversation? No thanks, how do you benefit from this type of relationship? Do yourself a favor and don't get attached. Sounds like a lot of red flags to me!

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I'm surprised anyone would have to ask the question.
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No MAS.

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Whew, glad I'm not crazy. Agree 100%.

Really no idea why dating would be a priority for you if you're basically without a permanent residence, but that's just me.
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"In the depth of winter, I finally learned that within me there lay an invincible summer."

4a, mbl, low porosity, normal thickness, fine hair.
I'm surprised anyone would have to ask the question.
Originally Posted by The New Black
Me too. Why would it even be a question lol
Um, no. Too many red flags. The fact that he's practically homeless would be a big one.
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Whew, glad I'm not crazy. Agree 100%.

Really no idea why dating would be a priority for you if you're basically without a permanent residence, but that's just me.
Originally Posted by curlyarca
Dating is a priority because they are looking for someone to take them in? Sponge.. mooch.. freeloader.. leech
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Totally agree, TRBL....I ran into one of those once. They move pretty quickly.
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Are they staying in a hotel in the town they are from? When I was on the ship, a lot of the officers just traveled while on leave (8 weeks on, 8 weeks off). They were totally just looking for hook ups though.
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I'm not at all fussy and find something 'dateable' about nearly anyone, but this one sounds even too odd or difficult for me. I would have to say No.
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The main dealbreaker to me is the issue regarding his conversation. But what do you mean? Is he inarticulate, un-informed, too silly, easily distrated, have a speech impediment, argumentative, what?

The transportation thing is a big problem for me, too. But again, what does this mean? Does he share a car w/ a roommate, have an unreliable car, have a bus pass but no car, have a restricted license, what? It would depend on whether this situation could be improved and if so, how long it would take.

The other issues don't really mean anything one way or another without knowing the full story. I mean, I was recently technically homeless for 4 months and had a very undesirable living situation bc I sold my old house and the closing on my new house was delayed for various reasons. It was a real PITA but not the end of the world by any means.

It sounds like this person is just rubbing you (or whoever is communicating w/ him) the wrong way probably more bc the personlities just aren't jibing rather than bc there is something objectively bad about him. And that alone is an OK reason to not want to continue getting to know a person.

But no, IMO there is nothing glaringly wrong w/ this person from what you describe.

eta - the only ppl I know who call themselves sailors are ppl in the US Navy and ppl in the Merchant Marines. Ppl who work on commercial fishing boats call themselves fishermen and ppl who drive vessels call themselves boat or ship captains. So his job could be only one of two things, from what I understand.
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Last edited by spiderlashes5000; 07-16-2013 at 02:37 PM.
i would run to the other end of planet earth rather than date this person!



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Rou....you need to stop being so picky.
From Michael Berg:

Every person has a unique connection to the Creator that can never be extinguished, and every person has a great soul that can manifest important things in our world. To make a person feel less than they are because of something inside themselves, be it faith, race, or sexual orientation, is the greatest sin of all."
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Maybe they're in the Navy ??
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