My Son In Law Attempted Suicide...

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Sorry that you are going through these very rough times Lotsa. I hope things improve for you and your daughter.
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Things haven't been that good, Spider. They are in such a financial hole. The other morning my SIL wouldn't get out of bed. He was so depressed and worried. He finally got up in the afternoon and went to work. He's in commercial real estate and he's not making enough to pay all the bills. I worry about them all the time and wish I could help, but I can't. I'm afraid they may end up losing their house. They did file insurance papers so hopefully some of the rehab for Renee will be covered.
Originally Posted by Lotsawaves
Ugh.... Can he pick up a second job? Or can she get a job? I know it might seem overwhelming to her right now, but if it was something she actually enjoyed, it might help her recovery.

But even if not, have they spoken w/ their lender? Banks are very willing to modify loan terms and work w/ borrowers now (too many foreclosures on their books). I think they would have more options if they start the process now rather than later.
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I have done research and I've told them to contact their lender. They have options, but aren't doing anything. I encouraged my daughter to come with me to interview with the Chiropractor and she didn't. Said she had a meeting with her counselor. One that she admitted could have been rescheduled for the next day. I told her to check on the PT jobs posted on Craig's List. I'm working at getting her to sell her bracelets she makes at a boutique sale coming up Dec 12th. She sounds interested, but who knows. I've tried to help, but it's really up to them. They are trying to sell one of their vehicles and buy another one for cash, so they won't have the extra car payment. They asked if Jim and I wanted to buy their flat screen tv. When I think about the whole situation I want to cry. I don't want my grandchildren hurt by all of this.
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Do they have enough space to take in a paying lodger even if the kids have to share or they lose a dining room?
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No, unfortunately they don't. If they did have the extra room I would have moved in to help both of us out when I quit my job and Jim moved out. I did say to my daughter last nite that it's unfortunate that they need 2 vehicles, becuz the $9K they are getting selling the Tahoe could have helped out to get caught up on the bills instead of buying another vehicle. I just wanted to plant a little seed.
From Michael Berg:

Every person has a unique connection to the Creator that can never be extinguished, and every person has a great soul that can manifest important things in our world. To make a person feel less than they are because of something inside themselves, be it faith, race, or sexual orientation, is the greatest sin of all."

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