(This needed its own post to not spoil the one above!)
You are a fraud. You present yourself as knowing things you do not, and those who believe you are taking risk in trusting you. I hope you cause no damage. I hope those who allow your misbehavior and mistreatment of others realize their mistakes. You are scary, and you should be locked up.
The pews never miss a sermon but that doesn't get them one step closer to Heaven.
I don't want to hurt your feelings, but I feel like I'm alone in all of this . You are the first person I trusted to take care of me and now I'm disappointed because I was wrong. This whole time I should have been taking care of myself instead of relying on you. I hate to say it, but I don't trust you in this respect anymore. If I wait until you do what you say you are going to do, I'll be waiting forever.
Mother, just because I'm not married at age 26 does not automatically qualify me for old maid status. I could have married the oh so wonderful ex of mine but I don't ever want to have to explain to my children why their father just got arrested by the cops for drugs. And neither my brother nor I are destitute and without options. Proclaiming your children are apparently never going to get married when they are only 26 and 23 is hardly wise. Quit living in the 70's or 80's or whatever decade your ideas are coming from and welcome to the present. I will not chase down and marry some guy just to fulfill some kind of archaic belief system you have. If you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all, isn't that what you tried to teach me?
Those freaking things cost 3 THOUSAND dollars. Yes you dropping them wasn't on purpose at least consciously. But judging by your attitude I'm not surprise. I would think that something that cost so much money, and that we as a family sacrificed so much for, that you would take better care not to break them! And so now, we have to make even more sacrifices, and spend money we don't have to get them repaired.
We have bent over backwards for you in the last month, made ton of sacrifices and you aren't even trying to recover. And all we get for all the trouble is your *****ing, moaning, and grumpiness. And I am sick to death of it.
I wish I deserved you, but I'm oh so thankful you seem to think I do despite my millions of downfalls and issues. You really do deserve better.
Byron,GA> Charleston, SC> Jacksonville, FL> Guilford, CT> Rohnert Park, CA! A southern drawl in sunny Cali! . The amount of time from slipping on the peel and landing on the pavement is exactly one bananosecond. I do have a secret yen for pink in unexpected places. ~ninja dog
I've decided that I'll never get down to my original weight, and I'm OK with that--After all, 8 pounds 2 oz. is just not realistic.
Last edited by spring1onu; 03-11-2008 at 02:00 PM.
i don't want to move to *town where you grew up* just because YOU want to. you miss the familiarity? your friends? your family? everything you know? well so do i. remember, you asked me to move five hours away from my family and i did. remember *town* is still four hours away from the place i love and call home, my family, my friends, my old haunts.
i thought we were in this together because were both in a new place. besides, i don't want to live in *town*. for a number of reasons.
i've made a lot of sacrifices. when will we get to do things my way?
To K, I'm sorry A gave you my phone number, I know that must have given you hope that I might be interested. I'm not interested in you like that, and I don't mean that as offensive in any way. You're a nice guy, but I can tell you with all honesty that you and I would never be a good couple. I'm not attracted to you in that way, and I refuse to lead you on. A had no business giving out my phone number.
-Why can't I find a grown man? Seriously I don't want to date anymore boys masquerading as men. I'm tired of hearing guys say "I'm a grown ass man" but then acting in every way like a child. I want a man that acts like a man.
I really need to save money, but I don't know where to start. I potentially have all this money to last me the month, while still being able to have some left for savings, yet I seem to keep spending it all...on what? Nothing. I have nothing to show for all this money I'm spending.
You said I'd have a new (used) vehicle by tomorrow. As of now, you haven't found anything. I have to drive back to school. The loaner I have? I'm not OK with driving it. It's a car, for starters. It's a REALLY nice car. I live in a not-so-hot neighborhood. It is also the personal car of the family friend who has you searching for my new vehicle. I am WAY too nervous to drive this REALLY nice car back to school and keep it for minimum of a week before I drive back here to get my SUV tank. Had you not promised me one by the time I went back, I'd be less pissed. But you did. You suck. So far, anyway.
You expect me to trust you like I once did, but I'm afraid that is just impossible. Trust is something which is earned and I'm afraid you have not earned it. I bet as soon as your new bf has sorted her issues out you'll be there like a fly to sthi. And to think you tried to fob me off with the story about you being busy and all but yet you could call and go out with your other friend and all that.
Hell No am I jealous my point is that don't think ?I'm not on to you and your little games. i'm ready for you. Your too evil, you want the whole world to revolve round you and when it doesn't you get all vexed. eg if a guy you want to look at you doesn't and looks at someone else like that A dude from the club and the other dude from the shop. and now you want me to walk street with you to look man. Listen and listen good, I don't know why you're always inna competition with me it's silly we are two different people so dn't compare us and for goodness sake grow up already.
In other words I'm not really interested in your BS.
I'm 20 freaking 4, when I want a kid I WILL HAVE ONE. When I want to give up babysitting I WILL. But right now, and for a few more years, I will babysit and I will live my life without children and I will be happy. I want children and I want marriage and so I will do that when I feel good and ready. Get off my back. Stop saying that I have an attachment to those kids, I have babysitted them for almost a year now and I feel I have a responsibility to take care of them and so I will care about them.
I can live my life the way I want. I know if I stopped babysitting and got pregnant I would regret it until my very last day alive, so SHUT UP. I already regret losing my virgnity so young, so don't make me slap you at dinner. I have two jobs that pay quite well for my house and for my lazy ass SO. But you know what, at least my SO is trying. He is getting somewhere to live and he is getting a job, he has already started to pay me back. My SO has more responsibility than you ever will. When was the last time you had a girlfriend????? Seriously..I don't even remember one.
I don't go around asking you for your opinion and I don't bother you. Basically, all i'm saying is..