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Most doctors here prefer that women have at least 3 babies before they will discuss having their tubes tied. At least that's what I've been told by my female friends who requested it after their first child.

I'm getting so sleepy and I really need to stay up as late as I possibly can.
Originally Posted by Fifi.G

That's what I was told too

kayb - I had my tubes ties when I was in my mid-twenties. It took a bit of discussion with my regular doctor and the surgeon but it was what I wanted so what could they say? I would have just kept looking til a found a doc to do it. Best thing I ever did.
Originally Posted by jeepcurlygurl
That would be me. I knew from the age of 14 that I didn't want to have biological kids, and it's not because I am selfish but there are tonnes of kids out there who could use a good home and strong values and I do believe that I have that can share with someone truly deserving. Plus the planet is already overpopulated, why add one more?

Annnnnddddd..... Last Sat/Sun was the first time I ever seriously looked at a man and said "I would carry his child," but of course I was talking about JGL and that sure as hell ain't gonna happen. TBH I have become a bit disillusioned by the idea of love and I really doubt that it will happen so I don't think there is much to lose by my having my tubes tied.
I ain't thirsty. There's plenty of fish in the sea, but I don't want all of them, can I have some standards? Or do we just have to settle, for someone's who meh and will do.
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I had to wait until I was 25 before I could have my tubes tied. I was married and had 1 child at 21 and the doctor refused to tie them because he said I was too young. So I waited until I was 25, had my tubes tied, discovered I really needed a hysterectomy. I think they might have found stuff a lot sooner if I'd been able to have them tied when I wanted them. That's not really the point though...sometimes you just know. I knew I only wanted one child and I have never regretted it or changed my mind.
Originally Posted by Speckla
I'm a bit over 25

But as you said, I do know. Always have.
I ain't thirsty. There's plenty of fish in the sea, but I don't want all of them, can I have some standards? Or do we just have to settle, for someone's who meh and will do.
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As someone with a chronic disease and no health insurance, I can speak volumes if I get started.
Originally Posted by juanab
And don't get me started on healthcare. My ranting will make your ears bleed.
Originally Posted by jeepcurlygurl
this is why i'm adopting the lot of you!
Originally Posted by rouquinne
Yay!!!
Originally Posted by juanab
meeee meeee! i want a mama. I want a mama!!
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I had to wait until I was 25 before I could have my tubes tied. I was married and had 1 child at 21 and the doctor refused to tie them because he said I was too young. So I waited until I was 25, had my tubes tied, discovered I really needed a hysterectomy. I think they might have found stuff a lot sooner if I'd been able to have them tied when I wanted them. That's not really the point though...sometimes you just know. I knew I only wanted one child and I have never regretted it or changed my mind.
Originally Posted by Speckla
I'm a bit over 25

But as you said, I do know. Always have.
Originally Posted by kayb
I'd say bite me but I'm a vegetarian and I probably taste like tofu and spinach....
Yeah, I'm more than just a bit over 25. lol I'm more than a little bit over 30 or even 35...
Only 12 inches long? ONLY? Seriously, who would that be? Please.

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Originally Posted by iroc
I'm snickering.
Kiva! Microfinance works.

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I was under the impression that it was a general rule, but apparently not. I've never asked myself so that is interesting to know.

And adoption is a very admirable choice, kayb. For all the reasons you listed and more.
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??

I slept so much today.

I'm glad my eye doc fit me in today.

I'm glad I have enough time off available to take a few days off with pay.
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Only 12 inches long? ONLY? Seriously, who would that be? Please.

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Originally Posted by iroc
I'm snickering.
Originally Posted by redcelticcurls
Two men with an errector set and Lincoln Logs??
Beautiful, CIBC.

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I don't dislike beans, but, like rice, I resented eating them every damn day of my life. It didn't make me feel poor, just bored. I refused to cook it myself for years after leaving home.
Eres o te haces?
100 Days of Real Food posted on her facebook page about uncrustables. The comments are very nc worthy.
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Kaybaby, I love ya even more. I know you'd be a wonderful mama to an adopted child. I'd say adopt me but you're so old and Rou has already said she'd adopt me....Me? I am busy adopted stray cats!!
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100 Days of Real Food posted on her facebook page about uncrustables. The comments are very nc worthy.
Originally Posted by ruralcurls
PB and J Uncrustables are deellliiicous!
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Why did I think drinking Orange Juice was a good idea this late at night? I think pipe cleaner would be easier to handle right now....dammmnnnnitty to you GERD!
Kaybaby, I love ya even more. I know you'd be a wonderful mama to an adopted child. I'd say adopt me but you're so old and Rou has already said she'd adopt me....Me? I am busy adopted stray cats!!
Originally Posted by Speckla






oh, and there's a long line of people in front of you.....
I ain't thirsty. There's plenty of fish in the sea, but I don't want all of them, can I have some standards? Or do we just have to settle, for someone's who meh and will do.
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Kaybaby, I love ya even more. I know you'd be a wonderful mama to an adopted child. I'd say adopt me but you're so old and Rou has already said she'd adopt me....Me? I am busy adopted stray cats!!
Originally Posted by Speckla






oh, and there's a long line of people in front of you.....
Originally Posted by kayb
You aren't nearly as elderly as I am. And I am only 5'1" so I can't see over the line. I guess I'll just have to go under the fence.
Beautiful, CIBC.

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I don't dislike beans, but, like rice, I resented eating them every damn day of my life. It didn't make me feel poor, just bored. I refused to cook it myself for years after leaving home.
Originally Posted by legends
I get that (though I adore rice and beans miss them terribly when I haven't had them, and really, rice and I are OTP), but I can't help feeling that it's culturally myopic to consider certain foods the type you eat because of poverty. Beans are widely consumed by a variety of cultures and they'd never be seen as something to eat because you're poor. Not to mention people in cultures that are vegetarian for religious reasons and not because it's trendy or because they're trying to make a statement, but because vegetarianism is just a natural way of life; they would never consider beans something to eat grudgingly because there's no money. On the flipside, foods that are unknown and labeled "exotic" (or worse, "fancy") can be rather commonplace. Like I get the point, but bok choy is consumed regularly by a huge part of the world's population. It may be ecpensive if you go to Whole Foods for it, but it's pretty much dirt-cheap anywhere people who eat it regularly live.
100 Days of Real Food posted on her facebook page about uncrustables. The comments are very nc worthy.
Originally Posted by ruralcurls
Ummm, why exactly aren't you copying and pasting like a maniac? Sheesh!

I keep looking at my forearm now.
Originally Posted by murrrcat
Love it.

In other news, my quickly depleting phone battery is killing me.
When I hear terms like "hipster" I think, who told cliques they could leave high school??

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8tJo...ayer_embedded#!
I ain't thirsty. There's plenty of fish in the sea, but I don't want all of them, can I have some standards? Or do we just have to settle, for someone's who meh and will do.
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