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I know a woman who teaches her sex partners to choke her during sex.

Writing that down just made me very uncomfortable.
I knew a woman who did that too. One night her boyfriend took it too far, thought he had killed her, and got up and left. I saw her 2 days later. The way she looked was, OMG! Her boyfriend came by 4 days later and they made up. WTH?

I also briefly dated a guy who tried that on me, out of the blue one night. I gave him the same treatment, in an uncomfortable area, until he let go. NO! I will Bobbitt you! The last girl he dated requested and enjoyed it, and he thought most women would too. I ended that, quickly.

You would need to discuss, and have an insane level of trust, and sobriety, with someone to do that. You never know who or what you might get.
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Why are kids so fascinated with the choking game? I have been doing some more reading and research on it. I am mainly trying to find statistics, which are still lacking (and have reason to be), because the game itself is not hard to figure out. It is the door to autoerotic asphyxiation. I just can't... WHY? 4 kids in my area of died of this in under a year. I would have to imagine the actual total count is very high at this point.

ETA: Estimated 82 deaths of 11-19 years olds (some younger) from 97-2007. Probably much higher. Thanks to the mass amount of videos about it on YouTube, the popularity has sky rocketed. Estimated 1 out of 16 kids has tried it. Between choking to get high and synthetic pot, I am floored and puzzled.
My generation did it. My moms generation did it. Its been going on probably forever. Its a bit of a high, and human beings are interested in getting 'high' one way or another. I an not worried about it leading to other thing bc when it comes to more intense things they either do or they don't. The problem is parents don't talk to their kids. They don't take time to have a relationship with their kids. They are too busy involved in other things and get their kids involved in other things but avoid spending actual time with them themselves. A lack of relationship means the kids won't feel comfortable talking to their parents, and they certainly won't base their actions on whether their parents will approve of them or not.


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Why are kids so fascinated with the choking game? I have been doing some more reading and research on it. I am mainly trying to find statistics, which are still lacking (and have reason to be), because the game itself is not hard to figure out. It is the door to autoerotic asphyxiation. I just can't... WHY? 4 kids in my area of died of this in under a year. I would have to imagine the actual total count is very high at this point.

ETA: Estimated 82 deaths of 11-19 years olds (some younger) from 97-2007. Probably much higher. Thanks to the mass amount of videos about it on YouTube, the popularity has sky rocketed. Estimated 1 out of 16 kids has tried it. Between choking to get high and synthetic pot, I am floored and puzzled.
My generation did it. My moms generation did it. Its been going on probably forever. Its a bit of a high, and human beings are interested in getting 'high' one way or another. I an not worried about it leading to other thing bc when it comes to more intense things they either do or they don't. The problem is parents don't talk to their kids. They don't take time to have a relationship with their kids. They are too busy involved in other things and get their kids involved in other things but avoid spending actual time with them themselves. A lack of relationship means the kids won't feel comfortable talking to their parents, and they certainly won't base their actions on whether their parents will approve of them or not.


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I never heard of this until a few years ago.
As I said before, the choking game is not something I ever saw or heard of my friends playing.

I heard tales of AEA, and it really came into light when the lead singer of Inxs died. Such a shame.

I was in my early 20's when I met the woman I mentioned above, and heard about her preferences.
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Old 04-03-2013, 07:37 PM   #73548
 
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I've never heard of of the choking game, strange. People do weird things, is feeling high really that amazing. i don't like maybe because I'm type A.


I remember chubby bunny (from oprah) not real life because I'm pretty sure my child self would of side eyed kids if they did that at a child party.
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Old 04-03-2013, 07:40 PM   #73549
 
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I have an appointed to get my hair cut next week but I'm gonna cancel it bc I'd really like to let it grow in some more before I reshape it.

But its starting to drive me crazy. I feel like this!

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I've never heard of of the choking game, strange. People do weird things, is feeling high really that amazing. i don't like maybe because I'm type A.


I remember chubby bunny (from oprah) not real life because I'm pretty sure my child self would of side eyed kids if they did that at a child party.
I heard about it a few years ago, on the job. Since then, I have heard more.

They have created websites about it, as I mentioned some parents are coming forward and going to schools to talk to children about what happened to their child, and law enforcement has started speaking to students as well. School Resource Officers look for marks around necks, blood shot and bulging eyes, etc. Parents have also been trying to get instructional video's removed from YouTube.


I'm with you on Chubby Bunny. My child self would have given people some looks. Uh, naw.
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Minxy, I vote groove to the bathroom and scream.
A.k.a- The Twin Peaks Shuffle.

Don't forget to walk backwards to the kitchen afterward.
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I know a woman who teaches her sex partners to choke her during sex.

Writing that down just made me very uncomfortable.
I knew a woman who did that too. One night her boyfriend took it too far, thought he had killed her, and got up and left. I saw her 2 days later. The way she looked was, OMG! Her boyfriend came by 4 days later and they made up. WTH?

I also briefly dated a guy who tried that on me, out of the blue one night. I gave him the same treatment, in an uncomfortable area, until he let go. NO! I will Bobbitt you! The last girl he dated requested and enjoyed it, and he thought most women would too. I ended that, quickly.

You would need to discuss, and have an insane level of trust, and sobriety, with someone to do that. You never know who or what you might get.
Wow, my mind is all over the place with that one. Imagine being the jury on that trial if she had died. Or the defense attorney. It was consensual, and presumably she understood the risks, right? Should he have been convicted? It's messed up that he left--and did he not check her pulse before assuming she'd died?--but I kind of understand? I mean, he was doing something she enjoyed and he thought he accidentally killed her. And no prosecutor, judge, or jury will have any sympathy for someone with that kind of sex life. Damn, I'm going to be thinking on this for a while.

AEA is one of only two or three kinks that I just can't wrap my head around. So much crazy stuff that I'm like, "Eh, not my thing, but it's great that it gets you off!" But deliberately cutting off your ability to breathe? There's just no way to do that safely. I sort of get teens doing it in that "kids do all sorts of stupid things" kind of way. But adults? Is the orgasm really THAT much better?
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