Say It. I Dare You.

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I am just exhausted. They say bad things come in 3s. I hope I am done for a while.
The silent treatment? Really? Oh thank you, thank you, thank you!

I was born to be a pessimist. My blood type is B Negative.
Sometimes being here feels like this:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2dIgE...eature=related

Minus famewhoring

With the clique part of the equation to the nth power

Plus this
Really? I don't notice much cliquishness these days. Yes, little cliques of people who happen to agree with each other may forum during a long thread. And I bet most posters can think of two or three other posters they get along with especially well.

But there used to be times when it seemed like people sent out a siren to let all their buddies know to swarm a certain thread.
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It's like the perfect ishtstorm. When, oh, when will it blow itself out?

There's nothing to do but keep trying, but I'm so, so tired and discouraged.

(Nobody needs to respond. Just airing my feelings.)
i love that im going to be married but the family politics that comes with it esp my side is stressing me out.
I don't read threads where a certain poster gets verbose. I can't. It's just too much blah blah blah. BORING! Who can read that much in each post? (Who can WRITE that much?)

So...alas...I'm not participating in the current controversy. And y'all know how much I like controversy. Oh well...
Some employ verbosity for the sake of clarity..because it they don't... some people claim they've twisted what they've said or they haven't answered fully.

But..eh... when thinking about it.. either way most people will believe what they want no matter how few words are used or how much more.

Point taken.
Letting go of your hand yesterday was the hardest thing I have ever done. I hated not having you sleeping beside me last night. I hope this gets easier as the days, weeks, and months go on. You better f@#$%^&* come back to us!!


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I don't read threads where a certain poster gets verbose. I can't. It's just too much blah blah blah. BORING! Who can read that much in each post? (Who can WRITE that much?)

So...alas...I'm not participating in the current controversy. And y'all know how much I like controversy. Oh well...
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
But......I mentioned you! And it wasn't even bad! I got called out for having claws and cited our exchanges.

C'mon. At least read those.
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The best thing to happen today:

I was given a used Dyson. I'm going to vacuum the HELL out of this place, so help me. Animals, dustballs, cat litter --- you better run!

Assuming I can assemble it myself.
Assuming I can assemble it myself.
Originally Posted by ninja dog


Um...Dysons aren't supposed to be in pieces...
I don't read threads where a certain poster gets verbose. I can't. It's just too much blah blah blah. BORING! Who can read that much in each post? (Who can WRITE that much?)

So...alas...I'm not participating in the current controversy. And y'all know how much I like controversy. Oh well...
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
But......I mentioned you! And it wasn't even bad! I got called out for having claws and cited our exchanges.

C'mon. At least read those.
Originally Posted by ninja dog

Maybe I'll skim through and read the highlights...
How is it possible I form a great post to my thread to find out that it was locked by the time I was posting my reply.

Dang. It was so frickin thorough.

Either way.

I wonder when I will get my badge to the non-club.

And I wonder when I will get a list of people I'm supposed to hate for being religious or whatever.

I wonder.

And when will the list of issues us gals in the non-club are supposed to currently be having.

Dang! I feel very rejected by my group.

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Oh, come on. Are you really that upset that I called you a jerk?

I call my boyfriend a jerk when he leaves the toilet seat up. I call my dog a jerk when he won't make room for me in the bed. Since when is "jerk" such a big time bad word?

I wish I was a people person.
CG since 07/26/09
Oh, come on. Are you really that upset that I called you a jerk?

I call my boyfriend a jerk when he leaves the toilet seat up. I call my dog a jerk when he won't make room for me in the bed. Since when is "jerk" such a big time bad word?

I wish I was a people person.
Originally Posted by mandatoryfun
Some people can dish it but can't take it. I would have typed a different word to describe her, I thought you were quite restrained.
Fat does not make you fat. It's actually pretty important.
Oh, come on. Are you really that upset that I called you a jerk?

I call my boyfriend a jerk when he leaves the toilet seat up. I call my dog a jerk when he won't make room for me in the bed. Since when is "jerk" such a big time bad word?

I wish I was a people person.
Originally Posted by mandatoryfun

MF, what you are failing to recognize is that its not ok to call people a jerk, but its ok to call them a liar and to call them unwise and lacking in understanding.

I guess you didn't you a big enough word.


(and if you want to know where I got what I put, look at page 4 and 5 of my thread. just want to be complete, since I'm a record keeper and all)

Mix of 3s, thick, coarse, medium porosity

Current hair styling technique: rake with a scrunch at the end. (works with my coarse hair)

http://public.fotki.com/curlymix/
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Assuming I can assemble it myself.
Originally Posted by ninja dog


Um...Dysons aren't supposed to be in pieces...
Originally Posted by RedCatWaves
I had to attach the brush in front and the telescopic handle at the top. Came in the box that way.

Anyway, it was easy, and works like a M-Fer. I love it.
Oh, come on. Are you really that upset that I called you a jerk?

I call my boyfriend a jerk when he leaves the toilet seat up. I call my dog a jerk when he won't make room for me in the bed. Since when is "jerk" such a big time bad word?

I wish I was a people person.
Originally Posted by mandatoryfun

MF, what you are failing to recognize is that its not ok to call people a jerk, but its ok to call them a liar and to call them unwise and lacking in understanding.

I guess you didn't you a big enough word.


(and if you want to know where I got what I put, look at page 4 and 5 of my thread. just want to be complete, since I'm a record keeper and all)
Originally Posted by Curlyminx
Ohhh, okay, that's strange. I know I'm still pretty much a newbie on NC, but everyone seems to get up in arms when threads get "personal"...saying someone is unwise and lacking in understanding seems like a WAY more personal attack than the generic "jerk."

I'm not even sure what this whole "getting personal" bit really means. Is "getting personal" calling someone out for something they took the time to write and post on a message board for everyone to read? Do you actually have to say a "bad" word? I know I definitely "get personal" in some threads, but I'm actually kind of genuinely confused as to the limits here...
CG since 07/26/09
Ohhh, okay, that's strange. I know I'm still pretty much a newbie on NC, but everyone seems to get up in arms when threads get "personal"...saying someone is unwise and lacking in understanding seems like a WAY more personal attack than the generic "jerk."
Originally Posted by mandatoryfun
People wrote some unforgivably horrible things in that thread. But you weren't one of those people.

Don't worry about it. I don't think you wrote anything wrong

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