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D: Get your head out of your ass for God's sake. I am tired of hearing about this guy that is 1) a loser with no job 2) a jerk 3) goes around screwing barely legal girls. He's an idiot. And oh yeah - YOU ARE MARRIED. WITH A KID. Grow up. Get a job and keep working there. Working for 3 days and then never going back in is not a good thing for the old resume. Stop going bakc to school and then dropping out. After 5 times, you not only have a horrendous reputation with ALL of the professors (THAT is they they don't email you back. They're tired of your BS! Gawd!), you look like an idiot to everyone. How about you do something, stick it out and um, I dunno, maybe FINISH it? Stop cheating on your husband and then wondering why you don't have a good relationship. You put 4 times the energy into the relationship you don't have that you do into the one that is there. Stop living in a ****ing fantasy world and deal with your reality. Do you really think it's fair what you do? Do you really think it's fair to stay on the computer, talk on the phone to mr. loser and never do anything for your husband. It is not compromising "yourself" to pick up the house once in awhile, or cook a hot meal for your child and spouse. It really isn't. Life isn't just a big jolly ride where you get to do whatever you want. And if you don't want to clean or cook, then get a ****ing job how bout it? And keep it. All you do is drive around with your kid in the backseat crying for attention, while you eat fast food and go buy expensive clothes with the money your husband works his ass off to make. You've gotten him ridiculously in debt in such a short period of time. I know he isn't perfect either, and he's mean to you a lot, but hell, who could REALLY blame him? Honestly. I'd probably be mean to you too if that's how you treated me. At this point, I'm starting to feel more sorry for him than I do for you, honestly. C'mon. Just COME ON. Grow up. You told me not to have kids because you have to "do stuff you don't want to all the time..." WTF? Isn't that life? I do things I don't want to every. single. day. I go to work. I do things around the house because I love my husband and I take pride in being a responsible adult. My husband works harder than me, he works more than me. Its only fair that I do most of the stuff HERE. You don't work at all, and you spend his money so quickly and then you wonder why he gets upset that he comes home and you're never there? You're an hour away doing God knows what, with your (and his) kid with you... don't you think maybe, just maybe, he'd like to see his daughter once in awhile? Don't you think he'd like to come home to a house that isn't filthy and something to eat every now and then? You act like you are 14 and it makes me sick. Your poor kid. God almighty.

And you pour out all your issues and ask for advice, until I give it. I give it and your'e like "why can't you just listen to me? I don't need anyone to tell me what to do." And I cannot tell you how much it cracked me up when you told me that I hadn't made it as far in life as you.

Let's see, we're the same age.

You:
Barely graduated high school
Went to college
Dropped out
(Repeat : at least 4 times)
Had a kid while not married
Got on welfare
Lived in the projects, even though you could have gotten a job
Quit paying your tiny rent there and get kicked out
Move in with your mom and live there for free while she pays for all your eating out, clothes, and fun little trips and watches your kid
Got NUMEROUS jobs including stealing one from me and then never going
Quit all jobs by never showing up or giving a notice
Finally talk the guy into marrying you
Cheat on him
Live somewhere rent free, make better money than me. OK your husband makes more money than us....
Spend his money
Never work

Me:
Worked my ass off in HS to finish 4th in my class
Go to school. Stick to it.
Get married young and work my way through school
(This is when you kept dropping out and saying, "I need money... and I can't work AND go to school. Um, yeah. You can)
Get a job doing what I went to school for
Buy a house

I'm really not seeing how I got so "lucky." I never lived off my parents. I never went on welfare when I could have worked. I always follow through on things. I'm not bragging and i do NOT think I'm perfect. I work my tail off while you do nothing. You expect to just have things handed to you and it makes me so ****ING sick. Really. GROW UP.

And by the way - your poor husband. Poor guy. He really didn't have a clue what he was getting himself into, did he? Do you really think what you do is everyone else's fault? You're not the victim. You make your own life. And quit bringing me into it and expecting me to bail you out. I won't. I already got your ass out of jail. I love you and I always will, but I can't take much more. I can't take hearing about it all the time. I can't take you calling me in the middle of the night to tell me about Mr. Loser. I just can't. MY husband is so sick of it as well. He can hardly stand to be around you anymore. I know you're a good person under all that; I remember that. But you are TOXIC to me and you make me ill. I have anxiety attacks. I have to avoid your calls and sit with my house dark in case you show up sometimes. I freak out and can't breathe. When are you there for me? NEVER. Whenever I have a problem, you blow it off and talk some more about Mr. Loser. Honestly, honey, you're obsessed. Its almost scary. You are crazy acting about it. Obsessive. You give women a bad name because you fulfill that crazy stereotype that writes books and sends it to the dude, calls 10 times an hour, leaves numerous messages, and drives by his work. That's called stalking. WHy do you do this? You, my dear, are a cluster f*c*. Really. There is no way I can cut you out of my life completely; unfortunately we are tied together for life in some way... but I can't talk to you as much. I just can't. Its making ME sick.
What on earth was I thinking?

What did I ever see in you? Call it what you want, but anyone with your brand of demons is a weak, pathetic excuse for a man. Last night was one of the worst nights of my life.....its almost laughable now.

It's a twisted reality--you were the one destined to give me this beautiful baby girl. I can't argue with that at all. But we are done.

I just want you out of my life for good. And yes, I'm moving on.
Originally Posted by j'adore
HUGS.
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What on earth was I thinking?

What did I ever see in you? Call it what you want, but anyone with your brand of demons is a weak, pathetic excuse for a man. Last night was one of the worst nights of my life.....its almost laughable now.

It's a twisted reality--you were the one destined to give me this beautiful baby girl. I can't argue with that at all. But we are done.

I just want you out of my life for good. And yes, I'm moving on.
Originally Posted by j'adore
HUGS.
Originally Posted by Amneris
Ditto. HUGS from me too.... If you need to talk you can PM me! That really sucks.

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What on earth was I thinking?

What did I ever see in you? Call it what you want, but anyone with your brand of demons is a weak, pathetic excuse for a man. Last night was one of the worst nights of my life.....its almost laughable now.

It's a twisted reality--you were the one destined to give me this beautiful baby girl. I can't argue with that at all. But we are done.

I just want you out of my life for good. And yes, I'm moving on.
Originally Posted by j'adore
HUGS.
Originally Posted by Amneris
Ditto. HUGS from me too.... If you need to talk you can PM me! That really sucks.

/breaking rules on this thread...
Originally Posted by Rheanna83

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(((hugs)))
Oops D, I forgot the part where you got a ****load of credit cards while you didn't have a job, maxed them all out, and then never paid them and got sued. You seemed so genuinely shocked... Welcome to the real world sweetheart. That's how it is. Actions? They have consequences! Really they do. Sometimes you have to do things that are HARD or that you don't want to. Things don't just fall into your lap. Don't ever tell me I got lucky. No one has been there to bail me out; I've made my own life and made sacrifices. The reason I'm not just a chaotic mess is because of that, not luck. If you would stick it out and do things every now and again, maybe you could get somewhere too besides just pissing people off. Just grow up please. The time to act like a kid ended when you had your own.
It must be nice to live in your world. YOu know everything, have done everything and can therefore be condescending to anyone because everyone is beneath you.
I don't want to have to say this again, until your hair looks as good as the person you're acting superior too, bugger off!

Stop trying to sell me stuff outside of Walmart. I won't waste my time stopping and stop acting like if you step in front of me I won't step around flip you off and go along my merry way. Man go to the flea market like everyone else that has complete crap to sell does.

Why do you say excuse me then try to run me over? What is that like excuse me for being an @ss but I can't help myself? Walk around. I'm not so friggin wide that there is no more room in the world
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I can't believe you stole him.

He doesn't know how annoying you are. He doesn't know how slutty and truly unhonest you are.

And you stole my nickname for him. And that whole, "I'd die without _____" is such crap. You're such a loser, I'm not going to lie.

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WTF was that comment for?!???

Do you know me at all?!?? I would never. He would never. You know this.

Look, I'm sorry I didn't get your message and call you back within two seconds, but I have a life, amazingly enough. I called you back in three hours..... it's not like it was three days. And don't get so pissed that I'm waiting until this evening to come home. I'm going to be home for two weeks. Get the **** over it. I shouldn't have to apologize for that, because there's nothing the hell wrong with it!!!

NONE of that is sufficient to make you so mad that you would say something like that to purposefully hurt and embarrass me. He was sitting right beside me and heard every word you said over the phone, did you know that? Fortunately he is a bigger person than you are, apparently, and just tried to make me feel better, instead of being weirded out.

Just get over yourself. The world does not revolve around you. Every little itty bitty thing that people do, is not intended to spite you. We probably are not thinking of you at all as we do these things, we're just living our lives. Has that ever occurred to you? No, because you are supremely self-centered.

And I still love you, because you're my mom. That's what makes it worse, I think. Sometimes you can be so cool and fun to be around. And I'll always love you because you're my mom, and that will just open the door to let you get to me like this. I know I shouldn't let it upset me, but I can't help it. You're family, so what can I do?
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um, youve been back from boot camp for ONE DAY. what the hell makes you think you can just drive to my house and THEN call me? and that i'll just be your concubine?! i'm not a whore, so dont treat me like one. thanks for the x-mas stipend
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i'm so tired of you. just tired. you're not a nice person, though everyone thinks you are. you're only nice when you want to pretend to be, and to certain people.

in reality, you are a beyatch. you are so passive aggressive and indirect, it is beyond words. you can't even be bothered to greet me or say hello, just common courtesies ... and you never say what you f-ing mean. when you're stressed, you take it out on everyone else by putting out cutting, irritated vibes, and snippy indirect comments.

i'm so tired of your martyr complex. you have the biggest of anyone i've ever met. if you want help, ask for it. but don't just take it upon yourself to do it all on your own - without consulting anyone else - and then act put out because nobody did what expected (but did not ask) them to do. it's ridiculous. get some therapy. you're toxic.

i hope i never have to be around anyone like you ever again.

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I hate god. I hate that I am so alone battling this disease and for years I've asked him/her/it to help me, give me a sign that I'm not alone in this, and I've recieved no "answers." I don't think I even believe in God anymore. What is the point when he/she/it does nothing for me. I'm grateful for modern science (aka Antidepressants!)
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Gah!! Stop threatening to write me up for things that I didn't do. When I'm getting yelled at and threatened, the other employees look at me with the "please don't tell on us" face while I get berated for mistakes that I didn't make! And no, being the assistant manager at a small restaurant and NOT BEING ABLE TO REMEMBER MY NAME is NOT acceptable!! GAR!!! And NO, I won't be staying on at my job after I get married. I just took the job back cuz it was easy money.

Do not make out in front of me. And when I complain, don't tell me that I don't like seeing them kiss cuz I don't like kissing my fiance. We practice something called "tact," look it up. Also, do not make out in my bed and act like I'm the bad guy when I tell you to stop.

Stop ragging on him! He's got a girlfriend, of COURSE he's not gonna hang out with us as much. She's his priority now and you need to learn to get over it. Don't send him nasty notes on MySpace and drag MY name into the argument. I don't care that he's not at my house as often; I have a wedding to finish planning. He still visits, just not often. He's my best friend, do not try to drive a stake in between us. Just cuz you don't have a significant other doesn't mean you have the right to be mean.

Don't use my computer if you're gonna break it. And if you DO break it, at least 'fess up. Now I have to go to the Apple Store and HOPE that they'll fix it under my warranty.

Don't ask my opinion if you either know the answer already or don't care. And NO, I don't like diamond rings on men. Gross.

And when you get a wedding invitation in the mail, SEND THE DAMN RSVP CARD BACK TO ME!!! I'm going to turn you away at the door, I swear. I don't know how many tables, food, cake, drinks to get if you just think I somehow KNOW that you're coming. You don't send a card, I assume you're not coming. So now I have to take time out of my busy schedule to CALL and find out if you're coming.

And no, I'm not marrying an Adventist boy. Get over it.
A wise and frugal government, which shall leave men free to regulate their own pursuits of industry and improvement, and shall not take from the mouth of labor the bread it has earned - this is the sum of good government. ~Thomas Jefferson
I am so torn! I'm in a situation! My two fav movies are "Bridges of Madison County" & "The Notebook". My life resembles both women in a way. I need to make a choice - follow my duties (Francesca in Bridges) or follow my heart (Allie in Notebook). I've been told both choices are right. What to do?

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A, you are such a dumbass loser. 1st you have the nerve to ask my name because you supposedly forgot it, yet you still remember my phone number a year after we broke up. I don't care that you miss me. I don't care that you finally realized you made a lot of mistakes. You need to focus on your gf and that kid you are expecting, not on if I would ever consider going back. Remember I'm 36 years old I've dealt with losers like you before. I may be a bit slow to dump your asses (with all that give him another chance garbage) but once I'm done, I'm done. I don't recycle my trash, which is what you are.

W, I will hang out with whom ever I damn well please. Even your sister. It's not like you need to worry about us talking about you. Remember she doesn't give a rats ass about you either. The only time your name has been mentioned is when she still laughs in amazment how your nasty ass could father such a beautiful girl. Also, do you really think I care if you have no money left over after child support payments for your other kids gifts? Next year start saving in January, you should have enough pennies saved up by December to get something at the dollar store. You have not bought your daughter a gift in years, so why should I care. Better yet, stop quitting your jobs and your back payments won't keep going up. Another thing, when you type in all caps, I take it as if you are screaming at me. You forget it's 2006, not 1993 when you would scream and threaten me all the time. You ordered me around like some puppy . I'm a grown ass woman now. I'm not scared of you. You are nothing but a big bully. You proved that the night you threatened me until I finally stood up for my self and you backed the hell down. Maybe one day T will do the world a favor and stand up for herself again. Who knows she may have the courage to push the blade all the way through next time. I would even volunteer to be a character witness for the defense if she did.
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What on earth was I thinking?

What did I ever see in you? Call it what you want, but anyone with your brand of demons is a weak, pathetic excuse for a man. Last night was one of the worst nights of my life.....its almost laughable now.

It's a twisted reality--you were the one destined to give me this beautiful baby girl. I can't argue with that at all. But we are done.

I just want you out of my life for good. And yes, I'm moving on.
Originally Posted by j'adore
HUGS.
Originally Posted by Amneris
Ditto. HUGS from me too.... If you need to talk you can PM me! That really sucks.

/breaking rules on this thread...
Originally Posted by Rheanna83

That goes for me too I'm sorry j'adore!
You are a freaking psycho and it's about the funniest thing I've ever seen or heard.

However, if I learn that you have been slandering me, and you've cost me financial gain due to that.... you may well find yourself in a lawsuit.
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I will be glad when the holiday season is over...you shoppers are so effing rude..I can't stand it..you know CHirsitmas comes every year..Prepare for it..Stop waiting for the last minute and stop treating people so rude..

Please don't get me started on the horrible driving..Obey the traffic rules..WAtch out for the people crossing the street..I swear if you hit me..I will sue the pants off of you..beleive me..when I get thru with you, you will not be able to shop for at least 5 Christmas seasons..

Is it really necessary to spend hundreds of dollars on stuff for your kids...and then act surprised when your credit card does not go thru..Don't yell at me when that happens..When you write out a check and the check bounces, make sure you pay the bank back..don't ask me to keep running it thru..it makes u look stupid..and it hits your credit report!

Men..if somethng is extremely heavy..don't expect to lift it while you are standing there looking dumb and then say it is my job..I have news for you...I am not coming home tonight with another pulled muscle..I refuse to load up your heavy items..LEAVE THEM IN THE CART AND I WILL SCAN THEM!..

Mothers..please do not yell at your children and treat them like crap..it is not funny and it is not cute..(one day you will be old and grey and they may remember how you treated them..) my heart really aches when I remember how a mother treated her little girl like crap..

IF you see that an item doesn't have the price tag or the numbers needed to scan..do not stand there and act surprised when I have to do a price check and don't act surprised when it takes a while to get the information..you knew this before you stood in line..Like I said earlier you know the all year long that Christmas is in December..PREPARE FOR IT!! Whew!

By the way F..Stay the heck away from me..There is no need to hunt me down..there is no need for you to park you car in front of mine to block me from getting to my point of destination..I did not call your stupid butt when I came home three years ago for a readon..I am sick of your drama..That's right..I do not want to hear about your dates with crazy women..let's see.. you dated a my so called best friend in high school.. you played us against one another...and u know how crazy she was and still is..i found out about it ..decided I didn't want to be part of your bs anymore and got rid of the both of you..How stupid of me to get involved with you a few years later..I thought that you were matured at that point..once again how stupid of me..i could not believe how dumb i was when the condom slipped and i found out i was pregnant with your child..I remeber calling you at work and told you..you were inthe air force at an air base in Arkansas..I actually hunted your butt down..I told you i was pregnant and you said that it wasn't yours..that i was too fine not to have men knocking on my door to "get some" and that i was not pregnant with your child it was impossible..besides u claim to have been seeing another crazy woman by the name of D and you said that she would go crazy if she found this out and u did not want to hurt her..WTF..what about me..I did miscarry and I needed you to at least be there or at least talk to me ..SOMETHING...but u didn't ususally a woman knows who she is pregnant by..especially when she is not sleeping with anyone else..U blew me off.. I will never forgive u for that..That experience 20 years ago shaped how I felt about men..then u stop me ant think I want to hear about your dates with crazy a$$ women..Please get a grip u are ot that fine u never were leave me alone..do not come over to my house...yes i live with my parents, but i pay them rent and the want me here..this will suffice until i find a place to relocate..my parents do not like u....especially my mother..nor do my brothers..nor does the guy that I am seeing now..he did not appreciate your behavior...so i do not know wjy you behaved like mr tough guy when he told you to get out of our way..It seems that u like to deal with crazy chicken headed women.. u just don't know how to deal with real women with real goals and etc...I am glad u are a star in your own world..u need to deal with reality..one more thing...if any of your baby's mamas come up to me again..and make threats (over you) I will have them thrown in jail..You are not worth it...LEave me alone...
oy oy oyyyy if I don't speak to you don't speak to me. The only way I dont' jump through the lines and rip your hair out by the roots is to imagine you lit on fire, man get a hint!
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your choices are your choices. if you want to keep dating trash, go ahead. but don't ask me to tell you what i see him do, and then blame me when i tell you the truth. just don't ask me anymore, because obviously you don't want to know the truth. i should have listened to everyone else when they advised me to keep my nose out of it and my mouth shut, or i'd end up looking like the bad guy. but no, i said something, because i care about you and i don't want to see you hurt - and now you're blaming it all on me. un-freaking-believable. you just cant see the forest for the trees. i'll always be your friend, but i don't want to hear another damned word about him, and if he ever talks to me or even thinks about trying to intimidate me again, he's going to have to think about it again.

it causes me so much heartache to see you go through this. for your sake i hope he doesn't call you again. and i hope against hope that you don't call him. but i have a feeling you will ...
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