Say It. I Dare You.

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Well, I'm on the verge of madness right now, so I have a lot...

To the girls - I made our flight home from South Beach early in the morning because I have to work the next day - you guys are all teachers - DEAL WITH IT! I'll even put your comfy clothes and gym shoes out for you to ease the pain.

To one of my bridesmaids - I don't care if you don't like the bridesmaid dress. I lived with you for 4 years and have had much experience in your closet - style is NOT your forte. Your opinion at this point is moot.

To my parents - I'll be the good daughter and will be ready to talk when you come to your senses. Until then, don't even try. And it won't ever again be about my sister - those conversations are over.

To my future mother-in-law - I'm sorry you've been dealt a rough deck of cards in life and I understand your pain, but your son is getting married and it's a happy time - just try to be the happy mother of the groom - you'll have so much more fun that way.

To one of my best friends - I'm sorry that you had to move out of the city into the sticks and I really miss you. But, I can't keep bandaiding your financial issues - you need to figure it out on your own. Working sucks for nearly everyone...that's life.

Everyone - I don't give a crap what anyone thinks for the next 2 months. Talk to me after Aug. 28.
Kind of a different direction here, but this thread is for whatever we want to say so...

I love munchkin and bounce. You guys seem like you would be great friends to have. munchkin always says what I want to say, but she says it much gentler and more articulately.

I love this site too. I love reading about everyone's life, I even enjoy the political and religous discussions (but I wish I could learn to keep myself out of political ones). This site has changed my hair completely and I always find out the news first here.

Thank you Gretchen and Michelle for starting this board.
Following sdcurly's lead.....I love slinkyShe and I couldn't be more different,but I totally respect her opinions
"what's so funny 'bout peace, love and understanding?"



"If you judge people,you have no time to love them"
-Mother Theresa
Hey Mar - I was actually following your lead. You had said nice things in your earlier post. Might as well tell you that I really liked your rsponse on the life goals thread. I think too many parents first worry is whether or not their kids are happy and not whether or not they are decent human beings (of course I stole that from Dr. Laura but I totally agree). I also think decent human beings on the whole are happier than those who aren't.
If you steal a car and instigate a high-speed chase, forcing police to chase your reckless behind through city streets or on the highway, putting innocent people's lives in danger, then YES, you deserve the beatdown that the adrenaline- and anger-ridden police end up giving you. If you forced me to chase your sorry ass, I would beat you down, too.
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Kind of a different direction here, but this thread is for whatever we want to say so...

I love munchkin and bounce. You guys seem like you would be great friends to have. munchkin always says what I want to say, but she says it much gentler and more articulately.
Originally Posted by sdcurly
Yay! I love a lot of people here...my standouts include NYCurlyGirl (I love talking to you on IM!), CurlyKar, BadgerCurls, Booyah, NetG!

And Gretchen and Michelle are great!
I love munchkin and bounce. You guys seem like you would be great friends to have.
Originally Posted by sdcurly
Just seeing this for the first time - thanks so much sdcurly! I feel that exact same way about you and munchie! I feel like munchie was me back in her hayday.

With all the crap that's going on right now, it's really nice knowing I'm a good friend.
My eating and coffee drinking habits are none of your damn business.

We work on the same floor but just because you ask, I don't have to tell you how many cups of coffee I have per day, whether or not I have trouble sleeping, if I have a "caffeine addiction". I don't care that you think I "drink the most coffee of anyone you've ever seen" or that you think it's "weird" that I use Equal, yet also use Half & Half. Don't you have anything better to do than be the coffee police? Dude, I don't even know your name, so why are you watching what I do?

And, if I want to have microwave popcorn at 11:30 in the morning, I'll have it. I don't care that you think it's "first thing in the morning". I don't remember asking for your permission or approval. I get up at 5:30 a.m, so it's far from "first thing" for me. If you don't like it, don't look m'kay?
Uh oh, I feel a "food issues" rampage coming on...

I don't make comments on how much *you* eat, don't make comments on how little *I* eat. Got it, Clueless?

Why is criticizing or otherwise making inappropriate comments on someone's eating habits any different than making comments on thier choice of birth control, religion, or choice of spouse? Why is it OK? Is it because it's cloaked in a disguise of motherly concern? Puhleease. It's a basic, personal choice that everyone one of us has as an individual. How much and what I choose to put into my body is MY business, not YOURS.
So I let you know what I'm gonna be doing, expecting to be dissected. 'Cause you do that. You take my ideas and pick them to pieces and "suggest" things that I should do instead. You know what? If I've told you what I'm doing, then it means I've THOUGHT about it first. It means I MEAN what I say. I'm so sick of people thinking they can cut up and criticise my words because they think I don't mean them and won't care.
I DO IN FACT MEAN WHAT I SAY. LISTEN TO ME.

And while I appreciate that you do in fact support my decision, and I'm surprised that you do, could you PLEASE not take credit for it in front of me when your friends are over? It was MY idea. You never "always said I should do this." Please don't act like you were guiding me towards this decision, I know you want bragging rights, but this decision wasn't made for you, or by you, in any way shape or form. There WAS someone who helped me to make this decision. But it wasn't you.
I like having something "down below"
Originally Posted by spring1onu
What would you call it, sci-fi guru?
Originally Posted by smurfette
don't click this. seriously.
you dirty pathetic old men...stop staring at me!!!

my roomate...if dirty dishes are no big deal...then why don't you clean them???? if it makes me mad and you know it, why do you leave them?


if a friend asks you for help....don't tell them about your "policies." I'm your friend not your associate!
you dirty pathetic old men...stop staring at me!!!

my roomate...if dirty dishes are no big deal...then why don't you clean them???? if it makes me mad and you know it, why do you leave them?


if a friend asks you for help....don't tell them about your "policies." I'm your friend not your associate!

oh and don't tell me I'm wrong about my hair type....it's my freakin hair and you've never even seen it!
To my supervisor Samantha:

You annoy me so much, in fact you annoy everyone. No one likes you, I think you have just realised this and it's about time. You are a supervisor, not a manager quit thinking you are one. You will never be a manager in this company, you don't have the right nationality. Stop talking down to us. WE ARE NOT STUPID! You think you know everything when in actual fact you know very little, why you are a supervisor is beyond my comprehension. We did not sign something to say we would work 9 straight hours in a shift, in the UK this is illegal, we signed a contract saying we would work more than 48 hours a week - BIG DIFFERENCE! Quit strutting around the bar, you are not all that. If you don't like your boyfriend, do something about it don't lead him on it's not fair. Get a bloody transfer to another site, no one will miss you.


Damn, I really needed to do that!
Fat does not make you fat. It's actually pretty important.
If you steal a car and instigate a high-speed chase, forcing police to chase your reckless behind through city streets or on the highway, putting innocent people's lives in danger, then YES, you deserve the beatdown that the adrenaline- and anger-ridden police end up giving you. If you forced me to chase your sorry ass, I would beat you down, too.
Originally Posted by UCurlGirl
Love creates an "us" without destroying the "me"

I feel better that I let some things out...but it is time for me to move past those things. I cannot allow myself to be stuck on those subjects, because I don't want to build on anger or negativity.

I pray for me and I pray for you---I wish no ill will on you, because you are a person just like me. I do believe that what goes around comes around, for us all. You had your motives...and I am sure one day the next person will have motives against you.

I am who I am...all I can do is be me, so if you don't like it---I can't help that. I know I am not a bad person, and I know I also don't have motives to do people wrong---I am very blessed if you ask me.

Get some peace from within, and you may enjoy life a whole lot more.

*Ahhhh* that feels much better than the rant.

steph
Love creates an "us" without destroying the "me"

few more minor ones...

yes,I love my son to bits and no...he doesn't get on my nerves.

No--I don't want another one right now. That's fine you wanted kids back to back, that's your choice. It is a serious job, parenting, and I am loving it...right now one is enough. If I have another one are you going to pay for it,room and board it,baby sit it and do all the parental things for it? No... then why are you suggesting folks have more kids? Oh===cuz they are cute.

Yes, I REALLY had a baby. Yes, I really have a 2 1/2 yr old. I am sorry I don't fit your jacked up impression of a mommy/someone with a toddler. No, we don't all blow up,wear sweats or dirty tees. I think your views are limited. I DO look like a mom--I AM a mom.

No. I am not mixed. No. I do not have a perm/relaxer. Yes, this is what my hair does. WTF does it matter to you? Why should someone lie to YOU about their hair? If you like it next time cut to the chase "you have nice hair" is better than "are you mixed..do you have a perm...is that all your hair..."

To the stranger Black dude who smacked his lips, looked me up and down then groped my pony puff and said "mmmm---you got you some indian in you, huh?" I said "what makes you ask" ( cause gee...it wasn't waaay obvious buddy). he goes "you got dat goooooood hair and sht. real curly and wavy." I told him that yes my hair is good, because it is healthy and cared for. The curl pattern doesn't make it good or bad.

Lady at work who put here hands in my hair when it was flat ironed and wore down--look heffa, please don't run up on my, stick your hands in my hair down to my SCALP them move them around like I don't know wtf you are doing. NO, it isn't a friggin weave. Some of us have hair, and although I am not the only one in the compound with healthy hair and without a weave. Okay, yes we realize most of you do wear weaves but so what! How come when you see us with our hair down (out of the usual buns or ponytails.) it has to be checked for realness? If you stopped bleaching your hair while it is in microbraids, stopped perming it with braids IN and just learned to deal with your hair, maybe yours would have some health and length and thickness too.

Metra--it was really funny that when they sang happy birthday to me, you were on the other side of the charts talking ish, then rolled your eyes and said "so what, who cares!" Ummm, maybe the group that bought the cake and threw the pot luck??

Girl, stop acting like you aren't bilingual---lots of us know you really are.

Payroll, I didn't ask you to stop my direct deposit, and I appreciate the bounced check fees I had to pay last month because YOU messed up and my pre-arranged debits got fkd up. Thanks a bunch!! Can we just get it right this pay period?? I don't have money to throw away or credit to ruin.

*I feel better*
Love creates an "us" without destroying the "me"

Don't ask me if I can see you dating so-and-so. And don't ask me if I think you'd make a better couple with Guy A than Guy B. I'm not the one freaking out about, nor will I be the gal dating him, so my opinion DOESN'T MATTER!

Don't ask me if I think you're pretty. You know you are, so quit asking. I'll be the best friend, but get some self-esteem and chill out so that I can joke with you and tell you the opposite when you ask me that again. You're 18 years old and high school is now officially over. It doesn't matter. LIVE!

I don't care how multi-talented you are; no matter how coordinated you're feeling, it's NEVER safe to smoke a cigarette and talk on your cell-phone while you're driving down the road. Did you grow an extra arm or something? No, I don't think so. Drop one of them. Preferably the cigarette, and don't you DARE throw it out the window. If you have to smoke, make your car a filty mess, not the street.

Fine, I know that I have a trivial job working for the City. It's a summer job, and I need money. Painting gas meters may be boring, and it pay seem completely ridiculous, but I'm doing my job and it has to be done. Why don't YOU get a job so you can freaking earn the right to be called an adult. Don't you want the satisfaction of spending your own money and preparing yourself for college? No? Then shut up.

I don't care if you don't like soccer. It's my passion. Don't tell me soccer is for wusses. I don't see you running 7 collective miles over a span of 90 minutes. Don't even tell me that it's a stupid sport, because I do believe that ribbon twirling is now considered an Olympic event, so don't EVEN accuse me of playing a stupid sport. Go back to your recliner, eat some more chips and sit on your butt all day while I go out and work my rear off trying to chase a dream that I have. I don't care if you're sitting around doing nothing, but don't say that I'm dumb for choosing to train every evening.

WHEW! Thank you.
Peace, all.
I do not stab people in the back, and generally mean well. If you think that I mean ill, look at yourself instead.

At least until you start stabbing my friends in the back. At that point, I will no longer work with you, and will do my best to make sure your bosses see clearly how little work you do. And, yes, they have known me longer than you, they trust me more than you, and they asked me what was wrong because they could clearly see you were messing up somehow while you were kissing their behinds.

If you're supposedly the boss, and you see this backstabbing and horrible work going on from one person, but do nothing about it, don't be surprised when I leave, along with every other competent employee you have. I am not going to stick in a position with someone who will try to ruin my career simply because you have no leadership skills.
The pews never miss a sermon but that doesn't get them one step closer to Heaven.
-Speckla

But at least the pews never attend yoga!
Don't ring my doorbell before noon on a Saturday. And if you do, don't do so incessantly. And if you ring it incessantly, don't then run away so you're gone when I get to the door. Or leave an ad for your company. I guarantee you won't be getting business from me after that!
The pews never miss a sermon but that doesn't get them one step closer to Heaven.
-Speckla

But at least the pews never attend yoga!

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