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He's just turned 23. Thing is if you don't clean up after him, you can't do anything in the kitchen for example. I try not cleaning up but it gets so annoying that I just have to do it. I don't do his ironing though. He then asked why his ironing was the only stuff not getting done and I told him he was 23, it's about time he started doing it himself. He got really pissed off at that, poor GP
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Well, like I've said before & you're right PH...it ain't gonna change, but as I told hubby, I can still itch about it...

Here's another that just came to me while doing my weekly soak...I don't know why I waste brain energy on this! lol...I digress

Anyway...mom kept itching about wanting to see the little one, so I told her w/ my schedule Sun or Mon would be it. She wasn't happy that we'd be seeing them at their w/e home sometime around lunch, latest. She was like, we'll if y'all are going to be that late, we might as well come home. I was like well, how about Mon...well, of course that wasn't good enough She was like, we're not staying until Mond...eh, whatevah...And having a little one in tow, isn't just run outta the house when you want either...

So, we get up there & she's all...oh, y'all didn't have to come so early...I was like, we'll that's what you wanted, right? So, then later on, come to find out they are staying till today....I bet you can find out why, right? ay yi yi

GP, who was going to be working & itch was going to have my nephews, were ending up coming anyway. I asked my dad about but of course no response...mom never answered me either, just said, oh, we're not coming home today [Sun] I'm like wtf? GPs ex decided she was going to work, of course GP was too & dumps the boys off on him [she does this A LOT & always to her convenience] I guess that's what you get for having an informal custody set up...SSDD...lol
One more GP story:

Mom invites GP and his spouse and their two kiddos to a Memorial Day cookout. I come early (9:00 AM) and spend all day helping out (inside and outside). The food is ready at about 3:00 - we eat, several people drop by, and they eat. By 6:30PM we figure that GP is going to be a no- show.

They arrive at 7:00PM advise us that they went to the movies first, turn on the TV, eat raveneously, interact a bit, then prepare to leave. Mom asks if they have work/school the next day. Yes, they do. Mom turns looks at me and asks me: You don't have to go to work Tuesday, do you? I tell her that I do.

I help clean up, drag myself home. Mom calls me at 11:00PM - Where's the remote control for the TV? Me: Ummmm, I'm not sure . . . didn't GP & family turn the TV on. Mom: Hrmmmph, I can't find it anywhere & I can't work the TV without the remote. Me: (Gave direction on where it may possibly be) Mom: I cannnnnn't fiiiinnnnd it. Me: Call GP and ask him if he remembers where he put it. Mom: No, I don't want to disturb them, THEY HAVE WORK AND SCHOOL TOMORROW.
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And it gets worse when you have kids...argggghhhh
I just want to know WHY is he at my parents house all the ****ing time?!

Holy ****.

I actually LEFT my parents house the other day - literally dropped off some stuff, hoped in the care and left because he was there and I am just so TIRED of him.

Argh is right.
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Good frikkin grief...the guilt trippin nevah ends...
J~
Did you get flack about baptising your kiddos?
And what is GP getting out of being over at your folks?
Good frikkin grief...the guilt trippin nevah ends...
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Did you get flack about baptising your kiddos?
And what is GP getting out of being over at your folks?
Originally Posted by WileECoyote - Daddy's grl
Well, over at my folks, he helps my dad pick cherries from their trees and my dad pays him for it. Or, if my bro takes cherries to work and sells them he gets to keep the $$$. They are my parents trees, but bro gets the $$$.

My parents stopped asking me about the baptism when I told them I would feel extremely hypocritical if I baptised my kids and then didn't believe in God myself.

R has been asking about God, though, "Did God make me?" Of course, I am wondering where he is hearing this stuff, but I answer him truthfully and with the best knowledge I have of religion/God. It might actually help all of us if we started going to church, but we will see.
The latest:

Bro bought a house, blah blah blah. Well. Fool didn't READ what he was signing, and since it was a bank repo house, I guess they have a bit more time to get keys to my bro and all of that. He claims that they signed papers. However: finds out that the bank acutally has (had) until the 26th to submit their paperwork. OH!!! Brother has all ready given his notice to his apt. complex and says they are moving out the 15th of June. So...he doesn't get keys and instead moves ALL of his and his GF's crap into my parents house. Their garage is so jammed with junk, JUNK that's not even in boxes, it sincerely looks like they just threw it in there, along with my parents living room. My brother/GF moved into their back bedroom (my old room) and brought their two cats with them (total of FOUR grown cats in my parent's house now).

It's been going on THREE weeks that he's been living RENT FREE in their house with all of their *****. So, come to find out, they also spelled his girlfriends name wrong on everything, so she has to pay for a notary to get it corrected. And then they got some kind of letter stating what their PMI is, and my brother didn't realize that they had PMI as well as the mortgage payment. He didn't put 20% down, so, yeah, PMI will be there as well.

Both of their brithdays are this weekend, and my mom says that they are planning a trip to Reno/Tahoe and we are welcome to go. First off, we have two small children. Second off, we are budgeting VERY closesly right now, and a trip to gamble is NOT in our budget, and my parents KNOW this.

I just want to scream how nice it must be that he gets to live rent free, go on spur of the moment trips and has a ton of extra $$$ right now.

Hubby and I talked and decided that if we were in their shoes, we woudl have rented a storage unit for all of our crap and not put my parents out like this.

Worst of it, tomorrow we are havinga BBQ with my family (bro and GF included) and I am NOT looking forward to hearing more about all of this.

AND!@#$ He decided that he needed to sell his truck - big ol' Ford F250 blah blah blah. So, he's going to sell his car to Carmax ( is taking a HUGE loss because of what he owes, etc). and dirve his GF's old beat up car (she has that car and a Durango that she bought off of my parents). Suddenly, he doesn't want her car, goes out and buys a used Nizzan X-Terra. How can one be so irresponsible with his money??? I am guessing that I got much more ***** about this stuff than he did. Whenever I made ANY financial choice, there was my dad advising, etc.

I just don't freakin' get it.

Anyways, just venting. And not looking forward to seeing all of these people tomorrow. Blah.
Wow that sucks. Sounds like your bro is just very immature and likes being 'taken care' of. But you did mention that he's staying rent free and that he gets to keep the money for the cherries..do you think your parents wouldnt do that for you? That doesnt really seem unusual for parents to do or family in general.
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No b/c J~ is the responsible one & GP...well, eh...I digress...
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Latest and greatest, allegedly the bank forgot up to FIVE pages of paperwork for bro and GF to sign...they are still there for another couple of weeks at my parents house.

I am thinking that they haven't even signed for the house yet, and just signed the acceptance/offer letter. Who the hell knows. Thing that gets me is that the bank they are using is a pretty large one, and you'd think that they wouldn't screw up home loans.

I told my bro that at this point, I woudl seriously consider walking on the whole deal. But, whatever.
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Kaycee, you got me...grrr

Why is it that I can say something & my bro unknowingly says the exact samething [agreeing w/ me] but it's different when he says it...like it's...badum...gold!!!

Well the Golden Penis strikes again. We're currently in the process of moving to Australia. My grandad lives just up the road from us and is going away to my Aunts house next weekend for a few weeks, we will have left the UK before he comes back. Grandad wants us all to go out for dinner next friday to say goodbye.

The following conversation takes place in my house:

Me: Any idea where we're going for dinner next friday?
Mum: No idea
Me: will GP be going?
Mum: It would be nice if he did (he never goes out to dinner with us. Ever)
Me: Well it's about time he did something for someone else.

Mum goes off in a huff because I said something against the GP. It's dinner. It would take up about 3 hours of his life, it would make Grandad happy and they probably won't see each other again for years, if at all. The least he could do is not be a selfish little oik. And mum needs to grow a backbone and tell him he's going to dinner, not give him the option.

She also needs to tell him to get a job (he's been unemployed for about 2.5 years now) not suggest it, TELL him.

It. Is. All. Pissing. Me. Off.
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Bro FINALLY bought a ring for his GF.

He did get a LOT of crap from my parents after he and GF got back from their trip to Vegas last month. My mom was VERY vocal about how unfair he's being to her, and so on.

I guess he's going to propose on Xmas Eve.
Well the Golden Penis strikes again. We're currently in the process of moving to Australia. My grandad lives just up the road from us and is going away to my Aunts house next weekend for a few weeks, we will have left the UK before he comes back. Grandad wants us all to go out for dinner next friday to say goodbye.

The following conversation takes place in my house:

Me: Any idea where we're going for dinner next friday?
Mum: No idea
Me: will GP be going?
Mum: It would be nice if he did (he never goes out to dinner with us. Ever)
Me: Well it's about time he did something for someone else.

Mum goes off in a huff because I said something against the GP. It's dinner. It would take up about 3 hours of his life, it would make Grandad happy and they probably won't see each other again for years, if at all. The least he could do is not be a selfish little oik. And mum needs to grow a backbone and tell him he's going to dinner, not give him the option.

She also needs to tell him to get a job (he's been unemployed for about 2.5 years now) not suggest it, TELL him.

It. Is. All. Pissing. Me. Off.
Originally Posted by curlylaura
That's something my mom usually does as well.
I figured this thread would make an appearance during the holidays.
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I figured this thread would make an appearance during the holidays.
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Hee hee.

Took me a while to find it, since the search function is the suck...but thought I should mention the latest developments.

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