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View Poll Results: Do you have sex while you are menstruating?
Yes 37 52.11%
No 18 25.35%
Tried but is uncomfortable 5 7.04%
Ewww, people do that! 8 11.27%
Never thought it was possible but may try it..... 1 1.41%
SO/DH/DF is grossed out by the idea so never tried 2 2.82%
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Old 05-19-2005, 06:32 AM   #21
 
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Nothing 'wrong' with it morally, I think. However, its messy and whats the rush anyway? I believe the penis will still be in working order in six days.
For me it is not “rushing” but falls in line with what Amerasiancurls said:

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And I don't know about anyone else, but during that time, I get aroused very easily and things are more sensitive
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I also am VERY sexually strung in the week before my period DURING my period in up to two weeks after. Still IMO, it can wait until we dont have to put three towels on the bed.
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Old 05-19-2005, 06:42 AM   #22
 
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I also am VERY sexually strung in the week before my period DURING my period in up to two weeks after. Still IMO, it can wait until we dont have to put three towels on the bed.
Wow, then you're "on" all month. Good for you!
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I also am VERY sexually strung in the week before my period DURING my period in up to two weeks after. Still IMO, it can wait until we dont have to put three towels on the bed.
My body is highly sensitive two weeks before and the week during my period. And as noted before, I have a very light flow so messiness/staining is not an issue. We even do not have to use towels (and I have not stained anything either).

I am pretty lucky. I guess most of you have heavy flows and/or cramps and discomfort. I have never thought of that before as all of the women on both sides of my family have light flows and little to no discomfort/cramps. And of my friends, only two get cramps. Of those two, one is a virgin and one will not have sex again until marriage/finding the right person. So I know they are not having sex during their period.
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Old 05-19-2005, 06:52 AM   #24
 
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For me it is not “rushing” but falls in line with what Amerasiancurls said:

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And I don't know about anyone else, but during that time, I get aroused very easily and things are more sensitive
I totally agree with her.
same here, then and during ovulation.
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Old 05-19-2005, 07:11 AM   #25
 
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I have, but dh and I generally don't want to bother with the mess. And I usually feel crampy and grumpy. I don't have any categorical aversions to it, but it's just not that fun for me.
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Definitely a "yes". I have a clear pattern - I'm very even-tempered all month, except the 2 days before it starts I get irritable, clumsy, and easily frustrated. Then it arrives, and the first day I am very, very... well, let's say "eager".

The BF has no problems with the period, but I use the Instead cups so I don't have to worry about towels, messy sheets, when, where, whatever. They just make things easier and more spontaneous.
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Old 05-19-2005, 08:00 AM   #27
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I voted no, although I have had sex on occasion during my period.

I would only do it on a light day, so the mess isn't really that big of a deal, but still it does change the game for me. I'm very visual and very tactile (I like to have my hands in the game too). Looking at and/or smearing blood on me/him just is not sexually stimulating. So I can't look and touch and get into like I usually would which make it less pleasing for me. Plus sometimes the waiting part makes it more exciting.
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Old 05-19-2005, 08:06 AM   #28
 
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Nah - I can wait a few days till I'm all squeaky clean.
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Old 05-19-2005, 08:45 AM   #29
 
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I also am VERY sexually strung in the week before my period DURING my period in up to two weeks after. Still IMO, it can wait until we dont have to put three towels on the bed.
Wow, then you're "on" all month. Good for you!
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Old 05-19-2005, 08:47 AM   #30
 
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i voted yes. i don't have any problems with it and neither does my fiance. we throw down a towel and go for it. we don't usually do it day 1 or 2 which are heaviest, but after that it's fair game.
Same here.
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Old 05-19-2005, 09:16 AM   #31
 
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when my husband and i were teens (close your mouths!) and were limited in where and when we could get together, we had sex whenever we could and sometimes that was during the heavy days of my period. we just used a towel.

as we got older and had our own residences, we didn't feel as desperate to have to have sex during my period. so we sort of just stopped doing it on those heavy days.

my periods last for 7 days and i'm a heavy bleeder during 4 of those days. even today, we won't have sex during those very heavy days (even though we did when we were younger), but we will have sex during the lightest flow days (the first day and last 2 days).

several years ago, my husband actually said that "we aren't kids anymore. we don't have to do that. i can wait a few days."

not so off topic: does anyone else get really horny during her period, or am i the only one? the day after my cramps subside, i'm feeling rather friendly, but my flow is so heavy that i really don't want to deal with the [literal] bloodbath.
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The thought grosses me out. Sounds way too messy.
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Old 05-19-2005, 09:25 AM   #33
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I have done it but I don't like to. It's usually because my SO is too horny to wait so if they don't mind the mess ok. It does feel more lubricated during that time and sometimes too much that I can't feel like I want to.
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Old 05-19-2005, 09:34 AM   #34
 
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Its really messy and *way* too slippery for me..... Not that I have that to worry about that for another four months.

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Too messy for my liking. I am not interested in having sex then and neither is my husband, so we take a hiatus. Plus in the first 2 days of my period (when it is heaviest) I feel crampy, extra tired and just blah. Sex is the last thing on my mind.
My thoughts exactly. The first few days I just feel so crappy I can't even imagine wanting to have sex. I get terrible migraines when I get my period. Sometimes I will at the very end when I feel better and there is much less of a mess to deal with.

I said no in the poll though as it's not something I really like to do, even at the end.
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not so off topic: does anyone else get really horny during her period, or am i the only one? the day after my cramps subside, i'm feeling rather friendly, but my flow is so heavy that i really don't want to deal with the [literal] bloodbath.
I do - on the first day. That's what I meant by "eager" in my last post. Cramps are rarely a problem for me, and Instead takes care of the mess.
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Sounds like it is a mental thing mostly but if the guy doesn't care why not? I mean it's not like you are asking him to "go down on you" during that time of the month. I have noticed that orgasms do tend to be bigger during that time of the month or maybe it is just me. Anyhoo, to each it's own. If you can wait then wait if you don't want to then don't.
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Sounds like it is a mental thing mostly but if the guy doesn't care why not? I mean it's not like you are asking him to "go down on you" during that time of the month. I have noticed that orgasms do tend to be bigger during that time of the month or maybe it is just me. Anyhoo, to each it's own. If you can wait then wait if you don't want to then don't.
actually, sorry if this is TMI, but i think that's fine too - with a tampon in so just clitoral stimulation. i am ultra sensitive with that during my period and it's a very different/strong orgasm.
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Old 05-19-2005, 11:07 AM   #39
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No.
It just doesn't interest me or my husband.
In the past,on a light day,we have,but not anymore
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Sounds like it is a mental thing mostly but if the guy doesn't care why not? I mean it's not like you are asking him to "go down on you" during that time of the month. I have noticed that orgasms do tend to be bigger during that time of the month or maybe it is just me. Anyhoo, to each it's own. If you can wait then wait if you don't want to then don't.
actually, sorry if this is TMI, but i think that's fine too - with a tampon in so just clitoral stimulation. i am ultra sensitive with that during my period and it's a very different/strong orgasm.
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