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Old 11-14-2012, 07:51 PM   #2081
 
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I thought Catfish was a movie based on a young man's experience with a woman on Facebook. Turned out she lied about who she was. The movie came out about 4 years ago. It was a true story.

I tend to lose interest with online guys who don't want to meet after emailing for two to three weeks.
It is a movie, but now he has a show where he helps others who haven't yet met their online boyfriend/girlfriend
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I thought Catfish was a movie based on a young man's experience with a woman on Facebook. Turned out she lied about who she was. The movie came out about 4 years ago. It was a true story.

I tend to lose interest with online guys who don't want to meet after emailing for two to three weeks.
It is a movie, but now he has a show where he helps others who haven't yet met their online boyfriend/girlfriend
Thanks for clarifying!
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I knew someone that had a 'relationship' with someone over the phone, online, etc for over 2 years. I don't understand why someone would continue talking to and more so be faithful and committed to someone who doesn't even want to see her. I guess we were young and she believed the excuses. I have a friend who's going through the same thing..how do you tell someone?
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I knew someone that had a 'relationship' with someone over the phone, online, etc for over 2 years. I don't understand why someone would continue talking to and more so be faithful and committed to someone who doesn't even want to see her. I guess we were young and she believed the excuses. I have a friend who's going through the same thing..how do you tell someone?
Have her watch the Catfish show

Aside from delicately, you can't really tell someone what to do. I understand your POV, and frankly if it was my friend, I don't thinking could tolerate hearing it. But ultimately it's up to her I guess
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I knew someone that had a 'relationship' with someone over the phone, online, etc for over 2 years. I don't understand why someone would continue talking to and more so be faithful and committed to someone who doesn't even want to see her. I guess we were young and she believed the excuses. I have a friend who's going through the same thing..how do you tell someone?
Have her watch the Catfish show

Aside from delicately, you can't really tell someone what to do. I understand your POV, and frankly if it was my friend, I don't thinking could tolerate hearing it. But ultimately it's up to her I guess
Yes, she's dated him before and met him a few times and broke up because he never had time and it was always her initiating them meeting up. They broke up for a year, she got back with him a year ago(on the phone) and he still hasn't come to see her. He was supposed to come for her bday, halloween, and probably other times and every single time something comes up...so next time is supposed to be thanksgiving. I just know she deserves better.
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Old 11-15-2012, 04:31 PM   #2086
 
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This really cracked me up.....In one man's profile he wrote this....

I am loyal, so I don't cheat, but if I did cheat, you would be the 1st person to know, because I am honest.
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Lol....that's funny!
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I knew someone that had a 'relationship' with someone over the phone, online, etc for over 2 years. I don't understand why someone would continue talking to and more so be faithful and committed to someone who doesn't even want to see her. I guess we were young and she believed the excuses. I have a friend who's going through the same thing..how do you tell someone?
Have her watch the Catfish show

Aside from delicately, you can't really tell someone what to do. I understand your POV, and frankly if it was my friend, I don't thinking could tolerate hearing it. But ultimately it's up to her I guess
Yes, she's dated him before and met him a few times and broke up because he never had time and it was always her initiating them meeting up. They broke up for a year, she got back with him a year ago(on the phone) and he still hasn't come to see her. He was supposed to come for her bday, halloween, and probably other times and every single time something comes up...so next time is supposed to be thanksgiving. I just know she deserves better.
Yeah, there's no way that she's the only woman in his life. And, I'm sorry, but I think she's going to be disappointed on Thanksgiving. I feel for her.
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Lords - are you dating again? I thought you were engaged?
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Lords are you dating again? I thought you were engaged?
Sorry. Stupid Autocorrect. Was supposed to be Lotsa.
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We went on a short break. Things were moving too fast for both of us. We didn't see each other for a couple of weeks, but met at Mass yesterday and spent the day together. We are better than ever now and are moving forward, but a little slower. I just looked into a couple of dating sites to see what was out there. Slim pickings for my age group.
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I keep meeting guys unattractive guys w/ decent personalities and nicer looking guys w/ mental problems (like real, diagnosed mental disorders). Ugh!

And what is worse, the unattractive guys all seem to photograph well so I think they are better looking and agree to go out w them...and then sit there pissed off during the entire date! LOL

This has become comical! A cruel joke! LOL
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Oh yeah, I went out on a first date this past Saturday. He told me he got divorced 8 years ago bc his wife cheated on him w/ one of her coworkers. And wghile we were eating dinner, who should walk into the restaurant but the guy she cheated with.

So we get into a long (and whiny) conversation about that. And then he directs me to a video of him on Youtube in which he is reciting a poem he wrote to help him deal with affrair. But in the poem, he takes on the persona of the guy she cheated with (presumably bc he believes he knows the thoughts and motivation of the guy and the details oft heir affair). And he told a friend at work about the video and soon the whole huge company knew about and it caused so much controversy and ill will, he got demoted.

And he actually shot the video in the parking lot of the church I attend.

so freakin weird!
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OMG! I'm sorry that is like the plot of a bad chick flick! Lol that's just horrible!

And I feel u with the unattractive guys. I got that a lot too. And then the really cute ones have issues. That sucks!
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Oh yeah, I went out on a first date this past Saturday. He told me he got divorced 8 years ago bc his wife cheated on him w/ one of her coworkers. And wghile we were eating dinner, who should walk into the restaurant but the guy she cheated with.

So we get into a long (and whiny) conversation about that. And then he directs me to a video of him on Youtube in which he is reciting a poem he wrote to help him deal with affrair. But in the poem, he takes on the persona of the guy she cheated with (presumably bc he believes he knows the thoughts and motivation of the guy and the details oft heir affair). And he told a friend at work about the video and soon the whole huge company knew about and it caused so much controversy and ill will, he got demoted.

And he actually shot the video in the parking lot of the church I attend.

so freakin weird!
Oh myy god! I'm sorry but I'm at work barely able to contain my laughter, that is hilarious. And sorry again! Was he at least cute? Why would he show you that?
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Oh yeah, I went out on a first date this past Saturday. He told me he got divorced 8 years ago bc his wife cheated on him w/ one of her coworkers. And wghile we were eating dinner, who should walk into the restaurant but the guy she cheated with.

So we get into a long (and whiny) conversation about that. And then he directs me to a video of him on Youtube in which he is reciting a poem he wrote to help him deal with affrair. But in the poem, he takes on the persona of the guy she cheated with (presumably bc he believes he knows the thoughts and motivation of the guy and the details oft heir affair). And he told a friend at work about the video and soon the whole huge company knew about and it caused so much controversy and ill will, he got demoted.

And he actually shot the video in the parking lot of the church I attend.

so freakin weird!
Oh myy god! I'm sorry but I'm at work barely able to contain my laughter, that is hilarious. And sorry again! Was he at least cute? Why would he show you that?
No, he was not. Not even a little.

But already invited me (and my kids, if I had them) over for Sunday dinner yesterday. (I declined.) To a poetry slam this Wednesday and to a friend's bday party this Friday. (Will be a no and a no.) And that was after a steak and lobster first date.

But the fine-as-hell ones, want to kill themselves, don't speak to their mama, tell me I need to be popped in the mouth, need to borrow money, have more than one personality, etc.

gahhhhhhhhh

He thinks he is impressing me w/ his poetry-writing skills.

(I'm a writer but not really into poetry. And he's not that good.)

And I guess he thinks he "understands" the affair is now equipped to be a great boyfriend and is somehow more self-evolved.

(He just seems bitter.)
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Spider, someone actually told you you needed to be popped in the mouth? Are you effen kidding?
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Spider, someone actually told you you needed to be popped in the mouth? Are you effen kidding?
I am def not kidding.

I think he was partly kidding but also mostly serious.
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Spider, someone actually told you you needed to be popped in the mouth? Are you effen kidding?
I am def not kidding.

I think he was partly kidding but also mostly serious.
How do you kid with something like that? How do you respond when someone tells you something like that?

Reason 101 why I dont date. You ladies are brave!
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Spider, someone actually told you you needed to be popped in the mouth? Are you effen kidding?
I am def not kidding.

I think he was partly kidding but also mostly serious.
How do you kid with something like that? How do you respond when someone tells you something like that?

Reason 101 why I dont date. You ladies are brave!

I said, "I wish a MF would try that!" LOL

It wasn't on a first date or anything. We were in a relationship. We would say the most awful things to each other. I actually thought it was funny but apparently, it would make him really mad.

The more I told people about our little spats, the more concerned they got.

And eventually, I got concerned, too. Not sure why. I never thought he would actually do anything to me. IDK...I guess just bc he was nutty in general.
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