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I now have two dates on Sunday. I don't feel like going on either .

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Originally Posted by scrills
I feel you on this....
I never had a problem getting dates, i just dont feel like dating.
I never had a problem with guys wanting to chit chat it up with me, I just dont feel like talking.
I dont feel like starting over.
I dont really mind gettin to know someone for the sake of friendship but then that would mean them getting to know me. an I cant have that.
sortof closed off i know but it is what it is.

I have a guy friend and we have been close friends since high school. but lately when we talk i get the feeling he is tryin to be something more or atleast very hopeful for it. I feel like one day he will make a move and i will have to just be a woman an shut him down quick. Hes always tellin me bout how certain things reminded him of me(pretty much tellin me that im on his mind) smh...hes comin over this weekend to watch a few red box movies an i told him i would cook. I guess ima just have him come over super duper early so he wont feel like its an intimate thing. we've had a movie night b4 in the past but i had just had a fight with a guy i was dating at the time and i was feelin vulnerable and told my guy friend to come over an it was late an there was wine. smh nothing happened tho...completely pg **** just two friends watchin movies late night but im sure he saw if diff. I dont wanna confuse him or send mixed signals but i just like company sometimes. and not new company either. bleh.
I now have two dates on Sunday. I don't feel like going on either .

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Originally Posted by scrills
I'm right there with you. I have a date next Saturday and although what he's planned out sounds nice, I'm just not feeling it. I'm not invested in our conversations, you know? But I always feel bad about cancelling plans!
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I should read this thread more! It's full of
I'm counting myself out from dating for a little while, and it's perfect that this thread is here to vicariously live through curly experiences.

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I now have two dates on Sunday. I don't feel like going on either .

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Originally Posted by scrills
Can you just keep them short and plow thru?
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I now have two dates on Sunday. I don't feel like going on either .
Originally Posted by scrills
cancel them!

why should you feel obligated?
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The paucity of good matches for me is really bringing me down! These guys are a mess! And there is no shame in their game at all...they will step to me in a second like they totally have it together. And even have the nerve to be cocky. Oh my!

So one msg'd me. I was just killing time and we sent a couple of msgs back and forth. Then it was his turn and didn't return for 10 days. I'd forgotten all about him but then he reappears and just picks up where he left off 10 days earlier, like we hadn't missed a beat.

Maybe it's just me but if I go MIA for 10 days, I have no interest and won't be speaking to you again, chances are. But if by some extenuating circumstances, I bow out of the conversation for 10 days and want to start it back up, I would certainly apologize for the delayed response.

Can I get permission to say something rude and/or utterly dismissive to him? Plz?

I can't believe I paid for 3 months. I just want this subscription to end quickly and check out a different site. Snoozers
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I'd call him out on the 10 days. You don't have to he rude about it. Unless you want lol.

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10 days is nothing... i have them get back to me after months!

but i'm old and fat... i'm not supposed to expect anything better from men.

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I'd call him out on the 10 days. You don't have to he rude about it. Unless you want lol.

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Originally Posted by multicultcurly
I'm so not interested in this guy. He is too short, it says he has completed only "some high school" and he is rather conspicuously hiding is front teeth in all four of his pictures...which are all taken in the exact same spot in his kitchen...just wearing a different hat and shirt in each.

He has the nerve to put me on ice for 10 days and then reappear suddenly, talking about, "no, I've never been to that church. Is it on Such and Such Road? How's your day going?"

Like that is important enough to reply to?

Or the ever famous...

Him: My membership is about to expire so here is my number. Call me tonight?"

Me: I don't even know your name or anything about you. Why would I want to call you? I can't call every guy who messages me; my time is too short. I'd rather get a sense of your personality and interests and lifestyle a little before I exchange numbers.

Him: email? Hit me up.

Me: Did you read anything I wrote?

Him: It's Antonio.

Me: Take care.

I just CAN'T with these guys!!!
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I cancelled the date with the Russian. I told him that maybe I would be available next week but this week is too busy.

As for the other date, I was more excited after we ended up on the phone for a couple hours on Friday night. We ended up doing lunch on Saturday. It was decent. He took me to a place that I knew would be bad (45 mins to get appetizers) and started conversations that half way through, I just decided I didn't feel like having. I felt like was being a snob and I didn't like it.

He asked me out again last night but I told him I was busy (which I was, sorta)
i think he is being romantic or trying to convey you that he really is a caring and cute guy. you shouldn't block him. just give him sometime. this man really needs your attention.
I've just cancelled my date for this weekend! I just wasn't interested in him and realised I was spending more time trying to convince myself to 'give it a go', rather than being excited.

Never mind, I've just realised my book club is meeting that day anyway and I'd much rather go to that haha.
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Going on a date with a guy you know you're not interested in is worth passing on. Lol.

Scrills - why did you cancel with the Russian?

I have no plans to do online dating again anytime soon. However, I do want to date so I need to look into ways of doing that. speed dating was fun, but I need to attend an event with a more reputable company because there was only 4 guys and 7 women.

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I now have two dates on Sunday. I don't feel like going on either .

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Originally Posted by scrills
I feel you on this....
I never had a problem getting dates, i just dont feel like dating.
I never had a problem with guys wanting to chit chat it up with me, I just dont feel like talking.
I dont feel like starting over.
Originally Posted by Banafrit
I feel like this most of the time. But since I'm open to meeting people, it happens and it can lead to something. I've never signed up to look for anyone. I lurk around here because its still similar to non online dating.
The good news is that I still get emails for match stir events, though I am not an active subscriber. Bad news is that the awesome events fill up fast so now I just have to sign up when I get them, even if I have to go alone. The cool ones have been attending a painting class while sipping wine, ziplining. There were others, but I don't remember. Lol

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Good news - a guy I started talking to on Tinder is actually LOVELY, asked for my number and we've been texting a lot. Have the strangest things in common (our dad's name & where we were born etc.) but also really great things (both speak Italian, both want to be writers etc.).

He asked me out the other day and we have a date arranged for next Sunday. Fingers crossed! I'm interested to see what he has planned. All I know is we're going to London and the rest is a mystery
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Awesome, BotBrit! Keep us posted!

I hope I will have a happy story to report soon, too.



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Good news - a guy I started talking to on Tinder is actually LOVELY, asked for my number and we've been texting a lot. Have the strangest things in common (our dad's name & where we were born etc.) but also really great things (both speak Italian, both want to be writers etc.).

He asked me out the other day and we have a date arranged for next Sunday. Fingers crossed! I'm interested to see what he has planned. All I know is we're going to London and the rest is a mystery
Originally Posted by BotticelliBrit
OoooOoOoo... I am excited to see how you like this one! Hoping for good things for you
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Thanks guys! I'm really looking forward to it. I'll let you all know how it goes and hopefully I'll be reporting back with good news
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