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Old 02-28-2010, 09:54 PM   #241
 
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don't entertain b.s. period, end of story....are you okay with someone that has 3 kids regardless of what they are or aren't willing to have? i have a one kid limit....if i had kids or didn't want kids that number might be different. a good piece of advice i've gotten...focus more on what you want in a guy than what they want in a girl...
I was being sarcastic. I do wonder if that is what he thought...that he has enough kids for her and for him, so she really wouldn't mind not having any of her own.
oh no, i know. i was writing that for cibc because most of the time when people say "wants kids" they mean their own so he knew that, yet still contacts her AND ask her if his 3 kids are an issue ignoring the fact that she said "wants kids"....so that's where my advice to cibc picks up about ignoring the b.s. and asking her if she's okay with that many kids, even if she's generally okay with someone who has kids. wasn't trying to be snarky i'm online too right now so just very anti-b.s.!!!
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I didn't think you were snarky at all. Your advice was very good.
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At least he was honest in his profile, but maybe he should stick with women who are closer to his age that either have children and don't want any more or don't want them at all!
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miracle of miracles... i had a second date with Trivia Guy.



he won this time - 3 games to 2.

darn!
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Old 03-04-2010, 06:46 PM   #245
 
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Question for match.com users!

Is there a way you can tell if a guy is a paid member and able to read emails? I tend to "wink" at guys that seem interested, and many times, they'll email me back, but sometimes, they just wink...I'd like to know if they're able to receive messages or if I'd be wasting my time by sending one!
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CIBC, to my knowledge, there is no way to know whether or not a member is a paid member. It's frustrating...I know!
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CIBC, to my knowledge, there is no way to know whether or not a member is a paid member. It's frustrating...I know!
And probably how they get people to pay more
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now i KNOW that miracles happen....

Trivia Guy wants another date!

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Sooooo.....it's starting to feel like a relationship: him making plans based on my availability; wanting to drop by during the week to take me to dinner if we're not able to spend the weekends together; speaking of vacations and wanting me there because it wouldn't be a vacation w/o me(insert *awwww*); saying things in the long-term that seem to include me in the equation, etc. It's funny because this situation is the LAST thing I would have expected, and he wouldn't have even been on my radar. At.ALL. From two different worlds, but just happen to have more in common than anyone I've encountered.

It's pretty awesome.

He even wants to meet my pops and take him out to dinner. Yeah. That right there would earn him some points with pops because he LOVES food. LOL! It also shows that he acknowledges and respects the close relationship I have with him. My mom would be harder to get out....and impress. If my pops likes you, then you're good. But if my MOM likes you, then you're REALLY good. She's critical of almost EVERYONE(and with reason).

Feeling like my Jamey-bear is a keeper(that's the nickname I gave him).
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miracle of miracles... i had a second date with Trivia Guy.



he won this time - 3 games to 2.

darn!
sounds good! would you be willing to do something other than trivia to see if there's more of a connection on other things too? he's sounding pretty good. i like his consistency!


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Sooooo.....it's starting to feel like a relationship: him making plans based on my availability; wanting to drop by during the week to take me to dinner if we're not able to spend the weekends together; speaking of vacations and wanting me there because it wouldn't be a vacation w/o me(insert *awwww*); saying things in the long-term that seem to include me in the equation, etc. It's funny because this situation is the LAST thing I would have expected, and he wouldn't have even been on my radar. At.ALL. From two different worlds, but just happen to have more in common than anyone I've encountered.

It's pretty awesome.

He even wants to meet my pops and take him out to dinner. Yeah. That right there would earn him some points with pops because he LOVES food. LOL! It also shows that he acknowledges and respects the close relationship I have with him. My mom would be harder to get out....and impress. If my pops likes you, then you're good. But if my MOM likes you, then you're REALLY good. She's critical of almost EVERYONE(and with reason).

Feeling like my Jamey-bear is a keeper(that's the nickname I gave him).
sounds like a relationship to me to!! i think you'll be having "the talk" soon if you haven't already. yippee....i love love!!! keep us posted!
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Old 03-05-2010, 09:30 PM   #251
 
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That's one crazy profile miss ma'am. Somewhat crazy pic as well.

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Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

My photo is a headshot I get tons of compliments on, and my profile gets a lot of compliments as well...(since I'm a writer.)

Who on earth tells a girl her photo is crazy?
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That's one crazy profile miss ma'am. Somewhat crazy pic as well.

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Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm?

My photo is a headshot I get tons of compliments on, and my profile gets a lot of compliments as well...(since I'm a writer.)

Who on earth tells a girl her photo is crazy?
Please tell us you didn't respond.

He's looking to get a response out of you. A guy who tries to get a response like that... isn't worth it. Could even be a spammer who is phishing.

To answer your question - a guy who isn't going to get a sane date any time in the near future.
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now i KNOW that miracles happen....

Trivia Guy wants another date!

Keep us updated!
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Heh...Miss Ma'am. This is making me think of the ridiculous names thread. Trolls so rarely have a solid grasp on grammar rules! You should take it as a compliment that he thinks your profile is "crazy" - probably means he can't understand it, which in turn means it contains at least one three-syllable word and/or creative turn of phrase.
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i had to turn down the date last night - i have completely lost my voice.

i am pretty sure i've made over 200 outgoing phone calls at work this past week. and there were another 50 to 100 incoming calls. in the space of 48 hours i went from mild sore throat to Brenda Vaccaro to unable to speak.

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Haha, I found another guy I was friends with in HS on there! I shot him a message saying how nice it was to know there were other nice, normal people on there and he responded and said the same thing
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Old 03-09-2010, 12:50 AM   #258
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lol you can talk about your weired hair or his granma.
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Old 03-09-2010, 10:18 AM   #259
 
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good thing i cancelled my third date. turns out i have pneumonia, not laryngitis.

it's not often i log on to PoF during weekdays and going by the "viewed me" list, all i can say is:

holy valley of the married men looking for something on the side!!!

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Match.com is freaking me out! It's a little overwhelming. I feel like I'm talking to too many guys and can't keep them all straight! Maybe part of me just needed to know I had options...honestly? I'm totally okay being single and it would take somebody really really really special to change that.
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