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I finally got a message from someone worth a second look! His body just won't quit! I swear His biceps are the size of my thighs! Just an all around pretty guy. He messaged me last night, and he's got a great sense of humor,and understanding of my role as a student and single parent. I hope I hear from him again tonight!

Is it "playing games" if I wait for him to message me again? Our conversation ended well last night,me inviting him to message me again if he "felt so inclined", and him saying "goodnight until tomorrow supermom "....
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Hey everyone! I think I definitely belong on this thread. I have accumulated so many dating horror stories that I started writing a book.

Things have actually been pretty slow lately, but I figured I'd introduce myself now so I can jump right in when I start getting more good stories.

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I finally got a message from someone worth a second look! His body just won't quit! I swear His biceps are the size of my thighs! Just an all around pretty guy. He messaged me last night, and he's got a great sense of humor,and understanding of my role as a student and single parent. I hope I hear from him again tonight!

Is it "playing games" if I wait for him to message me again? Our conversation ended well last night,me inviting him to message me again if he "felt so inclined", and him saying "goodnight until tomorrow supermom "....
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks

I wouldn't consider that playing games.

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That's great Coco!! No it's not playing games to let him message first. But he doesn't always have to message first, I mean once yall have messaged a bit it's fine for u to message first I think. Sometimes guy wanna know that we will


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Ok I haven't heard from him today so I went ahead and asked him how his day was. Thanks ladies. And goddess, that's exactly why I messaged him,so he knows I'm not some high maintenance chick waiting for handouts
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Great...! Yeah I've talked to guys and they like they want to know we don't expect them to do all the work.


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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
I finally got a message from someone worth a second look! His body just won't quit! I swear His biceps are the size of my thighs! Just an all around pretty guy. He messaged me last night, and he's got a great sense of humor,and understanding of my role as a student and single parent. I hope I hear from him again tonight!

Is it "playing games" if I wait for him to message me again? Our conversation ended well last night,me inviting him to message me again if he "felt so inclined", and him saying "goodnight until tomorrow supermom "....
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks
Yay! I knew it would happen! Good luck with him!

(I just noticed that you accidentally capitalized the "H" in "his" before "biceps"--is he that god-like? )
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So MilitaryMan is crazy busy... Sucky work schedule...but he's doing it cause it's good money. He seems responsible. He said girls he's met are not so understanding of that. I'm gonna try to be tho. He's super nice...real sweet...and cute. Seems to like me a lot too! He could be boyfriend material.


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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
So MilitaryMan is crazy busy... Sucky work schedule...but he's doing it cause it's good money. He seems responsible. He said girls he's met are not so understanding of that. I'm gonna try to be tho. He's super nice...real sweet...and cute. Seems to like me a lot too! He could be boyfriend material.


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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls
Let's hope so! My fingers are crossed for you!!

Ursula, lol no I definitely didn't mean to capitalize the H! No guy besides Jesus deserves all that! Haha.

Only thing that kinda worries me is he's never been in a relationship... At least that's what his profile says...and talking to him I can believe it. He seems innocent and sweet. I'll reserve judgment until we've gone out a couple times if it gets that far.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Aw, thats great Goddess! Nothing wrong with a man willing to put in the hours to be more sucessful, right? I never got why other women have a problem with that. I'd rather he be working late than out with his boys all the time like my ex. Fingers crossed for you too that he works out!

Coco, happy you found someone worth your time! If you dont mind, how old is he? Does he seem like he's looking for a relationship even though he's never had one?

I finally went on a date with a second guy. He was very nice, conversation was easy and he was better looking than his pictures. He seems very metro...and I havent quite figured out how I feel about that, lol.
@Coco can't wait for an update after you get to know him better. I'm excited for you

So I deleted my profile from pof a while ago, but I met someone this week on a non-dating site, we had a first date last night. He wants to hang out today. seems like a nice guy, he has his stuff together so we'll see how it flows.

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I wish I had the nerve to meet these guys in person

I'll talk to some guys for months but I'm SO shy and SCARED to actually meet them! (Not scared that they'll kill me, scared that they'll see me and leave or scared that I won't like them at all but they'll like me and I"ll have to tell them that, or scared that I'm going to panic and settle because there's nothing wrong with them and I'm not getting any younger.)
Join the club...in nor getting any younger either...and I really wanna find love. But I have to believe that I will someday. Try and have more confidence in yourself.


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I wish I had the nerve to meet these guys in person

I'll talk to some guys for months but I'm SO shy and SCARED to actually meet them! (Not scared that they'll kill me, scared that they'll see me and leave or scared that I won't like them at all but they'll like me and I"ll have to tell them that, or scared that I'm going to panic and settle because there's nothing wrong with them and I'm not getting any younger.)
Originally Posted by CanItBeChristine
I feel you when it comes to the bolded. For some reason I'm not as anxious about the opposite possibility--that I'll like them and they won't like me--but I think that's because I have pretty low self esteem and assume that will be the case most of the time. But now there are 2 guys I have to call back who want to go out again and I am dreading having the conversation about how I'd rather not. They are both so nice, but they're just not for me. Why is this so hard for me?
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So I've been talking to the hot guy on the dating site,and he admitted he has a panty fetish...has bought panties and kept them... And then tells me he watches porn daily and that if we were to date,he would basically need sex all the time in order to not look at porn,or at least send him pictures and video of me so he won't look at porn.

I don't like these things. What do y'all think?
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
I would run the hell away from that, Coco. And I don't mind the sex everyday, but trust that it would not keep him from wanting more.

So which websites are you all on? I've always said I don't think online dating is for me, but I'm starting to wonder if I should at least dip my toe in the pool at some point. I remember some here who felt PoF was pretty bad, so which free sites do you ladies like?
So I've been talking to the hot guy on the dating site,and he admitted he has a panty fetish...has bought panties and kept them... And then tells me he watches porn daily and that if we were to date,he would basically need sex all the time in order to not look at porn,or at least send him pictures and video of me so he won't look at porn.

I don't like these things. What do y'all think?
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks
Block him.
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Yep sure did. On top of all that he also admitted he worked at a sex shop, and let someone try a dildo on him... NO THANKS. Can we say sexual deviant?? Gross.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Ya I would run far far away coco! Why do all the 1s that seem good turn out to be the crazies or frustrating 1s?!?!?!

I still am completely at a loss for words with what's goin on right now with the boy! We are friends and still hang out, i love hanging out with him and his friends bc its always fun out there and 1 of my friends was kinda talking to 1 of his friends so we were still goin out there. My friend and I went out there sat night when we got there it was him, the guy my friend was talking to, and 2 more guys. SO MUCH CRAZY FUN! 3 of his neighbors came over, we all hung out... 2 of em left and 1 stayed. We were all playing darts and goofing around and all a sudden it.just got chill.... The guy and my friend were talking for a long time. I had my phone charging and went to mess with the charger and boys friend tried kissing me, and he got a lil pissed off(mind u he still has a girlfriend) my friend and I went to.go to sleep, in his bed and he and 1 of the other guys came and jumped on us and him and I ended up cuddling and goin to sleep that way(there was 4 of us in the bed no way to sleep but.not cuddle.lol) my friend told me about their convo. he considers me 1 of his best friends and doesn't want to mess that up... But he really likes me and wouldn't want me around as much as he does if he didn't like me so much. He would love to be in a relationship with me but he didn't think we 'clicked' like that my friends response was, have u met her?!?! Yall click better then any1 I know, yall click better then her and I do and she is my best friend! But if we clicked better he would love to have a relationship with me and could see it going really far and really wants it to and hopes that it does. She asked him about the gettin in a relationship thing and he said it.just kinda happened and it was kinda like wanting to just see what happened.... Idk what to think about the clicking thing or the just seeing what happened with the other relationship thing.... I have thought all along he was kinda pushed into it bc the gf is 1 of his good friends best friends and so its like she pushed it on him kinda... I'm jot the only 1 who has thought that kinda thing either, most of his friends do also. Sooooo I really have no clue what's goin on

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Ya I would run far far away coco! Why do all the 1s that seem good turn out to be the crazies or frustrating 1s?!?!?!

I still am completely at a loss for words with what's goin on right now with the boy! We are friends and still hang out, i love hanging out with him and his friends bc its always fun out there and 1 of my friends was kinda talking to 1 of his friends so we were still goin out there. My friend and I went out there sat night when we got there it was him, the guy my friend was talking to, and 2 more guys. SO MUCH CRAZY FUN! 3 of his neighbors came over, we all hung out... 2 of em left and 1 stayed. We were all playing darts and goofing around and all a sudden it.just got chill.... The guy and my friend were talking for a long time. I had my phone charging and went to mess with the charger and boys friend tried kissing me, and he got a lil pissed off(mind u he still has a girlfriend) my friend and I went to.go to sleep, in his bed and he and 1 of the other guys came and jumped on us and him and I ended up cuddling and goin to sleep that way(there was 4 of us in the bed no way to sleep but.not cuddle.lol) my friend told me about their convo. he considers me 1 of his best friends and doesn't want to mess that up... But he really likes me and wouldn't want me around as much as he does if he didn't like me so much. He would love to be in a relationship with me but he didn't think we 'clicked' like that my friends response was, have u met her?!?! Yall click better then any1 I know, yall click better then her and I do and she is my best friend! But if we clicked better he would love to have a relationship with me and could see it going really far and really wants it to and hopes that it does. She asked him about the gettin in a relationship thing and he said it.just kinda happened and it was kinda like wanting to just see what happened.... Idk what to think about the clicking thing or the just seeing what happened with the other relationship thing.... I have thought all along he was kinda pushed into it bc the gf is 1 of his good friends best friends and so its like she pushed it on him kinda... I'm jot the only 1 who has thought that kinda thing either, most of his friends do also. Sooooo I really have no clue what's goin on

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Originally Posted by curlybran
Sounds like you need to turn your attn elsewhere. Don't try to figure it out.
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