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I agree with spider
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Why are relationships and love so friggin difficult??


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You're asking the wrong people honey! Lol. I hate the getting to know you phase of dating. It's like ok let's play 20 questions and be nervous and awkward around each other. For the birds I say.

I do however, feel very comfortable around the guy in my class. Don't get nervous or feel like I have to watch what I say. He obviously is attracted to who I really am so I don't need to put on a show.
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I have met enuff nice guys on POF there was just usually something missing. I thought meeting new people and dating was supposed to be fun...


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Why are relationships and love so friggin difficult??


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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls
Because nowadays people are not focused on the important things.... They don't make men like they use too.... Girl God is going to give you Mr Right.... These so called men don't define a real man.... It will be hard to find the good ones when all those gold digging ho** keep trying to get them........ some of them already messed up a lot of the really good ones.... Also the men don't have the same morals like before all they think about is money sex and drugs....

*Naturalistic Beauty*
I had men come up to me and gave me straight bullshi* about how good of a man they were and then they slipped....

I had men come to me and tell what they wanted to do to me sexually even before introducing them selves...

I had married men flirt with me in front of their wives and ask for a three sum excluding their wives while their wife stand their in shock....

Men are so dam disrespectful!

*Naturalistic Beauty*
Sure,dating is fun, when you're not on a timeline like we are.
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Why are relationships and love so friggin difficult??


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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls
Because nowadays people are not focused on the important things.... They don't make men like they use too.... Girl God is going to give you Mr Right.... These so called men don't define a real man.... It will be hard to find the good ones when all those gold digging ho** keep trying to get them........ some of them already messed up a lot of the really good ones.... Also the men don't have the same morals like before all they think about is money sex and drugs....

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Originally Posted by NaturalisticMe
That is true. As far as the God thing...that gets me into trouble...cause a guy I'm seeing is all about God...but is conflicted because I'm not. So I kinda need a guy like me I guess...who believes in a higher power...but doesn't judge...or feel we need to spend 6 hours in church...cause that ain't happening! Lol


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I'm a Christian, and I love God but sure as heck don't feel it's necessary to spend hours in church. Absolutely not.
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Sure,dating is fun, when you're not on a timeline like we are.
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks
Why are you on a timeline? Didn't you say you already had kids?
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Just because I have kids doesn't mean I'm not on a timeline. My kids don't have involved fathers, so I want them to have the complete package of a real family with a full-time father and mother who love each other.
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Why are relationships and love so friggin difficult??


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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls
Because nowadays people are not focused on the important things.... They don't make men like they use too.... Girl God is going to give you Mr Right.... These so called men don't define a real man.... It will be hard to find the good ones when all those gold digging ho** keep trying to get them........ some of them already messed up a lot of the really good ones.... Also the men don't have the same morals like before all they think about is money sex and drugs....

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Originally Posted by NaturalisticMe
That is true. As far as the God thing...that gets me into trouble...cause a guy I'm seeing is all about God...but is conflicted because I'm not. So I kinda need a guy like me I guess...who believes in a higher power...but doesn't judge...or feel we need to spend 6 hours in church...cause that ain't happening! Lol


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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls
LMAO.... Girl who spend six hours in church.... If someone goes to church and is judgmental that person is not a Christian.... But i understand what you are coming from.... Lol heck naw 6hrs I'm still laughing at that....

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Just because I have kids doesn't mean I'm not on a timeline. My kids don't have involved fathers, so I want them to have the complete package of a real family with a full-time father and mother who love each other.
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks
Oh that will be amazing..... I also believe in God but honesty i will like to be closer to him spiritually.... I don't want to go to him with fear but because i truly love him and am interested in learning about him.... Now it feels like I'm being forced n pushed into it.... I want that urge for him until then I'm still trying to live a life that's not toooo much full of sins lol....

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Just because I have kids doesn't mean I'm not on a timeline. My kids don't have involved fathers, so I want them to have the complete package of a real family with a full-time father and mother who love each other.
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks
Just out of curiosity, are you saying either of these things (that you are on a timeline and that you are looking for a father for your children) when you meet these men online?
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NO!!! WTH!! He sounds crazy a hell, I'm glad you decided to leave him alone.

Yep sure did. On top of all that he also admitted he worked at a sex shop, and let someone try a dildo on him... NO THANKS. Can we say sexual deviant?? Gross.
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks


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Just because I have kids doesn't mean I'm not on a timeline. My kids don't have involved fathers, so I want them to have the complete package of a real family with a full-time father and mother who love each other.
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks
Just out of curiosity, are you saying either of these things (that you are on a timeline and that you are looking for a father for your children) when you meet these men online?
Originally Posted by spiderlashes5000
Nope. What's your point?
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip

Last edited by CoCoLoCks; 03-29-2012 at 06:01 PM.
NO!!! WTH!! He sounds crazy a hell, I'm glad you decided to leave him alone.

Yep sure did. On top of all that he also admitted he worked at a sex shop, and let someone try a dildo on him... NO THANKS. Can we say sexual deviant?? Gross.
Originally Posted by CoCoLoCks


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Originally Posted by secret_karma
LMAO!!! I know right?! Nooooo thank you sir! Darn shame too because he was pretty. Smh.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip

Because nowadays people are not focused on the important things.... They don't make men like they use too.... Girl God is going to give you Mr Right.... These so called men don't define a real man.... It will be hard to find the good ones when all those gold digging ho** keep trying to get them........ some of them already messed up a lot of the really good ones.... Also the men don't have the same morals like before all they think about is money sex and drugs....

*Naturalistic Beauty*
Originally Posted by NaturalisticMe
That is true. As far as the God thing...that gets me into trouble...cause a guy I'm seeing is all about God...but is conflicted because I'm not. So I kinda need a guy like me I guess...who believes in a higher power...but doesn't judge...or feel we need to spend 6 hours in church...cause that ain't happening! Lol


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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls
LMAO.... Girl who spend six hours in church.... If someone goes to church and is judgmental that person is not a Christian.... But i understand what you are coming from.... Lol heck naw 6hrs I'm still laughing at that....

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Originally Posted by NaturalisticMe
LMAO!!! Yeah...last time he was there on a Sunday...he left me early to go to church....texted me later...said he was off for an hour at church but the whole process took like 6 hours...2 sermans..



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Help...ChristianBoy had asked me to the movies 2 weeks ago for this Saturday...he forgot and made plans for a sports thing. So now he's asking if I could hang to watch one of our shows on Sunday...since he screwed up with our plans. I haven't answered yet...and I am free...should I say I'm busy?


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That is true. As far as the God thing...that gets me into trouble...cause a guy I'm seeing is all about God...but is conflicted because I'm not. So I kinda need a guy like me I guess...who believes in a higher power...but doesn't judge...or feel we need to spend 6 hours in church...cause that ain't happening! Lol


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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls
LMAO.... Girl who spend six hours in church.... If someone goes to church and is judgmental that person is not a Christian.... But i understand what you are coming from.... Lol heck naw 6hrs I'm still laughing at that....

*Naturalistic Beauty*
Originally Posted by NaturalisticMe
LMAO!!! Yeah...last time he was there on a Sunday...he left me early to go to church....texted me later...said he was off for an hour at church but the whole process took like 6 hours...2 sermans..

And it's not that I don't believe in God...I'm just a Pagan...and am more all inclusive with my beliefs. I don't presume to know the nature of whatever consciousness it is that started it all...and I could really give a crap what the bible says...cause it's just a book...written by people...who are fallible. Now give me a book the our creator wrote...that I'll follow!! Lol

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Originally Posted by GoddessCurls



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