Are you saying he texted or called you and asked you out again or tried to communicate w/ you as though he is assuming you guys will go out again?I decided to not respond to the "titterer". I figured since we'd only met up for coffee once, that I didnt owe him a "breakup" email or text....I do feel a little bad though. Did i do the wrong thing?
In that case, I would respond and decline politey and give a brief explanation of "no chemistry," "better off as friends," "pursuing something w/ someone else" etc.
Sometimes, the guy knows the dated sucked and/or that I didn't enjoy myself and he won't call to ask for another date (he'll hint while still on the date that he hopes for another date but when I repeatedly give off "not interested" signals on the date, he won't follow up w/ a call). In those instances, I don't bother to call/text/email just to tell him what he already knows...that I'm not interested.
Or sometimes, I will go out w/ a guy and he will suspect I didn't enjoy myself so he will send a "feeler" text/email or leave a "feeler" voicemail, saying something like, "what's new?" or "how are you doing?"
In that case, I may or may not respond. If I do, it's very curt like, "not much" or "fine thnx" and they usually get the hint after a couple of those msgs.
But if a guy contacts me to say, "I had a great time and I can't wait to see you again. Are you free on Friday?" then I will respond and politely tell him I'm not interested.
Wow, the titter was that annoying to you? LOL
Would you consider telling him that, i.e., for future reference? LOL
3b (with 3c tendencies) on modified CG