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Goddess- I'm sorry bday guy fell through the cracks!! I really had high hopes for him..And now that you mention the not dating older women bit, I wholeheartedly agree he kind of wants someone he can dominate and sort of boss around...and I don't like that. That explains his comment about you driving out to see him...take a seat please! Ugh. Who is the person your friend has for you??

I've been getting closer to Steve..we talk everyday...I really like him, but the distance is just weird..I don't know when he'll be back to Texas, and I'm uncomfortable with the fact that there's no talk of his visiting. I know we're in very early stages, but I'm worried about getting close enough to him to where the distance will become a big factor.

Mechanic called me about an hour ago. I hadn't text him in over a week because I was just done being put off all the time. He called tonight to apologize, and leave the ball in my court saying he'd love another chance, and for us to start over, and for him to "have the chance to tell me I'm beautiful to my face". He came to the conclusion that he needs to cut back on his work hours so he can enjoy life again, and that his friends called him out for being "a downer" this past week and that they noticed how happy he was when he and I were talking. I gave him a really hard time about his behavior, and let him know I was really hurt by his actions, and that if he treated me like that again he's off the list for good. Not sure how it'll pan out, but I do believe he's a good guy. I think he's gotten so used to not being in a relationship that he lost sight of how things work. IDK, we'll see.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Wow....well that's good about ur long distance guy...and good about mechanic too.

I don't know about my friend...but we kinda like the same type...she knows I'm picky...and a little nuts...lol so we'll see. I know she was talking to a cop she knew once and was like I'm sure my cop friend has some other cop friends...so we'll see about that. Also a dude she's friends with now that she digs has a brother about my age so....here's hoping.
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Any news on the cop yet?? I think you'd be good with a cop actually lol. IDK why, I think because of your personality ya'll would fit well. Does that sound weird? oh god. have you been to the doctor for your rude uterus yet?? And did you say you officially cut it off with bday guy??

Mechanic and I are back in the swing of things but he's different. In a good way. I can tell he knows he's still on thin ice, so he's making that effort. I honestly don't think he'll make that mistake again simply because he was so apologetic to begin with. But guys always find a way to prove you wrong so we'll see won't we?

I didn't hear from Steve all day yesterday because he had a bodybuilding competition that ran pretty much all day. I told him good luck in the morning and he thanked me, but that was about it which is fine. I'll probably keep things going with him until a real decision needs to be made...although I'm still not impressed with the distance part and the uncertainty of when or how we'll get to see each other...sigh. I'm tempted to cut it off now to save myself the heartache later when it becomes inevitable we break it off. It doesn't help the mechanic has always been my first choice either....
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
I was always pulling for mechanic anyway. I hope he wises up this time

And yeah....I'm not dating bday guy. He still texts....wants to be friends....still thinks something is gonna happen even though I was pretty up front with him.

No news on cop. I think she's looking thru her friends....and friends friends. I'm texting the great kisser again. The one I met on pof ages ago....when we finally went out he was like the best kisser in the world but had issue with my religion. He's been texting again, said he thought I was a card carrying, hexing, witch. When I said I wasn't....he relaxed. So who knows. I guess I'm just gonna chill for now ...at least with my surgery coming up.

And my cyst surgery and endometrial ablation are on the 26. I'll have some time off work to just relax and I'm gonna try not to worry abt men! Lol
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
Oh Wow surgery!! Thank goodness because I was really wondering what they could do for you since it had gotten so bad.

Haha he thought you were a witch! What a crazy fool that is hilarious. Did you fully explain what your religion actually entails? And do you think y'all could start something relationship wise??

Bday guy can go to hell with his condescending behind. I love how he's still thinking he's got his foot in the door even after you told him the business.

Everybody I told about mechanic is pulling for him LOL. They said I was the happiest I'd been in years when he and I were talking so I guess that means something. And I'm happy he came to realize what he'd done and came back to apologize without the assumption I'd take him back.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Yay...I hope things work out with him.

And who know if me and the kisser could have something....we were pretty attracted to each other and had a good time. Even after we didn't get to date when we first met...we had been texting for ages....I felt like I knew him. I explained the basics. I'm actually more spiritual now than following anyone religion. I've always referred to myself as a Pagan tho. I just don't like close minded people pushin what they believe on me. No one has convinced me that they hold the one true way to the Creator....so I try to learn abt it all.

So we'll see...there was chemistry.

And abt my surgery. I am hopeful the ablation will help...I've read where some chicks stop getting a period altogether. The cyst surgery wouldn't help with the bleeding...cause that's from the fibroids. So they r adding the ablation it will add only like 20 minutes on to my procedure and might work. I wanna come off these hormones...lol
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
OMG can you imagine no period ever again?! Heavennnnnn! How long is the down time after surgery? Maybe the good kisser can come snuggle you hahahaha whoo!

Mechanic is like you,he doesn't belong to a specific religious group,he likes Christian values but likes to learn about everything also.

Does the kisser live close to you? What does he do for a living? What is this twenty questions? Sorry.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Kisser is near Philly, from Chicago originally. He's some bigwig financial officer with a bank. Just bought a new town house and car. I think he's way fancier than me but seems down to earth. Has lived in se hoods growing up..lol

Dr said a week. I'm off Friday the 26th for the procedure....then all of the following week. They said I can do stuff but just take it easy and don't lift anything heavy. I'll have lots of time for tv and my kindle..I'll also prolly be checking the site a lot! Lol

We're hoping it works...for some women it just delays the inevitable which would mean getting the fibroids out which would be days in the hospital and like 3-3 weeks recovery time. I'd get that but I don't have the time off from work yet...and I really don't wanna stay over in a hospital...I'd have to take my cat toy cousins...just a big hassle. So gingers crossed this works!

I'd love not having a period...or something so light I barely notice. It's not like I need it for anything...not making any babies....lol
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
Oh...and he's in Newark De
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
Wait wait who's in Newark???
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
The good kisser. I didn't have his location when u asked...then I remembered
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
Well, mechanic has already messed it up. He was off work today, and text me a total of 3 times within 7 hours. He said he was cleaning. While I understand that, what made me angry was the fact he spent so much time trying to convince me he'd be making more time for me. you have no kids, and live with someone who is hardly home, what do you have to clean that prevents you from making normal conversation at a timely manner? I'm done with excuses. I had a feeling he'd show his true colors sooner rather than later. I sent him a text telling him I was not going for round 2 of his lack of interest, and that there are plenty of men out there who would take his place in a second. I told him I know what I deserve and it isn't what he's dishing out. I told him also that it's not my fault he's a workaholic and miserable because of it. I told him if he really wanted to make things work, he'd best pick up a phone like normal people do and informed him if he chooses not to respond at all, not to contact me a week from now when he's sorry again. He didn't respond and probably won't. That is my cue to cut it off. Too many excuses and we haven't even met!! He will continue to miserable because of the way he is but I won't allow him to drag me down too. Have a seat please!
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
I'm sorry...jeez! Men just suck!!
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
I had to be kinda mean to bday guy....he kept pushin! It's like if we argue this much and it's only been a month....it's not working. I was trying to be nice but he wasn't getting it. I said it every way I can!! We are not dating!! Jeez why is it always the ones u don't want who is all on u?
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
What! What was he saying? And yes it's always the one you don't want who are more than willing to put forth time! I have guys on pof who messaged me three or four times within a two month period. It's like hey,I didn't answer the first time because I'm not interested!!!!! And I'm still not! Have a seat.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Then I sit here and watch chick flicks..and or read chick lit....it makes me feel sad...and more single!!!
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
And not to mention holidays are here and I'm alone yet another year!! It disgusts me because every one else in my friend group are in relationships!
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
Ugh! Yes! The holidays. Not to mention its cold out and I'd like someone to snuggle with. Preferably someone who doesn't get on my nerves! Man...I'm just hopeless!
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.
I hate it! Mechanic just replied with: yeah I guess you're right, between work and watching my niece on weekends it doesn't leave a whole lot of me time. I said: no,you just don't want to make the time but good luck with that. Ass.
25", hennahead, CO, goal: hip
U know I know I'm a little nutty. I mean I had a brain virus when I was younger...and there are side effects... I anxiety, poor memory, attention span issues...and I am not spontaneous...I need to plan and can blow things out of proportion. I also tend to be depressed. I know all these things abt myself and I am honest about them to guys. I don't know whether it makes me extra picky or turn down guys that maybe don't have anything wrong except for the feeling is just wrong. This might just be my fate
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Back on Cones,so now my routine is,wash with Deva No-Poo every other day or so. Occasionally use 365 sulfate free,maybe use low sulfate shampoo mixed with conditioner once every two weeks are longer. I condition with Aussie Moist or HEHH. I style with a little GF TN,and finish up with tons of GN Pure Clean Smoothing Cream. No frizz...slippy, happy hair.

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