He did it (long)

i'm sorry for your loss and what you're going through....
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please recycle, it matters...
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i'm more relaxed being natural
my ex-fiance announced one morning that he didn't want to be engaged to me anymore. he asked for the ring back and the answer was no because he broke the engagement.
i hope your ex-fiance took the ring off of your finger that he placed it in the palm of your hand because that ring legally beloongs to you.
Originally Posted by frau
i love you frau!

ninja, big hugs and i hope everything works out for the best.
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You guys are so great......
I'm so sorry, ninjadog, you must be hurting terribly. As others have said, it will get better, although I know it doesn't seem like it right now.
I haven't got the slightest idea how to change people, but I still keep a long list of prospective candidates just in case I should ever figure it out.
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I'm doing okay. Wild~Hair gave me great advice, and knowing so many friends are out there really helped me.

I may be a shaky mess again tomorrow, but I think I can breathe again.

Thank yooooooooooooouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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Yeah, wild~hair is awesome, isn't she?
I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hugs to you (and your pets - that is so heartbreaking).


"Yesterday's history, tomorrow's a mystery, today is a gift . . . that's why it's called the present." - Unknown
I'm sorry this has happened. It sucks. i know. I've been there.. a few months ago. Look for my older post. Everyone here was so supportive.
It will be hard. lets be honest. I couldn't sleep , and i got up with very heavy heart. Its the sense of lost. You're grieving. Some days are easier , some days are too difficult when all you want to do is cry and your head constantly processes everything bit of the relationship. It is bound to happen. I thought it wouldn't never end. And I was going to end up lonely and sad. I was sad and i was lonely. But time really heals. I took a trip to Sydney and enjoyed the scene. There is more to life.. and there are so many men out there. ( even if you're not interested) . Just give yourself time.. it gets easier. It got easier for me after 2 months. I still did miss him and wish for things otherwise.. but it happened. And i have to go. You have to go on. take baby steps.
And the end of the day , all you've got is yourself..
he removed the engagement ring from my finger.

wow...just wow....

We are here for you. I'm sorry you are dealing w/ this. Time will make it better. (((hugs)))
Originally Posted by WileECoyote - Daddy's grl
Yeah....


I'm so sorry!
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Here's all you have to know about men and women: women are crazy, men are stupid. And the main reason women are crazy is that men are stupid. ~ George Carlin
i'm so sorry, ninjadog. the pain must be terrible. but from your description, i honestly don't think this man would have made a good husband.

you deserve someone reliable and kind.
I hate turtlenecks. Wearing a turtleneck is like being strangled by a really weak guy.

- Mitch Hedberg
Ninja dear. This song came on my mp3 player today and it made me think of you. It's not exactly a break-up song, but a wonderful song to listen to whenever someone has hurt or wronged you.

Right between the eyes by Garbage.

I'm having trouble with youtube not playing right now. I don't know if it's just me or what. So here are the lyrics

Right Between The Eyes lyrics

Don't care what they have to say
Why you listening to them anyway
Why do you have to give them what they want?
They love to watch you as you fall apart

Stick it to them like a phoenix rise
There's nothing grander than the big surprise
They can't hurt you with their sticks and stones
About time take them right between the eyes

Seek to destroy cause they're scared of you
That's why they try to make a fool of you
They're so jealous of my pretty star
Cause you've got soul inside your shattered heart

Stick it to them like a phoenix rise
There's nothing grander than the big surprise
They can't hurt you with their sticks and stones
About time take them right between the eyes

And you've been waiting all your life
To fly high into somebody else
And it's true it's a cruel, cruel world
Life's a ***** and then you die my love

Don't care what they have to say
You shouldn't listen to them anyway

Stick it to them like a phoenix rise
There's nothing grander than the big surprise
They can't hurt you with their sticks and stones
About time take them right between the eyes

People like to build you up
Then they'll stab you in the back like that
You know it breaks my heart
Can't see you going out like that

Stay alive my love
Stay alive my love
Stay alive my love
Stay alive my love
We all have a phoenix inside of us. If you nurture yourself, give yourself time to heal, and not let pain and bitterness consume you. She will rise from the ashes of your pain, and you will dazzle everyone with your strength, beauty and compassion.
I'm so sorry but as others have said, it will be hard but you will grow stronger and eventually be thankful that he broke it off.
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You guys are lifesavers.

I love this website.
We all have a phoenix inside of us. If you nurture yourself, give yourself time to heal, and not let pain and bitterness consume you. She will rise from the ashes of your pain, and you will dazzle everyone with your strength, beauty and compassion.
Cympreni. That is so true.

After i broke up , i knew thats what i need. Of course in addition to doing whatever i was doing , i also got myself a new tattoo..



A phoenix!
And the end of the day , all you've got is yourself..
I'm sorry your going through this. I know it hurts. (I was dumped over the phone after 8 years) It will be Ok. I'm living proof.

I did find that I was grieving the IDEA of the relationship rather than the person.

But I promise. It will get better. Keeping busy helps.


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A phoenix!
Originally Posted by O d d i s y~
Very pretty, Oddisy!
Yeah, wild~hair is awesome, isn't she?
Originally Posted by WileECoyote - Daddy's grl
Aw, shucks!

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