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Old 08-17-2008, 10:43 AM   #61
 
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Oh no. (((HUGS)))
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Old 08-17-2008, 11:28 AM   #62
 
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i'm sorry for your loss and what you're going through....
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Old 08-17-2008, 12:13 PM   #63
 
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my ex-fiance announced one morning that he didn't want to be engaged to me anymore. he asked for the ring back and the answer was no because he broke the engagement.
i hope your ex-fiance took the ring off of your finger that he placed it in the palm of your hand because that ring legally beloongs to you.
i love you frau!

ninja, big hugs and i hope everything works out for the best.
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Old 08-17-2008, 12:18 PM   #64
 
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Old 08-17-2008, 12:22 PM   #65
 
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You guys are so great......
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Old 08-17-2008, 03:28 PM   #66
 
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i am so sorry, ninja.
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Old 08-17-2008, 04:21 PM   #67
 
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I'm so sorry, ninjadog, you must be hurting terribly. As others have said, it will get better, although I know it doesn't seem like it right now.
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Old 08-17-2008, 07:55 PM   #68
 
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I'm doing okay. Wild~Hair gave me great advice, and knowing so many friends are out there really helped me.

I may be a shaky mess again tomorrow, but I think I can breathe again.

Thank yooooooooooooouuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu
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Old 08-17-2008, 07:57 PM   #69
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Yeah, wild~hair is awesome, isn't she?
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Old 08-17-2008, 08:04 PM   #70
 
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I'm so sorry you're going through this. Hugs to you (and your pets - that is so heartbreaking).
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Old 08-17-2008, 11:27 PM   #71
 
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I'm sorry this has happened. It sucks. i know. I've been there.. a few months ago. Look for my older post. Everyone here was so supportive.
It will be hard. lets be honest. I couldn't sleep , and i got up with very heavy heart. Its the sense of lost. You're grieving. Some days are easier , some days are too difficult when all you want to do is cry and your head constantly processes everything bit of the relationship. It is bound to happen. I thought it wouldn't never end. And I was going to end up lonely and sad. I was sad and i was lonely. But time really heals. I took a trip to Sydney and enjoyed the scene. There is more to life.. and there are so many men out there. ( even if you're not interested) . Just give yourself time.. it gets easier. It got easier for me after 2 months. I still did miss him and wish for things otherwise.. but it happened. And i have to go. You have to go on. take baby steps.
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Old 08-18-2008, 07:01 AM   #72
 
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he removed the engagement ring from my finger.

wow...just wow....

We are here for you. I'm sorry you are dealing w/ this. Time will make it better. (((hugs)))
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I'm so sorry!
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Old 08-18-2008, 10:05 AM   #73
 
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i'm so sorry, ninjadog. the pain must be terrible. but from your description, i honestly don't think this man would have made a good husband.

you deserve someone reliable and kind.
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Old 08-18-2008, 11:16 AM   #74
 
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Ninja dear. This song came on my mp3 player today and it made me think of you. It's not exactly a break-up song, but a wonderful song to listen to whenever someone has hurt or wronged you.

Right between the eyes by Garbage.

I'm having trouble with youtube not playing right now. I don't know if it's just me or what. So here are the lyrics

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Right Between The Eyes lyrics

Don't care what they have to say
Why you listening to them anyway
Why do you have to give them what they want?
They love to watch you as you fall apart

Stick it to them like a phoenix rise
There's nothing grander than the big surprise
They can't hurt you with their sticks and stones
About time take them right between the eyes

Seek to destroy cause they're scared of you
That's why they try to make a fool of you
They're so jealous of my pretty star
Cause you've got soul inside your shattered heart

Stick it to them like a phoenix rise
There's nothing grander than the big surprise
They can't hurt you with their sticks and stones
About time take them right between the eyes

And you've been waiting all your life
To fly high into somebody else
And it's true it's a cruel, cruel world
Life's a ***** and then you die my love

Don't care what they have to say
You shouldn't listen to them anyway

Stick it to them like a phoenix rise
There's nothing grander than the big surprise
They can't hurt you with their sticks and stones
About time take them right between the eyes

People like to build you up
Then they'll stab you in the back like that
You know it breaks my heart
Can't see you going out like that

Stay alive my love
Stay alive my love
Stay alive my love
Stay alive my love
We all have a phoenix inside of us. If you nurture yourself, give yourself time to heal, and not let pain and bitterness consume you. She will rise from the ashes of your pain, and you will dazzle everyone with your strength, beauty and compassion.
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Old 08-18-2008, 11:53 AM   #75
 
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I'm so sorry but as others have said, it will be hard but you will grow stronger and eventually be thankful that he broke it off.
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You guys are lifesavers.

I love this website.
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Old 08-18-2008, 10:00 PM   #77
 
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We all have a phoenix inside of us. If you nurture yourself, give yourself time to heal, and not let pain and bitterness consume you. She will rise from the ashes of your pain, and you will dazzle everyone with your strength, beauty and compassion.
Cympreni. That is so true.

After i broke up , i knew thats what i need. Of course in addition to doing whatever i was doing , i also got myself a new tattoo..



A phoenix!
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Old 08-18-2008, 10:10 PM   #78
 
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I'm sorry your going through this. I know it hurts. (I was dumped over the phone after 8 years) It will be Ok. I'm living proof.

I did find that I was grieving the IDEA of the relationship rather than the person.

But I promise. It will get better. Keeping busy helps.
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Old 08-19-2008, 01:04 AM   #79
 
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A phoenix!
Very pretty, Oddisy!
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Old 08-19-2008, 01:07 AM   #80
 
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Yeah, wild~hair is awesome, isn't she?
Aw, shucks!
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